
whmf
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whmf got a reaction from Peter Eater in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf got a reaction from Yoyohey in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf got a reaction from FLJock in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf got a reaction from JeffsterLA in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf got a reaction from dlee02 in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf got a reaction from starman05 in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf got a reaction from BriansBodywork in Federiico LA - name or location change?
There was mielage, @JeffsterLA - and I’m not ‘attractive’ by most standards. The issue wasn’t mileage - it was the immediate upselling after already agreeing on a price before coming, and then the severe shortage of time while trying to do a quick…non-masseur type activity. I don’t tihnk knowing the poster’s age/weight and general stats is necessary to be able to say that an experience like that is negative. I’d understand knowing the person’s type if we were talking about extras. I never go in expecting extras, but I do go in expecting that what we agree on is honored.
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whmf reacted to NathanB in 411 on Rukenny in LA
I just saw him for the second time. I likely won't repeat. There was one sensual moment during the massage and to my surprise it got pretty sensual by the end once I flipped over. But his pictures are severely outdated and the massage wasn't that great. And for me, the sensual moments don't outweigh those two things.
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whmf got a reaction from + Just Sayin in SD_one San Diego
I had a great experience with him. I didn’t notice a cat smell - there was an odor in one of the rooms, but i honestly htink it’s just an aged carpet, as he’s clearly very clean The space was actually clean, warm and welcoming. As for him, I thought he was great - great interaction, massage wasn’t spa level, but it was good,but his kindness and warmth one me over in no time. I felt strong respect for him.
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whmf reacted to JeffsterLA in Christian in Los angeles
He’s good but he is expensive. He has a tendency to be too strong with his pressure for my taste, but he will lighten the pressure if you ask him. Very good massage and ambiance, but he’s a bit chatty and can veer into uncomfortable subjects, ie politics, finances, as well as gay sex parties for the young and “beautiful” that he attends. Some extras included, but if you want full service, which he offered but was a bit cold about, he’s a top and charges $350 (for the whole session). I didn’t take him up on that because I thought it was too expensive and he gave the impression he didn’t really want it. That said, he puts a lot of work and skill into his massage, so he’s already spending a lot of time and energy by the end of the massage.
I especially recommend if you’re a jock working out and you need a serious massage, and don’t care about the extras, but due to your looks he may play after for free or lower cost. I think normal guys will like him if they like a strong massage.
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whmf reacted to + 7829V in BODYWORX in San Diego *new*
I met Bodyworx (Arthur). He arrived on time with table, music, and oil, a professional setup. My first thought when the session began was, “Oh no, he has no clue,” as he started with some very basic neck strokes you often get from someone inexperienced. But as the session progressed, he incorporated more advanced techniques. Pressure was on the lighter side, which worked for me since I wanted to relax, though I’m not sure if he could deliver real deep pressure. I didn’t ask.
He worked my whole body while I was face down and gave the full time I booked. It wasn’t outstanding or a “wow” experience, but good for someone without formal training. When I flipped over, the session was almost over, and it ended as many here would hope. I’m not sure if he skipped the front-body massage because we ran out of time or because he doesn’t usually include it. No drape. MT, HE.
He’s not overly chatty, which I liked, and I even dozed off a few times. He has a good body with a bit more softness around the lower tummy. He shaves, so you’ll feel some stubble when touching him. In person, I thought he looked younger than in some of his photos, or maybe it was just the late hour and low lighting. He stayed cheerful 🍆 throughout and was generous with his body, clearly "enjoying" himself and physically well-blessed. (BTW he is VERY sensitive in that area for some reason)
When booking the session via text, he asked for a photo. I didn’t mind sending one, but I know some might see that as a deal-breaker. I’m not sure if declining would have meant he wouldn’t take the booking, but I sent it.
I’d hire him again in a heartbeat if his rates were a little lower. I’m sure he’ll improve with time, but for what I paid, I usually get slightly better technique and a few extra touches. Still, I’d recommend him if you’re comfortable with the price point and don’t mind booking someone with limited experience. For me one time was enough, for now.
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whmf got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in MarkladukeLMT in Wilton Manors
I also had a great experience with him. He’s got a great therapeutic skillset, and his sensual option was a great experience. I would definitely repeat.
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whmf reacted to FLJock in HairyManlyHands in Miami
Sexy and hairy in person presented just as the photos. Massage, though, was pretty bad, for me it was just a rub down, til he got bored and placed it in my hand, then near my face. We moved over to the bed within 20 mins where he continued to make it about himself. I was out and dressed within 40 mins.
Have no desire to go back.
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whmf got a reaction from Poppie in HairyManlyHands in Miami
HairyManlyHands - Male Massage & Bodywork in Wilton Manors, FL | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur HairyManlyHands in Wilton Manors, FL offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.
Any intel?
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whmf reacted to pubic_assistance in ArturoTouch FTL RMasseur
Quoted me $350 for an erotic massage.
No thanks.
Not unless "erotic massage" is code for escort services.
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whmf got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in 411 on Loboa from Milwaukee
Saw him. Amazing experience... And I'm not the kind who usually gets much on the YMMV spectrum
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whmf got a reaction from + J. S. in JoeDiCarlo
He’s really nice when he’s in the mood to be nice. Other times he can be a total asshole. He’s stood me up roughly 30 minutes before an appointment after a very long drive (more than 1.5 hours) saying that the location we were supposed to meet at was falling through (the place where he usually hosts). But in sending me what sounded like a cancellation message, he said he wouldn’t be able to answer my messages because he was going into another appointment - an appointment that was clearly going to end during what should have been our appointment. Then, when he got out of that appointment, he got mad at me for not understanding that he expected me to look for an alternative place while he was in that [overlapping] session.
I didn’t react angrily or aggressively, and told him I didn’t realize that that was his expectation to look for a place, but rather that I thought he was cancelling. He then said we needed to cool it for a bit, so I said no problem to that. A few days later he made it sound like we could meet, then last minute cancelled, then tried scheduling anoter time (sounding like he was in a good mood) but ignored when we were finalizing a time. I’ve never sent a cold message even once, and reached out once a month or so to check availability, and he now ghosts me.
I get that he is probably a big deal or something with his local acting gig, but it’s crazy that the person I initially met in person and had a session with was so nice, kind and warm, but was also capable of being so rude and callous as well. I’ve not sent or written a single mean, cold or angry message.
It’s weird, until this year, I think I only ever had one bad experience with a provider, this year seems to be a whole bunch.
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whmf got a reaction from FLJock in LuisRodrigues Miami
Any intel?
LuisRodrigues - Male Massage & Bodywork in Miami, FL | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur LuisRodrigues in Miami, FL offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.
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whmf reacted to + FLOutdoors in 411 on Coolbives in Miami
He only communicates through OF. And he doesn’t seem to actually want to book appointments…he just wants to sell you additional subscriptions to his OF pages. I’ve tried a dozen times in the past three months.
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whmf reacted to savantsav in New in LA Domarlux
Took the plunge.
Massage is meh. No extras. Told me after text it was much more for extras (even though he charged me for sensual) and then a text including how much for any act and how much if I wanted him to cum. When I tried to setup time again a week later he replies with "Well I only do those extras with repeated customers", I said "Ah understood" and left it at that, I don't like the up-selling and mixed messages besides, the massage itself wasn't good.
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whmf reacted to Jeeper84 in Joe DiCarlo in LA
I hope your luck is better than mine was. By every account, he's a beautiful guy and provides a nice experience. I just got ghosted the day we were supposed to meet.
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whmf reacted to Jeeper84 in JoeDiCarlo
Had a terrible experience with him per my earlier notes in this thread. Will never waste my time on that loser again.
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whmf got a reaction from + m_writer in JoeDiCarlo
He’s really nice when he’s in the mood to be nice. Other times he can be a total asshole. He’s stood me up roughly 30 minutes before an appointment after a very long drive (more than 1.5 hours) saying that the location we were supposed to meet at was falling through (the place where he usually hosts). But in sending me what sounded like a cancellation message, he said he wouldn’t be able to answer my messages because he was going into another appointment - an appointment that was clearly going to end during what should have been our appointment. Then, when he got out of that appointment, he got mad at me for not understanding that he expected me to look for an alternative place while he was in that [overlapping] session.
I didn’t react angrily or aggressively, and told him I didn’t realize that that was his expectation to look for a place, but rather that I thought he was cancelling. He then said we needed to cool it for a bit, so I said no problem to that. A few days later he made it sound like we could meet, then last minute cancelled, then tried scheduling anoter time (sounding like he was in a good mood) but ignored when we were finalizing a time. I’ve never sent a cold message even once, and reached out once a month or so to check availability, and he now ghosts me.
I get that he is probably a big deal or something with his local acting gig, but it’s crazy that the person I initially met in person and had a session with was so nice, kind and warm, but was also capable of being so rude and callous as well. I’ve not sent or written a single mean, cold or angry message.
It’s weird, until this year, I think I only ever had one bad experience with a provider, this year seems to be a whole bunch.
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whmf got a reaction from + 7829V in 411 RestorativeBliss, Honolulu
Quotes today:
Swedish: 60 min - 300 90 min - 400 120 min- 500
Sensual: 60 min - 450 90 min - 550 120 min -650
Erotic: 60 min - 600 90 min - 700 120 min - 800
For these rates, one could fly to Hawaii and get his local rates and still pay less than a 2 hour erotic session.
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whmf got a reaction from Capitano in Chicago Newbie: LiamCHI
Basically his normal ‘sensual’ rate, is extremely high geven the level of sensuality (I’m comparing to the subjective ‘norm’). I don’t think his rate for sensuality is a reasonable rate or that it’s so good that it makes up for the price gap.
For me, I would go to him when I want a really good therapeutic experience. I will like the sensuality part, too, but I’d be liking it knowing that I’m accepting to pay such a high rate not for the sensuality, but for the therapeutic. I think he just knows his clinical skills are really good and that that justifies his premium rates. So you need to just be deciding that you agree with the premium, essentially.