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Verification of facts these days is difficult, to say the least. A lie repeated often enough becomes the truth. As it stands, without evidence, it's your word against his. I completely agree that slander is harassment and should be stamped out. You could get tested for drugs and upload the results to clear your name. I know I would not hire a provider who is known for doing meth so you're completely justified in your anger.

I've always been an equal opportunity whore. There's some really hot Asian guys in LA. It's a real shame that racism blocks people from having a fun time. As for Asian escorts, I usually avoid as they often don't use photos of themselves and even when they do they don't really know how to fake being into me. Also I generally can get a hot Asian guy without having to pay on sniffies. Regardless what anyone thinks you have to be happy with yourself and tell all the haters to piss off.

Last time I chatted with him he quoted me 1k an hour if he were to bottom.

I think tipping is pretty standard for a massage especially if they provided more than just a therapeutic massage.

About a year ago I hired a sub muscle guy for a fantasy I had of hosting a pump and dump. He was very hot and had a lot of fun. I was surprised how difficult it was to get guys to come fuck him. I learned that day that even ridiculously hot men have trouble hooking up on the apps.

Greetings my fine friends on the Interwebs, I pulled a muscle in my shoulder and it's really annoying me. Does anyone have a recommendation for a legit masseur who's good at treating pulled muscles? No innuendo implied I really need a legit massage therapist.

I'm interested in these events as well. I haven't been to one of them. I went to a nude yoga class in WeHo over a decade ago and was boring AF.

From Gemini pro: Technically, yes, nightclubs can and often do turn people away based on their appearance, provided the reason doesn't violate specific civil rights protections. While it might feel unfair, "attractiveness" is not a protected legal class in the way that race, religion, or disability are. Here is the breakdown of how "velvet rope" policies work and where the legal lines are drawn. 1. The "Right to Refuse Service" Nightclubs are generally considered private property. This gives owners broad discretion to decide who enters, as long as they aren't discriminating against a protected characteristic. * Lookism: Being "unattractive" or not "cool" enough is generally not a protected trait under federal or state laws (like California's Unruh Civil Rights Act). * Atmosphere: Clubs often argue that their "product" is a specific vibe or aesthetic. To maintain this, they use "selective entry" to ensure the crowd matches the brand they are selling. 2. The Dress Code Loophole Most clubs use dress codes as their primary tool for turning people away. * Enforcement: While a club can’t legally say "You’re too ugly," they can say "Your shoes don't meet our standards" or "We’re at capacity for your attire type." * Legality: Dress codes are legal as long as they are applied consistently. If a club lets in a "conventionally attractive" person in sneakers but rejects someone else for the same sneakers, that inconsistency can be used as evidence of illegal discrimination (e.g., based on race or gender). 3. Where It Becomes Illegal A club crosses into illegal territory if their "attractiveness" standard is actually a proxy for something else: * Racial Discrimination: If "not the right look" consistently applies only to people of color, it violates the Civil Rights Act of 1964. * Gender Bias: In California, for example, "Ladies' Nights" or charging men more/less for entry based solely on gender is illegal. * Disability: A club cannot turn someone away because of a physical deformity or a visible disability under the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act). Summary Table: Can They Deny You? | Reason | Legal? | Why? | |---|---|---| | "Not the right vibe" | Yes | Subjective "coolness" isn't a protected class. | | Wrong shoes/clothing | Yes | Dress codes are permissible private policies. | | Race or Ethnicity | No | Federal and state civil rights violation. | | Physical Disability | No | Violation of the ADA and state civil rights acts. | | Gender/Identity | No | Most states prohibit discrimination based on sex or identity. | If you feel you’ve been unfairly targeted, some cities (like Houston) have recently passed ordinances requiring clubs to clearly post their dress codes at the door to prevent arbitrary or biased "look-based" rejections. Would you like me to look up the specific nightclub entry laws or "Right to Refuse" regulation s for a particular city?

A better metaphor would be a bouncer at a night club. They have the authority to turn away people who are not aesthetically appealing. Honestly, if an escort won't be able to perform for me I would rather not have that experience. It's a good way to screen out those who would not be a good fit.

They usually threaten to go to the police and send the messages to my friends and family. Both are bluffs. They won't go to the police because they are also breaking the law. I am an out gay man in an open relationship but I still don't want everyone to know I hire escorts. The burner number prevents this because it can't be traced back to me.

A great many problems in life can be solved by throwing money at it. 😜

I know quite a few very hot men. The problem in LA isn't the lack of Adonis bodies it's that LA culture in general is very flaky and as soon as a better offer comes up people bail. Another factor is quality clientele. A couple dancers told me the clientele were stingy and creepy. Dancers want to be part of a high-end event with high-end clients. From the perspective of the dancers it's quite demoralizing to go to a sketchy event only to not even make enough money to cover gas. As with any event for gay men, organizing is a circus.

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Just met with him tonight. He's real and a real sweet heart. Perfect ass and that face! Communication was a bit rough starting but we eventually got there. He said I was his third client he ever had. so he's new to professional companionship. I won bronze 😜 After jerking off to his content for years it was a dream cum true!

https://www.burnerapp.com The app can be glitchy but it's the best for privacy. The 4.99 monthly subscription allows you to have one burner number that you can "burn" (cancel the number) and get another number easily for no extra charge. I've had a couple times where a provider/scammer tries to black mail me. When that happens I just burn the number and get a new one.

OMG, the logic here is starting to sound a lot like the argument against gay marriage. You must be attracted to what I'm attracted to! Y'all need to find more hobbies.

If I wanted a purely therapeutic massage I would go to Burke Williams.

To be clear, I would have been fine sharing him with others if he wanted to be shared. However, he was not into any of the guys who approached us. So the entire session was us trying to politely tell guys to get lost.

I love Brogan but he wasn't down for that.

I've done this before and it was really awkward. The muscle guy I brought there was descended on by the bathhouse vultures and he felt really uncomfortable.

In my experience these descriptors mean nothing. I've met guys who say they are top only but end up begging to get fucked. And I've also met a lot of providers who say they are versatile but only bottom or only top.

Do you have a home gym? 😜

He's about 6'. I'm 6'1" and was not taller than me. He's very toned. Not an ounce of fat but muscular. He looks to be around 30 yo.

I live in LA.

Hello my fellow philanderers, I've been pondering a particular fantasy for a few years now. The setup: I want to hire a hot muscly personal trainer for a workout session where he's nude or in a jock strap and he pushes me to complete more reps by rewarding me with his cock in my mouth or ass on my face. I know this is difficult to realize but I'm so horned up for it. There have been several posts on this forum about nude personal training but most of those are locked.