Jump to content

RickD1980

Members
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    155

  • Joined

  • Last visited

 Content Type 

Posts posted by RickD1980

    NYC's Finest in 2021 - Manhattan

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    On 9/11/2021 at 9:39 AM, pubic_assistance said:

    Answering the "why" on this thread is a slippery slope of leaving a review in the discussion thread .

    So I would caution others to be brief and discreet in their response.

    For me it's https://rentmasseur.com/OmarCures. A perfect balance of everything I look for in a skilled massage with a full release of all my tension.

    Thank you so much for this. I'm going to contact him! His ad looks great.

    Massage Review Site

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    It's vitally important that, in the U.S. at least (I'm not sure about laws elsewhere), the masseur's livelihood NOT be put in jeopardy because of erotic, sensual or sexual talk. The NY State licensing board, for instance, will remove a person's license for what they consider "inappropriate" behavior even though the Manhattan DA said back in April 2021 that he would stop prosecuting prostitution.

    Please be mindful of this. It's why THIS forum discourages that very kind of review.

    Why aren't most masseurs/escorsts doing Only Fans?

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    9 hours ago, imma said:

    Wouldn't that make sense? Easy money too.

    Not at all easy money. That's the mistake a lot of guys make when they decide to get into OF - they think it's just going to be some hot sex and posting once in a while but you have to keep people interested. Videos of a model jacking off every day quickly get boring and they have to promote and produce their own content constantly as well as trying to get subscribers. It's not at all easy. Plus, most masseurs aren't interested in doing porn. Totally different thing. And many escorts prefer to remain as anonymous as possible also - only doing it for their clients rather than putting themselves on the internet. It takes a LOT of time and energy to do an OF.

    Tommy in NYC - Hand Injury

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    So my favorite masseur - Tommy in NYC - is dealing with hand injury that will have him out of commission for several weeks (if not longer). He referred me to George (George James Spa website), who gives a great massage and is 100% satisfying. I feel the same about Tommy but will miss him - at least until he recovers.

    Anyone else have experience with either George or Tommy and can recommend someone similar? A fully trained masseur, who is a real professional, who works on a table and provides a complete service?

    Hung Masseur NYC

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    Hey guys. Had the great luck of booking Eli last minute today. What a treat! Very nice guy, really great technique and holy shit he exceeds the definition of this thread. Can’t wait to go back! Check him out if you haven’t. A dream.

     

    Eli never responds to my messages. But who's Deon? Are they lovers or just business partners? The way the website looks, it seems like they are more than just biz partners.

    Masseur is making booty-calls to me

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    @Wolfer After reading the OP my initial thought was not to comment because it sounded like you have the situation properly analyzed. You just don't want to pull the trigger and make the decision to change (or cancel) the arrangement for fear of losing something. Others in this thread have responded with the "if it ain't broke" reply, but it really doesn't sound like you are comfortable with the situation to continue as is, whereas others might. For what it's worth, I'm not willing to say the masseur is using you, but you certainly present as the perfect client, i.e. someone he's attracted to and with whom he gets to have fun and get paid.

     

    What made me want to respond though was the above quoted comment. I don't know if flattered is a word I would use in this situation because it makes it sound like the masseur is doing you some courtesy by seeking out your business and you should be grateful for it. That kind of thinking is partly why you seem upset about the situation.

     

    A while ago I had a somewhat similar situation. I had a regular masseur and after our first couple of sessions we had full on sex. From that point on we had sex every time we met. He was very nice and complimented me and I knew he enjoyed himself. I even saw him out socially once and we hung out a bit. We would email and share funny memes, etc. He never reached out to me about setting up a time, but in my mind I always approached a session with him as a paying client. We weren't FWB. However, there were a couple of times when he was particularly horny that he pretty much skipped the massage and went to town on me immediately. (And yes, the sex was good! haha) When that happened, he would leave without asking for payment. In those instances it was about him getting pleasure (and also pleasuring me) and not him providing a service. If your guy is not willing to do that, then you have your answer. You either need to cut him or decide if you can continue with things as they are, putting aside any feelings of being afraid he might say no at some point.

     

    This the most thorough and thoughtful response on this thread, IMHO. Okashii isn't telling you what to do based on their own feelings but, rather, using their experience to hold up a mirror to your situation. Ultimately, it's for you to decide whether you're getting enough bang for your buck (pun intended.)

     

    While I might be flattered that a hot masseur wants to F, I would assess whether I was feeling fulfilled by the situation OR if I were being taken advantage of.

    NYC masseur/hotel

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    This raises a red flag for me. Every masseur I've ever used in NYC has his own space or, if not, has a shared office/rents space weekly or monthly specifically for his work. Renting a hotel room every time he books a massage is not standard practice, though I've heard of this for escorts.

    RentMasseur vs MasseurFinder

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    Really appreciate this response, @dutchal! Admittedly, I've kinda stayed clear of MF because it's just so unclear what might or might not happen in a session. As you point out in #3, price is the only info to go on there.

     

    My challenge with RM is that I'm definitely looking for a legit massage in addition to the erotic stuff. I like that guys can be more clear in their profiles on RM, but I also wonder who among them are actually really skilled masseurs. Reviews definitely help, and as someone in another thread pointed out, the guys with a hundred model-esque photos seem dubious to me. Recently I've started checking to see if a guy on RentMasseur also advertises on RentMen. If he does, I assume he's just on RentMasseur to drum up more escorting business and probably can't give a real massage. No thanks!

     

    I think the challenge, as you stated, is finding out if anyone gives a really good massage PLUS more that MT. With MF, I ask directly about HE but I never assume that the guy will go further than that. With RM I assume the opposite but I also ask up front. The problem is, if you're too explicit with your questions, they can't be answered by text or email. It's better to pick up the phone and speak directly to the guy.

     

    I always find a way to ask. I've had good luck that way. And I don't expect more than MT or HE on the first session with a guy from MF.

Contact Info:

The Company of Men
5834 C. North Kings Hwy #4343
Alexandria, VA 22303

Email: moderators@companyofmen.org

Help Support Our Site

Our site operates with the support of our members. Make a one-time donation using the buttons below.

$10 $25 $50 $100 $200

Make a recurring donation

Additional Resources

×
×
  • Create New...