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I really think this is the explanation that makes the most sense. Thanks @Scott Virginian

If so, just the thought of the two of them together for a threeway sets the mind spinning and the heart racing. 😉

I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I had something very similar happen with the addition of a little physical pushing, but about 15 years ago. It was terrifyingly scary in the moment and devastating for quite a while. What helped me was telling another provider who I knew well. He was so generous in his listening and sincere in talking through the whole experience. It calmed me SUBSTANTIALLY. I don't know who else in my life I could have told though...so my advice may not be easy for you to do. I suggest talking to someone and spilling out how you feel about it and all the many, many directions your thoughts are going right now. Someone, anyone. If there is no one that you can think of that you are comfortable talking to, keep writing about it: in a letter to yourself, or in your journal, or even on this web site. We understand. You need to get that toxic psychic energy out of endless loop inside.... By the way, in my situation, the original provider didn't pursue any of the threats he made. And I also assure you: Time does heal all wounds!

Boys will be boys. Always telling the other guy that he has a tiny niche. 😉

Where? Link?

How nice for you. How nice for him. How nice for everybody.

For every profile you look at? Thanks. (I see it on a couple, but definitely not many.)

I am finding rates feature to be wildly inconsistent as to RM version and browser...so I wonder if it is simply that most [US?] providers simply haven't entered it?

What clients are willing to pay AND what providers are willing to accept! No one expects providers to accept historic rates from 1950, and similarly people are beginning to realize that expecting providers to accept the historic rates from only a few years ago is becoming unrealistic. The times (and prices) are changing.

"on the tub"? Or maybe on the Tube?? Definitely "surprisingly sexy."

Yes, I see what you mean. The hairstyle is definitely very sexy, but he must use a lot of product to keep it up so vertically. You are probably right to assume it wouldn't be up like that, for example, right after a shower.

It's thoroughly detailed within the Code of Ethics embedded in the legislation the State Assembly ratified and that the State Licensing Board regulates. Hahaha.

LOL. As the old saying goes, He who has an honest opinion about the appeal of someone else's tiny little genitals, shouldn't be shocked when others have an opinion about the appeal of his tiny little honest opinions. Just my own tiny little honest opinion., so nobody jump all over me! 😉

Huh? Did I misread, or did this article contradict itself a few times? Could at least use some copy editing Was it written by some form of Artificial [Limited] Intelligence?

This is 100% true...but you still need to pick wisely, because it will not succeed 100% of the time. This approach will bring out the best in providers capable of a connection, but alas, some providers are simply incapable (consciously or unconsciously) to make that connection.

The pen is mightier than the sword. I'm sticking with thinking and writing about how important the meaning of words is.

No.

A person's actions can be "welcoming," "pleasant," or treat a customer well because the person is obsequious, desperate for money, operating from a "script", gritting their teeth to play a role, a decent actor, or even a sociopath -- all of those are personality traits or personal motivations/qualities that simply don't include being kind. Kindness includes a sense of the person's motivation and ability to connect with another as experienced by the other person.. [But we all need to be careful, the biggest sociopaths can be great actors and easily convince someone their motivations are pure and admirable. 😉 ]

I prefer that Rentmen doesn't help them at all. That helps me see who is serious about things in their ads and if they have looked at their competition with some thought and have truly evaluated their own strengths and weaknesses and interests--versus someone who naively just took a couple of minutes and filled out a few things out without any thought.

Or maybe their creative writing is even better than your acting. 😉

Clarification please: Is GunnarNJ now InkedAlpha??? Thanks!

But it's very, very common for some people to tell other people that their fetishes are completely all wrong, if not completely uncommon.

I had not known before your post about where he stood in the afaik hierarchy. Information is power. 😉

Where do you look up their number?

And some that do, dint.