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LOL. Many of the users here on Company of Men would be extraordinary Talmudic scholars in another lifetime, who in the absence of any actual evidence tease out lengthy and detailed facts and "meaning" from a few words here and there or from their own interpretations of and commentary on the previous breadcrumbs left by other scholars immersed in the obsessive study of Company of Men.

Sort of like Patty and Cathy Lane. Some people thought that "they're cousins --IDENTICAL cousins!" but others wondered why they always vacationed in the same city at the same time.

My first thought when guys get a little older, grow a beard, put on a bit of muscle, and change their haircuts is that they are phony, so not sure what you mean?

Oh, life is a glorious cycle of song, a medley of extemporanea, And love is a thing that can never go wrong, and I am Marie of Romania. --Dorothy Parker

LOL, as if he popped out of the womb with that beautiful, uber-muscular, body. 😉 I think Sean Austin looks great, but I also realize that EVERYTHING about most of the guys we are all looking at is fake, fake, fake -- from the tips of their pedicured toes to their lovely teeth, from their chiseled bodies to their sun-kissed tans and smooth skin, from the way they smell to their names and stylized personas. Very, very, very few of them have that all natural look of our keto-ish hunter-gatherering forefathers.

Yes -- just think of the years of his life he could free up for higher purposes if he just stopped urinating.

Yes, a lot of guys dream of being intimate with Ronald McDonald -- and those people are all too aware that the closest they may ever get to that is doing the deed with a guy who has some French fries sitting on his hip.

Oh. Is he a major notable famous skincare influencer who we would all know? Or just another one of those minor generic famous skincare infuencers?

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I'll suck your dick for $ 249.99.... I'm liking the idea of a "reverse auction"website where I could tell a group of providers that I specifically select from the website's list of members the specific time, place, desires, etc. that I am looking for, and they can can keep lowering their required fees for the privilege of meeting me. 😉

Noms de gigolo?

Flashbacks of Roseanne Roseannadanna suddenly appeared before my eyes. 😉

The passport was auctioned off. She died in Neuilly in 1989, so this would be the one. So is it being suggested that somebody at Warner forged a second passport after she died?! Or that consular officials like to embellish? 😉

I may not understand your phrasing, but are you suggesting that "unbridled capitalism" in itself is not a problem?

Or perhaps his business model is that he only wants to see one or maybe two clients a week, so that suits him just fine! 😉 Maybe he is not motivated by the idea of volume, and seeing as many people as possible.

Just tell him to put on 50 pound of belly fat, dye his hair purple, and grow a beard. Problem solved.

If it's not for fintech maybe Shark Tank or Kickstarter? 😉

Maybe deposits are becoming a more regular thing. Maybe not. Either way, DON'T DO IT (unless you have money to throw away and not whine about it later or are asking someone to travel a great distance and need to cover their travel expenses and travel time.)

Chico: Now I aska you one. What has a trunk, but no key, weighs 2,000 pounds and lives in a circus? Prosecutor: That's irrelevant. Chico: A relephant? Hey, thatsa the answer. There's a whole lot of irrelephants in the circus --DuckSoup 1933

This chain is not about "reviews!" A review occurs after a client meets a provider and then comments if the provider does or doesn't meet expectations, and yes those reviews can indeed be negative. On the other hand, people making gratuitous comments revealing their opinion about the provider's body and how the provider looks based solely on the photos in and ad is not a "review." That is just an opinionated comment, that was not requested, and that is not at all necessary. If I am on here asking about a provider, I want to know if someone met them, that they lived up to expectations, that they matched what they said they would do, and they matched their photos. That is a review. I do NOT want to know that some random person says "ooooh, they are too hairy, they are too old, they are too fat, their ears are funny, i doooon't like thaaaat" based solely on the photos. If the original poster creates a chain on Company of Men they are clearly seeing the photos of the provider they ask about, and they know what they like -- and it's really hard to understand why some very insecure opinionated commenters need to broadcast their own personal bigotry, feel a need to "yuck someone else's yum", and clearly love to have an opportunity to body shame others.

It's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean.

I really think this is the explanation that makes the most sense. Thanks @Scott Virginian

If so, just the thought of the two of them together for a threeway sets the mind spinning and the heart racing. 😉

I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I had something very similar happen with the addition of a little physical pushing, but about 15 years ago. It was terrifyingly scary in the moment and devastating for quite a while. What helped me was telling another provider who I knew well. He was so generous in his listening and sincere in talking through the whole experience. It calmed me SUBSTANTIALLY. I don't know who else in my life I could have told though...so my advice may not be easy for you to do. I suggest talking to someone and spilling out how you feel about it and all the many, many directions your thoughts are going right now. Someone, anyone. If there is no one that you can think of that you are comfortable talking to, keep writing about it: in a letter to yourself, or in your journal, or even on this web site. We understand. You need to get that toxic psychic energy out of endless loop inside.... By the way, in my situation, the original provider didn't pursue any of the threats he made. And I also assure you: Time does heal all wounds!