Tygerscent

This is a really great topic… My point of you and practices have changed over the course of 20 some years. Most of my Clients are straight identifying with families and careers that might be impacted if we were to meet in public and openly acknowledge some relationship together. Due to my career in the adult industry, my involvement in politics, the public and community for fundraising events etc., it’s easy to find me on the Internet and people do recognize me in random places like cafés, restaurants, airports, theaters etc. This can take place even in different countries. i’ve been open about who I am to my Family and Friends but, also understand that who I am may also impact their lives on various levels. So, I respond accordingly to what is appropriate for us~ When I see somebody that I know or recognize, I may not be by myself. I may be with another client that precise time who would not be comfortable with me acknowledging this other Client I’m randomly seeing in public while with him/her. Hire situation’s are not always clear cut or predictable. There have been instances where a couple is married or have been partnered for 20 some odd years. Without disclosing to each other, each has hired me privately on different occasions and perhaps numerous times ongoing. It is absolutely inappropriate for me to “out” them but, that is precisely what can happen if I acknowledge either one of them in public. My public that could be walking around in some city or at a party or a restaurant or a theater… Instead, I will take some personal moment later to send that person a text and say how happy I was to see them but explain that I was maybe with somebody else and unable to chat with them at that time. I think that there are communities where concerns like that may not be a greater concern. Some social circles, couples and cultures are a bit more open about things but, I have to be careful because I’m still obligated to protect the people who don’t have that aspect of being out about everything in their personal life . My particular style is to establish what degree of privacy and anonymity any given Client requires~ There are Clients I have spent holidays with, attended family weddings and reunions with… I’ve gone with them to high school reunions and more… Eating dinner with their families and friends… Picnics and parties and stuff. Sometimes everybody knows who I am and what I’m doing there and other times I am simply a friend, acquaintance, travel companion~ Add times I’m with people who are trying to get thru medical school, applying for jobs, waiting for their spouses, (male or female). Those people can be Clients or Service Providers~ It is not my place to decide what degree of anonymity‘s is right for my Clients or other Service Providers. It is my obligation and honor to respect whatever that is.

I feel that this is completely OK… At least with me it would be OK. I’ve heard many stories where providers and clients are not OK with that. I offer my stats there upfront in the beginning and will do it here now as well: I’ve never had coronavirus, I’m fully vaccinated w/ Moderna X2 (as of late April 2021), and boostered with a third full Moderna as of 30/09/2021~ I carry a copy of my vaccination card which shows all three of my vaccines on it. When people have asked to see it, I have showed them without hesitation. I also have that information and other vaccination information on my global health passes. It’s really handy if you’re a traveler~ While traveling, I carry boxes of Abbott Binax Covid antigen tests. There are two tests per box. I test myself every three days as I travel and continue testing for a week upon my return home. I always carry extra tests in case the client is unsure of their own status and wants to take the 15 minutes of unaccounted time to test themselves~ I purchased the kits by the case online through Walgreens. They will deliver it to wherever I happen to be located in a relatively predictable and comfortable speed. I can also pick them up directly from the store~ CVS and Rite Aide also carry them in various cities. Relatively cheap and super easy. I have actually sometimes incorporated covid testing by including it with a Med Fetish scenario~ I tell them that I’m gonna do it and they sign a release. I’ve never had anybody decline. I’ve also kept in very good contact with the people I am seeing and have some understanding of their status, 2020/2021 mask use and social distancing habits. What I have found is that my particular Clients really appreciate my efforts to provide a safe situation for them. I both appreciate and respect their reciprocal self care and their consideration for my more vulnerable Clients~ I find it to be a win-win. Some percentage of my Clientele are vulnerable and I do consider them my family and partners. So, I take as much precaution to keep us all safe as possible. I tend to lump that entire Client covid conversation into my/their recent STI screening~ I don’t really wanna be guessing about any of it and find out later that something was awry. The result is, all involved are at greater peace of mind where we are in a place emotionally, psychologically, physically to enjoy each other’s company at an optimal potential~ Also adding here: my most recent sti screening was 13/10/2021~ No concerns there~

Brilliant as usually you charming, sexy master of wit~ I miss your humor… and YOU…~!

So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~ I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~ While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together. I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious. That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~

I’m not sure that the read reports on Rentmen are necessarily an indication that somebody is not interested whether they be a Client or Service Provider~ There’s a lot of times that people get interrupted from what they are doing because they have to attend to an emergency situation, work, somebody shows up at their house… any number of reasons. In an ideal world we would all just be here at our phones waiting to answer inquires but, my personal experience is that the world is more complex and things don’t always fall into place that way. Sometimes I have already made a response to a Client, but, they haven’t gotten back to me in over 48 hours… By that time I’ve already got something going on perhaps that I can’t just put aside to try and contact them again. Three or four days later I might get a response and they can be insisting that I suddenly talk to them with undivided attention. That may or may not happen depending on what’s going on in my own schedule. If I am with a Client, I nearly always feel very obligated to respect their time and privacy during our appointment unless there were an emergency or I felt threatened. Even when I am with somebody for an extended period of time, I try not to reach out to other potential or established meeting Clients. I do my safety check ins, other Client interest communications etc while my current Companion is sleeping, showering of on the toilet~ I’m not being sneaky about this by any means… My Clients are aware that I’m tending to other business whine they are otherwise occupied~ Even with a service provider who is not a traveler and stays local, they have extenuating circumstances like another job or a partner or something like that preventing them from immediate response~ Not everybody in this industry is full-time and has this as their only partner, family, work situation. It may be more beneficial to take each instance has a unique set of circumstances rather than apply a general rule to everyone. I hasty generalization of the situation could lead you to an unhappy meeting or missing out on a really great one.

Communication times can vary depending on a service provider and surrounding circumstances. Some service providers are hired for more than an hour… I fit into that category. While I do some shorter sessions, (but never one hour), I am sometimes with clients for several days and on up to periods of two months long. This may clearly impact my ability to communicate with clients who are seeking an immediate appointment~ Additionally, I travel from country to country and city to city… Some of my flights/travels can be as lengthy as 10 to 26 hours. Then there is a certain amount of time necessary to get to one’s accommodations and that’s assuming it’s not out in some jungle or on a deserted island somewhere and assumes there is internet and viable cell. (I will address travel schedule later in this response). That being said… I also have a lot of travel time and may be in different time zones. I might be on a plane, on a train, a bus, passing through areas where there is no reliable cell phone service. I generally use the communication platforms to establish a relationship with somebody… Rarely, (if ever), to set up an impromptu appointment on short notice. We live in an age of precarious politics, clearly excitable political climate, health concerns and general fear/angst in the people living in all of this duress. Both Clients and Service Providers may benefit from Investing a little bit of their time into getting to know each other prior to a meeting. On first contact with a new client, I do my best to let them know when I will and will not be available. It’s absolutely a red flag to me when somebody demands an instant response and then shows anger or gets snarky when they don’t get that instant response. Unscheduled random phone calls tell me a client has little regard, consideration or respect for my time or that of an Client I may be with at the moment~ When I am with clients for extended periods of time, there is generally a provision of time in there that allows me to communicate with other people. Somebody that does not let you do that and I might be an indication of other issues. I’m not talking about when you are With somebody for a few hours. I’m talking about when you’re with somebody for over two day or weeks or months~ In general, I make every effort to respond within 24 to 48 hours. That doesn’t always happen though. It’s not a perfect world. I also prioritize registered premium users before non-registered users in my communications. Registered users have a shown that they are a real person by connecting themselves to the site they are on. Non-registered users can be either sincere or somebody with mischievous intention. So, they will not be treated with the same degree of seriousness by me. I personally find it very offputting when somebody contacts me and simply says: ”Hey”~ I usually just respond back the same way and that’s pretty much the end of the conversation. It’s also a red flag to me when a person demands instant responses, pictures, location, undivided attention but, offer nothing of them selves. The person that is more likely to get a real time response from me is one who is registered, has contacted me in one way or another on rentmen, has contacted me outside of that venue and offered some thing of themselves. That can be a number of different things and it varies from situation to situation. I schedule things far in advance, sometimes weeks or months in advance. So, one of the ways I substantiate a real interest is by having ongoing communication with them. I love building that relationship. I love the opportunity of getting to know each other better and it ultimately, in most instances improves our time together. It may be a benefit to you to look at your potential hires travel schedule. I find that some are in a hurry to hire and don’t take the time to read the “about me” section Or check out my travel schedule that shows which city/country a potential hire is in or traveling to~ If I was in a hiring position, It would personally find it of benefit for me to develop ongoing communication prior to actually meeting. Everybody is different though and has their preferred methodology, needs and desires. I’m not prescribing that this is what everybody should do but, offering my simple personalize perspective on this matter and offering some of what I do and why. You will inevitably, do you what works best for you and switch that up from time to time.

You raise some interesting points here. Actually, RM used to give incentives to lads who posted videos: one free advertising month. When the original owners changed hands to the current, the site basically took on the profit minded format of the old Rentboy where escorts pay to be escort if the day, pay for boosts, pay to be a sponsor, pay to be interview if the day, pay for basic or gold or platinum status, pay for two ads if an escort is based in both the states and abroad… There is a a common theme there~ While I see that the site can fish for potential Client users who legitimately prefer to remain anonymous, and cautious users by offering a Non registered users option, this also allows scammers, stalkers, competitive escorts who want to fill up your schedule with false appointments, an avenue to do what they do~ What’s in my private section is images of me bottoming. They are there because that is rarely anything I ever do. There’s not really any interest there for others visiting my profile. I simply put them there so I can better access them as opposed to muddling thru the site’s cumbersome and ineffective instant messaging and email archive platforms. While I do chat up non registered Client users who tap me to see what they are all about, I really don’t take many of those inquires very seriously. I do the majority of my booking in advance with clients I am already familiar with. By the time I get to any given city, my schedule is already complete. If there’s a schedule change, I’ve already communicated with serious inquiries that I will contact them to let them know that something has become available. Depending on my tour, I may or may not leave one or two days in my schedule open for new inquiries. So, while I may engage in some communication With non-registered users, the likelihood of me actually meeting one of those people is actually really slim. You are correct when you say that there is a little incentive to take somebody seriously who is offered absolutely no information about themselves but, are demanding all kinds of information including photos, location, instant responses from a service providers. Those are almost always red flags. I do some monitoring of those non-registered users because I have had the situation where a stalker, (also a registered user), would create profiles as a non registered user and then try to make contact with me or follow me. Sites generally have the capacity to trace these people’s IP addresses~ Occasionally, a non registered user is legitimate… So, to keep tabs on those who have the intent of mischief but also leave open the potential for somebody who is just trying to be anonymous but is sincere about meeting, I don’t completely dismiss non-registered users. I’ve also noticed something that seems to be occurring on some registered and non registered accounts, (as well as new accounts). Their location is listed as being in NYC, (Despite inquiring about immediate appointments in some city I might be in at the moment). They might have a real local number to substantiate they are not from NYC or may have a number with area code from a city they lived in previously or they may be using a traceable Google blind number. I Generally notify these people to let them know that their profile is listed as New York City as opposed to their actual local home base. Sometimes it’s people that I have known for years. What might be a resolution to some of this misunderstanding and mischief would be for Rentmen to add a “traveling to” Notification on the client side and require that all non-registered users put down a credit card number and real address, (not PO Box), to substantiate that they are a real person with good intention. That way they can allow peoples anonymity but limit a users of the site. I think that it is important to advocate ourselves and communicate these matters to the current owners of that site so that they are aware of some of the inefficiencies and can address them. There is no incentive for them to change if we don’t let them know what’s going on from our end.

I’m wondering if the distinction you are looking for might be explained this way: energetic, forceful, aggressive… as opposed to sensual, methodical, gentle… Consider sticking to action based adjectives and verbs as opposed to those like “loving”, “connected”, “sexual”, “hot”, “passionate”, that can go either way~ Perhaps the action adjectives/verbs that are used to describe the type of kissing you enjoy the most or want at that particular time would give your potential partner the more accurate idea of what you’re looking for in a kiss. It might also be beneficial to clarify whether or not you want that same type of energy to continue elsewhere on your body… Sometimes people enjoy that forceful/aggressive initial kiss but, like different parts of their body tended to differently. That could be for a number of different reasons: recent surgeries, injuries, various health conditions, sometimes people have what is known as “constant glucose monitors” that sit on the surface of the skin. Other people may have minor melodies of eczema or psoriasis. Sun burns even… Interaction in one area doesn’t necessarily indicate that is how a person wants the entire session to go. Additionally, sometimes people like things to start off with an aggressive intensity but, taper down into a more gentle, sensual finish… The entire interaction could be likened to how one might describe a particular wine… It’s opening notes, its body and it’s finish. If you went into a wine shop asking for a bottle of wine they would ask what are you looking for… If you simply said “I’m looking for something strong or robust”… That would follow generally with a multitude of questions to better refine the search. If put into these terms… How would you describe your kissed somebody?

It’s unlikely that your immune system was thrown off due to the coronavirus vaccine~ Generally, HIV is rather specific in its transmission and, while Infection can occur after one incidence, it’s generally repeated direct contact, (taking loads anally, sharing needles), that results in converting to Poz~ I’m really leaning only to direct your concern that the coronavirus vaccines somehow contributed to your conversion to HIV+~ That’s not likely~

Also… my profile has traveled with me in the past as I normally spend 6 months or better outside of the country working abroad~ In 2017, I had to create a European profile on RM because the site would not let me bring my profile back into the states after traveling abroad for two months~ They locked my profile in Croatia and it was “a process” moving back to the states~ They made me create a second profile that is euro based~ So, I have two profiles on RM~ Tygerscent and AAAtygerscentxxx

Hmmm… blackmail and extortion are illegal~ Tell them so and let them know you are tracking their IP address and forwarding that to A4A as well as authorities~

Well said~!

Mmmmm... tasty~

You left one option out... ( use your imagination)

I found your post very funny, Smurof~ There seem to be a lot of ads like that in London and NYC/FLA~ In addition, you’ll see things like “young, wealthy, good-looking, serious only: $600/hr”~ Run Away~!!! Run Awayyyyyyy~!!! ????

Hehehe... Naughty boy~ ?

What a powerful image~ (on so many levels). ~Tyger~

It may also be to both of your benefit to establish and self evaluate each of your experience traveling with another person involving various levels of intimacy~ Simply to agree on a travel and financial arrangement may not be enough~ ~ Tyger~

Consider that if you offer your emotions and feelings to another, (regardless of who they are), do so without attachment~ Give it freely without expectation of return~ If it is returned you can be appreciative and grateful... if not returned you have neither exceeded your expectations nor missed something you didn’t have to begin with~ Either way, the result is that you will have both loved and lived, (Lovingly)~ ~Tyger~

So many shaved lads here... how about some hairy arm pits~ -Tyger~

The vaccines are a step towards better containment and reduced severity of the coronavirus... As you mention, even after vaccination, one can become infected with and pass on the coronavirus~ Some who have been infected can carry lingering virus as is being noted in “long Haulers”~ It’s not beyond reason for those with families and those in contact with critical care or vulnerable individuals to ask their play partners/masseurs/masseuses if they have ever had coronavirus in addition to seeing their Vax card certificate~ Thats a personal choice, of course, to ask or respond~ Of the greater benefits of the vaccinations is that it reduces the probability of, (slows down the rate of), mutation that can lead to variants resistant to current vaccines~ Despite the efforts of those opposed to masking and vaxing, the vaccines inevitably make masking and social distancing less of a necessity once 95% of the population becomes vaccinated~ My sense after researching is that it is best never to get this virus... even if you have had the vaccinations~ People will do as they will... Perhaps annoying but, perhaps also in best stay informed and slow down enough to see how real life plays out with all of it~ One year was enough for many people... making the wrong choices that lead to two years or longer won’t be less uncomfortable~ ~Tyger~

Love is a love is always the secret ingredient~

Why does that sound so dirty~?

Thank you Daddy for the consistent and dedicated love you gifted us with... for representing us thru easy and difficult times... for holding us to higher standards and helping us to better realize our selves, our potentials and our greater goal as individuals and a community~ Thank you for giving so much and so often even when you had less... for loving us like your own even at times you were alone... for helping us live what might never have been possible otherwise thru your hard and persistent efforts here and as a personal friend to so many~ Thru your life we are better individuals and a better community~ While this is the loss of you we feel... let this also be the spirit of you we find and celebrate~ May we find our way to carry on and complete the love~ Blessed be Beautiful Friend~ This full Moon will guide you along your journey~ With Love, Warmth and Full Heart... Thank you~ ~Tyger~

Well... and rentmen Rod the day is also a purchased product... an escort paid for that spot for a specific amount of time in a particular region~ He wasn’t Client Choosen~ Sponsors just means that the escort has paid to be in the sponsor section... it’s like $100/month~