Had a great time with him tonight. I was very upfront with what I was looking for, he was clear what he was game for and what his limits are. Massage was B+, but only lasted the first 30 minutes before I turned over and moved on.
While I did have fun, I think I enjoy more of a mystery of "will they or won't they" in a massage where it gets me excited, but there's also a chance nothing happens, rather than expecting it after discussing it. When it does happen, those moments are more magical.