Kevin Slater

The only one on your list I know is Alfonso(o) and he's great. Sounds like you two may be a good fit. He's only in the States part time, and I believe he takes off soon, so act quickly. Kevin Slater

Any professional should be prepared with whatever is needed for the job. But every sexual partner should also be prepared to ensure his own health. Kevin Slater

Apparently some guys have better luck simply paying for two basic ads rather than one premium ad. Kevin Slater

This article may be behind a paywall, but the upshot is that coming later this year, Fidelity will allow Bitcoin in 401Ks they administer, likely with other crypto options to follow. Whether your 401 will allow it will partially depend on your employer. Not sure how this will play out with solo 401s. https://www.wsj.com/articles/fidelity-to-allow-retirement-savers-to-put-bitcoin-in-401-k-accounts-11650945661?mod=latest_headlines Kevin Slater

Well, what if it was a knife? Kevin Slater

It’s probably been mentioned already, but that anesthesia they give you is amazing! I’d go through the procure weekly if they would keep givin’ me that good shit (and leave me alone in the recovery room to keep enjoying it). Fruit of the gods. Best of luck tomorrow, and report back! Kevin Slater

Oh sure. Maybe I wouldn’t rearrange my day around it though. And if it happened again I might not take future bookings, out of concern for his health. Kevin Slater

It's none of my business whether the excuse is true or not. I'm just grateful for the heads up rather than a no show. Kevin Slater

I'm confused... Kevin Slater

Oh sure. I'm fortunate to have done well enough that I could have retired over a decade ago. One thing that kept me going was the fear of too much free time. The early days of Covid lockdown, however, assuaged those fears. I learned the newspaper alone can consume six hours if you let it. So for the past several years I haven't been working at it as hard as before and focusing more on a work / life balance. I'm enjoying this current phase of pre-retirement, and at some point may opt for semi- or full retirement. But for now I enjoy the work and still like knowing when I go to bed each night that I stored away more acorns than I ate. Kevin Slater

As has been said of Doris Day: I knew him before he was a virgin. Kevin Slater

...and you can never go wrong with Kiddo. Kevin Slater

Wow. You asked a question, someone provided a thoughtful answer, and you show total disregard for his perspective and shoot him down. So why did you form it as a question when you're clearly not interested in any answer that disagrees with your take? Kevin Slater

Just keep in mind that you absolutely do not have access to those funds for the first year after purchase. Kevin Slater

(I haven't read this thread, so it may be that I'm contributing nothing new.) I think you'll be fine the night before. The prep is a little gross and uncomfortable, but you can sort of time it by when you take the swigs of the stuff they give you. There seems to be two ways of doing it: they either send you home with a couple pouches you add to a gallon jug o' water, or they give you these smallish cans of oily goo to drink. Do you know which you are? I find the pouches added to water to be a more, um, explosive event. My advice in that case is to skip the toilet altogether and just go straight to the shower. It's easier to clean as you go. In my experience, the toilet works fine for the drink in a can method. This may not pertain to you, but for others reading this topic, it's not a horrible idea to plan to bottom afterwards. You'll be squeaky clean! Kevin Slater

Yup, some are definitely of the opinion of professional services contracted off grindr should be at a discount. To avoid the being banned issue, my first reply is inevitably to ask for their number so I can move the conversation onto text (a medium I control). That leaves no reportable/actionable thread on the grindr platform. Most of the time they don't want to supply their number which is perfect, I've just saved myself endless messaging as I was going to require a number at some point prior to meeting up. Should he provide a number, my first outgoing text is "are you looking to hire an escort?" Kevin Slater

It's not just the privacy issue, it's that if you CC everyone, anyone replying also has the option of CCing everyone, so the whole group has just been added to a email thread that's now going to fill their inbox. Were you to BCC the list, replies could only go to you, rather than spamming everyone. Kevin Slater

The inflation rate would have to be -7.5% to wipe out the fixed 7.5% rate. Highly unlikely. Kevin Slater

Yeah, stringing him along then bringing up the mercantile is also trashy, and just unfair. Another concern is the apps will readily block you if you mention escorting, which I agree with, but is very difficult when someone tries to book you through that app. Kevin Slater

I should add Buy a sling. Not every client has to use it, but some will love it, and book you because of it. Rubber sheets are a provider's friend. Install a shower douche. Again, some clients will book you simply because you provide that. Learn at least a few basic massage techniques. You can save a ton of money by buying the gallon jug o' lube and decanting into smaller bottles. Offer them a damn shower afterwards. Duh. Kevin Slater

Yeah, but that gets tricky. Someone recognizes your pics from rentmen and decides to hit you up on grindr (thinking this would be a good time cuz you must be horny). Or someone else sends you a cryptic "available?", which to me implies he understands the context. Or after I ignore someone as you suggest, he sends a cunty passive-aggressive message "well I was gonna hire you but not if you can't bother to respond." Although I do agree that a provider initiating contact to solicit business is *trashy*. Kevin Slater

Met him socially. Very friendly. I think better looking in person, sharper features. Very unfortunate choice of usernames. He means LatinAbel, but I read LatinaBel. I'll tell him next time I see him. Kevin Slater

I believe it is impossible to get the money back, which is why providers may prefer it, in that (unlike with PayPal) the funds aren't going to magically disappear the next day. In order to prevent error, you may send a test dollar first, or have the provider send you a request rather than you initiating the transaction. Kevin Slater

Gentlemen: take your feud elsewhere, or simply block one another. Further posts to this thread should be about the escort at hand and his services, not an analysis of each other's posts. Kevin Slater qua admin

I get some very legitimate looking ones that I may well have fallen for, if only I had an account with, say, Wells Fargo. What pisses me off is how often legitimate correspondence does require you to click on the link. When I run the world, the email will just include some unique code which you will then enter on your own on, say, bestbuy.com to see what it’s all about. Kevin Slater