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Is this a real question in today's #Me too environment?

Watching this long conversation unfold

I really mean small town Kansas well west and south of KC. The KC area and exurbs as far as Lawrence serve as moderate to liberal oases. But you'd be surprised at the number of small towns here that have gay couples who are quite happy.

What happens in Wichita stays in Wichita …

I have a coworker from Dodge City. That's the town where they moved the polling location so the only way to vote was to drive out of town if one had a car and time on their hands to do so. Worrisome. Still I remember fun times in Wichita.

And now some scenes from next week's presentation of Victorien Sardou's classic melodrama, " Les rues de Montreal"....

I really mean small town Kansas well west and south of KC. The KC area and exurbs as far as Lawrence serve as moderate to liberal oases. But you'd be surprised at the number of small towns here that have gay couples who are quite happy.

I really mean small town Kansas well west and south of KC. The KC area and exurbs as far as Lawrence serve as moderate to liberal oases. But you'd be surprised at the number of small towns here that have gay couples who are quite happy.

Depends on where u are. The trend in most U.S.
clubs that have stripping as their main attraction seems to be more teasing, less contact. And the customer is expected to keep his distance beyond tipping and, maybe, a private lap dance. But in a few cities, particularly New Orleans, the culture and attitude of the city is reflected in the clubs. The Corner Pocket has been around for over 30 years, and though the city clamps down on what the dancers and customers can do now and then, it still has a very lax attitude about contact between customers and dancers. How much contact is largely up to the dancers (on most nights). As long as you tip bartender and dancers consistently, you will have few limits in New Orleans. Other places I'm not as familiar. For more feel free to pm.

I think clueless, dim, gorgeous guys are SO adorable.
But the gals... SO annoying.

Good article...it just reinforces what I already know and feel about social media:
 
“The internet has become a place to treat identity and anonymity like a stack of cards in perpetual shuffle, whether on Second Life or in the quarrelsome forums of Reddit. Social media platforms function as digital canvases of endless self-creation and branding.”
 
I don’t know. I am just an old soul to an extent. I can appreciate how social media (specially only fans and such) can bring people to normalize an “influencer”, but my experience with people who are “influential” on social media and give off this constant vibe that everything is rosy, and their pictures always show them looking sexy and flawless....usually have all sort of issues. But they portray and live this image of some type of idol. I’ve met guys who were big on social media, but had no car, lived with their grandmother, no job, no money, alcoholics, disrespectful, unreliable...but yet their social media was brimming with likes and followers as if they were such wonderful people.
 
I just feel like we’re at a point where nothing is never enough. Being an escort posting face/nude pics isn’t enough. You’ve got to be on social media. Social media alone isn’t enough, you’ve got to be doing porn. Now doing porn isn’t enough, you’ve got to be on onlyfans and winning “subscribers”.
 
I’m not saying one has to do all these things to be relevant, but I feel like every couple of years, I feel like I’m not doing enough...because there’s something else and another that you should be doing. The blogger also made a good point in the article: An influencer may be advertising content to God knows who of what type of people. You just don’t really know.
 
At this point, I’m trying to take the direction into filming, but I know that’s like “old school” now. However, I don’t see getting anywhere with onlyfans just right off the bat. I’m doing better focusing on my individual clients and making sure people who don’t follow thru send me my cancellation fees, rather than putting into a full time business of trying to keep interest going on onlyfans.

Maybe he grew up in Long Beach!

I started escorting when I was 19.. when I was a full time male companion I did very well and actually had numerous great reviews although under a different name.I was able to travel all over and experience things that I normaly wouldn’t have been able too.The downside was that I had no life experience, had never worked a job and was basically still a child and wasn’t able to enjoy my experiences as much as I would now. My mindset is that I want to have you walking away relaxed satisfied, happy and able to know that you can reach out to me whenever you like since I am looking to build long lasting relationships.I also got to meet great people from a variety of different backgrounds. I had a lot of fun but didn’t really get to appreciate it until I had stopped escorting and had settled down. I miss the interaction and now that I am older and wiser lol I know how special and important this is. I love getting to know someone and making that connection, traveling and trying new things hearing about your life. I love being that relief from your hectic life and that one person who is listening to you and truly cares about what you have to say and making that connection. Love film and going to museums but most importantly I know how precious time is, it’s something you can’t get a back and I will make sure our time together is more then memorable. I am a considerate, kind hearted down to earth individual. I’m listed as Andrew Rojas and am based in New Orleans. “Do the best you can until you know that. Then when you know better, do better”-Maya Angelou

I would agree with the others that recommend not starting that sort of relationship with a coworker. Always best to follow the old adage, “don’t shit where you eat.”

....always preferred "don't dip your pen into company ink" myself....

I wish the software allowed me to "like" this more than once.
 
One additional thought about hookup apps (which Unicorn's message implies) - they are not appropriate conversation topics with a co-worker.
 
Since you are new to the firm, you should read their policy regarding workplace conduct and harassment. If the company uses an automated training solution you will probably receive a required training course very soon. Pay close attention to it when you take it.

I met Jack 4 months ago. Very friendly. We had cocktails when he arrived. He didn’t say “no” to anything... One caveat, he texted me a week later and asked for a loan..I ghosted him.

1500 per hour? For what? Also 500 per hour is expensive! I guess that boy thinks 1500 hangs on some trees and that you can pluck it and just throw away on him! I would say just move on! There are excellent boys who will take say 200-300 per hour and make you happy.

The final years of finding straight (or "straight") trade in gay bars!

Anybody we know?

I'm up to epi 3.
Was wondering if we get to see A-Train nekkid, and then came the locker room scene. Nice basket. Loved watching his nipples smoothed with lotion, although not sure what that was about, but I don't need to know. I think that was the point.
 
 
 
Is anyone else hungry for Mother's Milk?'
 
 

This topic was an issue for me only 4 days ago.
 
After keeping me waiting 20 min in hotel lobby... guy was ready just as I was ready to move on.
 
Up to room, he immediately asked for money. I refused. Showed him I had money, offered to put $100 on table. He refused, told me we should just cancel. Explained prior client refused to pay after. I responded Id had several experiences of guys grabbing the money and ending things. He repeated his insistence, I repeated mine.
 
We worked it out, proceeded. I did NOT pay in advance. In hindsight, wish Id moved on.