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    Joe DiCarlo in LA

    I also had a negative experience after initially having a great one:
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    JoeDiCarlo

    He’s really nice when he’s in the mood to be nice. Other times he can be a total asshole. He’s stood me up roughly 30 minutes before an appointment after a very long drive (more than 1.5 hours) saying that the location we were supposed to meet at was falling through (the place where he usually hosts). But in sending me what sounded like a cancellation message, he said he wouldn’t be able to answer my messages because he was going into another appointment - an appointment that was clearly going to end during what should have been our appointment. Then, when he got out of that appointment, he got mad at me for not understanding that he expected me to look for an alternative place while he was in that [overlapping] session. I didn’t react angrily or aggressively, and told him I didn’t realize that that was his expectation to look for a place, but rather that I thought he was cancelling. He then said we needed to cool it for a bit, so I said no problem to that. A few days later he made it sound like we could meet, then last minute cancelled, then tried scheduling anoter time (sounding like he was in a good mood) but ignored when we were finalizing a time. I’ve never sent a cold message even once, and reached out once a month or so to check availability, and he now ghosts me. I get that he is probably a big deal or something with his local acting gig, but it’s crazy that the person I initially met in person and had a session with was so nice, kind and warm, but was also capable of being so rude and callous as well. I’ve not sent or written a single mean, cold or angry message. It’s weird, until this year, I think I only ever had one bad experience with a provider, this year seems to be a whole bunch.
  3. Quotes today: Swedish: 60 min - 300 90 min - 400 120 min- 500 Sensual: 60 min - 450 90 min - 550 120 min -650 Erotic: 60 min - 600 90 min - 700 120 min - 800 For these rates, one could fly to Hawaii and get his local rates and still pay less than a 2 hour erotic session.
  4. Same rates right now, but the extra $50 is for sensual. ANyone experienced his massage yet?
  5. I’m glad I came here before messaging him about his Cali trip. Those prices….
  6. Anyone have any massage experience with him that they can write about?
  7. I’ve seen Jass a couple of times. In my experience, he is not in the same shape as in his photos at all (although it’s definitely him in the photos). I’ve found him to be so sweet and attentive and have every intention of continuing to see him, even though I think his massage skills are competitive.
  8. Bump again
  9. Update: Someone from the forums here private messaged me and they messaged him to ask about his rates and follow-up by asking about whether or not he offers MT, MN and HE. The rates he gave were similar ($20 off), so the person forwarded him my post above as a reason for inquiring in so much detail. Rene’s response was that I never asked for sensual and that I was disrespectful. That sucks - gave him benefit of the doubt and actually thought he was kind. I guess I was more played than I thought.
  10. Well said, to all three of you, and I agree @CuriousByNature, @CuriousGuy714 and @Lohengrin1979. I feel dumb, but what you guys said is all true. I posted here, and hopefully others can make their choice at least knowing what it looks like in reality.
  11. MassagebyRENE - Male Massage & Bodywork in Los Angeles, CA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur MassagebyRENE in Los Angeles, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue. So, I went to see him today based on a previous (but closed) thread about him. Before I say anything I want to acknowledge: a) In the YMMV world, I know that I typically won't get good mileage. b) Rene was really kind, polite, and I really like him and his tone - in person and in messaging. c) Therapeutically, this is one of my favorite massages in LA area. So, I reached out to him, he was friendly and prompt, and gave 2 90 minute options - $300 for therapeutic, $400 sensual. In spite of the price being what I felt to be steep, I decided to go for it based on the reviews on this site. He was running late for our initial scheduled time (I had to drive out 1.5 hours to see him), but it seemed like it would be worth it. When I arrived, super kind, super friendly, again, I almost feel guilty writing all this. We begin the massage, and well, I'm draped, which I wasn't expecting, but thought, no problem. He was fully clothed, so I thought, maybe it's something that we warm up into in the sensual department, given that I'm expecting to pay $400. During the massage, he was usually positioning to be out of reach, but it seemed like it was mixed messages, so wasn't sure where things were going. I'm not a grabber, so I just respected what seemed like the boundaries he was creating. Before long, he said "well, take the time you need to get dressed". Usually I don't say anything, even if I don't like how something went, but this time I had to, I said, "Oh, is there no happy ending?" I felt stupid saying it and feel dumber writing it. But I wanted to point out the discrepancy somehow. Again, he was so polite, and he said, "Oh, I don't do that anymore, I'm engaged now." So I asked if it would be charging a different rate. He said he'd take $300. To be fair, he looked like he felt bad about it, and said "How would you like your happy ending?”, but obviously I felt awful at that point and politely declined. Now, i doubt he didn't know about his limitations as an engaged person before we started messaging and he gave me the options, but I didn't think about that until after. I just assumed that it's a new thing and sucks to be me. Now, after thinking about it, it seems strange to me that he didn't know that before we agreed on a time. It also makes me feel even worse, that I'm apparently so ugly that even a mechanical HE wasn't worth it. Once again - I feel badly about saying anything "negative", because sincerely, there are people who come off as douchebags, but nothing about him rubs me that way. I thought he was so kind, and even handled the confrontation so kindly. But $300/90 minutes for what I think most people on here would consider a purely therapeutic session (he occasionally leaned in so that you felt part of his leg or groin but that was it), and with what was communicated by message, this was a major let-down. Just thought I'd post the experience for you guys on here. Great therapeutic session, though. 🤷‍♂️
  12. FrankieCuddles - Male Massage & Bodywork in Los Angeles, CA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur FrankieCuddles in Los Angeles, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue. I did a search and found an old forum that expired, and there also wasn’t a lot of actual experience referenced. Any recent experience with him?
  13. Me, too about the plunge and not recommending. Save the $$$. Upsell, time shortage, and poor quality everything.
  14. Thank yoU!
  15. Agree- wouldn’t hire for massage, almost non-existent. Extras - for me it was an upsell during the session. I paid more than initial agreement and the massage was significantly shortened. THought he was a decent person but woulnd’t repeat, especially for hte price.
  16. It might be that he does this so that he can choose how interactive it is without committing? I know I’m not someone who’s very attractive so my mileage isn’t usually far, and I assumed more was going to happen at that rate than what did. He’s stunningly beautiful though.
  17. Also - I was offered only two options: Therapeutic (200/hr) Sensual (300/hr) There was no extras menu.
  18. Unfortunately this was not the case for me, and I paid a very high price (escort rates). He was clothed until the last fifteen minutes and very little interactivity until then. Very kind, very gracious, but $400/90 minutes for that is not something I’d repeat.
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    AlejandroPS

    Just wondering if anyone’s got any recent experience - we’ve got an ‘okay’ experience and a great experience.
  20. Hey, surprised not to find anything since he’s been on rentmasseur a few years, maybe different name? RubiconTouch - Male Massage & Bodywork in Palm Springs, CA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur RubiconTouch in Palm Springs, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.
  21. COuld you share what the rate is for non-mutual nude? Thanks for getting back to us @runelynx!
  22. Any intel on this man? He’s usually in LA/West Hollywood.
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