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It may be partly because few providers actively send thank you notes after the meets. Whether they mean it or not is not the point. The last impression is the one that matters most when you buy something. It's why so many retail businesses go out of their way to drone into their teams to smile and say thank you. Also shocking how often that does NOT happen. Even fewer that keep meticulous records of their clients. I did meet one that had very complete spreadsheets for keeping a profile of each client. I asked if he minded showing it to me. I was very impressed at the level of detail he kept. Size, position, height, age, body type, kinks, kisser, rim, worth repeating, etc. It also explain why he was always fully booked before he ever arrived at a city. He actively works he client base for business. When a provider sends a quick text afterwards or the next day, I definitely take note of it. I find I do consider those that do higher on the list when considering what company to keep.

Gorilla marketing in the OF age. Noticed more on Grindr also to gain more followers on IG and then direct people to their OF page. If their OF is any good, definitely costs less than a mtg. So many OF pages are just the first door they want you to pay so they can try to get u to part more of ur dollars thru PPV.

Noticed an increasing number of profiles that are baiting user to their OF and nothing more. https://rentmen.eu/JakehotXL Lists bogus travel dates to big cities to try to get subs. Automated replies that pretend to be visiting and encouraging user to sub so they can get to know u better. By that, I mean to get u to part with dollar so they are better off.

Fishing for OF subs. Auto reply directing u to his OF. Only accepting communications thru OF which means he's not looking to meet anyone since his account would get blocked if was discussing paid meetings. Hustler for sure.

You have identified your threshold for throwing in the towel!

There has been a long prevalent bias in the gay community that 30 marks the end of youthful beauty and freedom. If you don't believe this, do a search on RM and see how many ads have 29 as the listed age. You're no longer young and care-free. Not yet an OLD farts like those over 50, but no longer the spring chicken either. Providers age shave because clients actively select in part on their age. Anyone claiming they have never done this is living in a glass house. We may shop with our eyes first, but I'm sure a good share glance at the age as one of the first things they review. We're all human. Denial doesn't make the reality of this go away.

Enjoyed the show a lot. Along with Shrinking, one of the best shows to take your mind off of the real world for a bit.

Are you always honest and upfront about your age and other stats with dates (hired or otherwise)? Providers seem to be eternally 29. Is it 49 for clients to avoid the dreaded over the hill 50? 😂

He reached out proactively after I viewed his profile. Chatted a bit (he was complaining about how rainy it was in NYC) and then asked me to fly him out to visit. I declined. I give him points for being upfront and asking though.

Phone # is listed in his profile contact me link.

Escorts that live in those cities might be the only ones available to take advantage. If there is a spike in visitors, the spike in hotel rates will price out a lot of traveling providers. Not sure the spike in demand would offset their lodging costs which typically is their biggest expense.

Its best to ask what it covers and what if any limits there are with the provider. Nothing worse to kill the mood and your boner when what you thought was a buffet ends up being an much more expensive Dim Sum tasting menu. Check please!

Good communication goes a long way. Some send a live location link which give you a very accurate idea of when they will show up. Love it when they use the technology to both of parties benefit.

Until 2023, homosexuality was illegal and punishable up to 2 years in prison. It has been decriminalized now. However, police can harass you easily and fine you. It remains a very conservative society. He was arrested, pleaded guilty and fined for pornography. He got huge amount of free PR from the arrest. Gained a lot of followers during that period. May have caused some embarrassment to his family, but it was a shred marketing move in my opinion.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/asia/onlyfans-titus-low-arrested-singapore-b2201970.html

Had wonderful experience with Mr_DonJuan Hairy without crossing the missing link line. 😆 Great stamina. Had excellent time .

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Updated version of cruising in the park. Just skipping all the exchanged glances.

This is not an inexpensive endeavor. In time, you may find more satisfaction from known solid hires and the occasional dice roll on an unknown sampler. Everyone rolls slightly differently depending on what else they have going on.

When I get asked, I usually don't mind since I know what they look like (if pics are theirs) so it is fair they know what I look like. Makes acknowledging each other a whole lot easier in the hotel lobby. Often get told I'm handsome after they see the pic. Not sure if that is just foreplay flattery or sincere. Nothing worse than opening the door and realizing the person you expected isn't at all who is in front of you. That's when your no solicitor reflex should kick in high gear. Not interested! 😆

New tools are allowing people to edit their photos without needing to know Photoshop anymore. Seeing more full AI profiles on IG as the tools become easier to use. A few instances, it's is putting AI profiles based on real profiles you follow. They focus on the AI persona and leave the background the same. Some are very good. IG seems to be uneven in flagging AI content. Ultimately if the person that shows up for the meet isn't who you thought, you are under no obligation to meet them much less pay them.

The thought is what counts. I happy bday text is always welcomed. Anything more is above and beyond. Totally up to the individual.

For some, the shared cultural baggage can be oppressive (boy bias for babies, tiger moms, Asian F complex, shame vs guilt as cultural bludgeons, being a doctor is revered, being a lawyer is tolerated, being an engineer is just right, be an accountant if you can't be the first three, familial piety, etc). For others, its a shared bond. It can push and pull Asians from or toward each other. It just depends on how tolerate of an environment your family happens to provide you when growing up. We all have our personal ideals. Finding and pursuing what that ideal is up to each of us.

100% agree. The inter-racial mixing over the generations has produced some stunning results. Not unlike the Philippines and some parts of Asia. Thousands of years of great empires and conquests. Koreans are some of the tallest and have some of the beautiful angular faces (Mongol like traits thanks to Genghis Khan raids) that have made the world swoon thanks to BTS and other K-Pop bands. K-beauty industry is changing the global industry because the Korean market changes so much faster than anywhere else for the past 20+ years. Lets be honest some of our personal bias is environmental. I grew up surrounded by Latinos and for a LONG time never considered them attractive. Baggage. Some of the guys I find now hot AF all happen to be Latin. Funny enough, Brazilian in particular. They are just a very sexual people. And because they are so used to being around many people of different races, they don't exhibit a lot of racism.

It really depends on you and where the thrill is for you. Some find the thrill in the hunt. Others find the thrill of the known and removing the chance of a meh meeting. First time meeting can be awkward as each party is trying to figure things out and what works or doesn't. I find subsequent meetings to be more enjoyable because we are more more comfortable with each other. When the connection is strong, it is a great feeling.

Despite the nature of the business, providers are not just pieces of nice meat to choose from though it can feel like that at times as we compare a guy's pros and cons. They are human and have baggage like we all do honestly. If you or they choose to open up about personal stuff, that is a personal choice. What you do with this or go from there is up to you. Some have become friends beyond or after the sexual connection, but that is more the rarity than the norm tbh.