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Always weird to me when guys hook up with guys that look just like them
 
https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/537473/happy-endings-massage-becomes-bedroom-breeding/
 
Still hot though

Taking this line of thought to the extreme.... Why are you even having sex, ever? I would assume it is because you have calculated your acceptable risk threshold and are willing to participate in some level of activity that you feel comfortable with.
 
Has COVID changed my behavior? Absolutely. Are there people that I trust enough to still engage in sexual activity even during a pandemic? Yes, very few, but yes.
 
COVID could be with us... FOREVER. New norms and risk equations are being redefined. Let's let people make up their own minds with no unfair judgements, OK?

Took a chance on an unknown and hit the jackpot! Highly recommend

I prefer nicely trimmed pubes, I don't like having to part the hair with my nose. I'm good with shaved too, but razor bumps down there a turn off.

I do that as a client. If it's an out call, I leave it in my car.

I love everything about Griffin Barrows!
 
https://thegay.com/videos/782947/diego-grant-breeds-griffin-barrows/?fr=782947&rp=1

When I started hiring two years ago, before I found out about RM, I booked a few through pro section of a4a. I still check it on occasion, but isn't my go to place anymore.

It was about 7 or so years ago. My favorite cousin was giving her kid a party at water park hotel about 30 mins away. I drove out there, didn't book a room as I figured I wouldn't be staying the night since it wasn't too far to drive home. She had a hotel room booked where they prepared food, had cake & ice cream, the regular kid party stuff. I found a nice spot in the corner where I discreetly popped opened a4a hoping to find a guy near so I could make a pit stop on my way home. It just so happen at the hotel that weekend a ton of military guys where put up there before they went home. One of them sent me a "smile" and we started chatting. Both unlocked our pics, he invited me to his room. His roommate had left early as his wife had drove up to pick him up, so he had the room to himself. My predicament was figuring out how I gonna ditch my family to get up to his room.
 
The party started to head down to the water park. I thought here's my opportunity. I messaged him my plan. I stuck my phone in my pocket & followed them down. As we were about to enter the water park, I said I forgot my phone and was going back to the room for it, my aunt was still in the room, but I wasn't really going back there. I had to make a pit stop lol. As I'm walking back, I hear one of my other cousins say he was going to come with me. I pretended not to hear him, and started walking faster. As I got to the elevators I hit the button, sent him a message I'll be there in few minutes. but the elevator didn't come soon enough, so I ducked into the stairwell to dodge my cousin, i went up 5 flights to his level. Sent him another message that I was on his floor & he sent me his room number.
 
I got to his door, a little out of breath. Waited a moment to catch my breath before I knocked. He opened the door only wearing a jock strap ? he was slim muscular build, a couple tattoos. I remember him smelling really good too. He started pulling my clothes off. We started swapping BJ's, 69. Then he asked me to fuck him. I agreed.
 
He grabbed some lube out of his bag and lubed up my dick & his ass. I asked him what position he wanted to do, he said missionary, Which is one of my favorites, so I was game. He laid back, I helped lift his legs. Lined up my dick to enter him, looked him in the eyes and asked if he was ready, he nodded. He had nice deep blue eyes, you could just get lost in them. As I began to enter him, we continued to make eye contact. He let out a soft moan, I stopped and asked if he was ok, or wanted me to stop, he say to keep going. I continued to enter him, we broke eye contact. When I felt I was far enough in him, I asked him if he was still ok, he said he was. I began fuck him slowly at first, then faster, we kept making eye contact as I alternated between fast & slow hip thrusts. He was stroking his dick as I fucked him. As I got close, he wanted me to cum in him. We cummed at the same time, with dueling moans while making eye contact. I collapsed on his cum covered chest, my dick still inside him, spent.
 
We both caught our breath, I slipped my dick out of him. We cleaned ourselves up, his parents were on their way to pick him up. I had to get back down to the party. We both got dressed & said our exiting pleasantries. We both knew our paths wouldn't cross again, he lived a few hours away. I slid into the water park, they asked what took me so long, I told them I got lost & ended up in the wrong room tower. Enjoyed the rest of the party, but was hungry, I always get hungry after sex. I ate way too much of the leftover birthday cake. Drove home with a stomach ache.
 
Sorry for the long post.

I don't think anyone should be shamed for having preferences. However, preferences are not the same as being discriminatory. I'm mostly into good looking, well dressed, muscular, masculine, black men with smooth skin and nice smiles. That said I generally am not drawn to Asian men, but I've seen some Asian men that I thought were very attractive. I'm generally not into white guys, but I've seen some white guys that I think are attractive. Generally not into Latin guys but I've come across some Latin dudes that I wouldn't turn away. So I would say my preference is Black men but I would never rule out an entire group and I think that makes the difference. As long as your preference isn't rooted in something nefarious like prejudices, stereotypes, or racism and it is purely based on attraction, then I see no problem.
 
With that being said, It does make you wonder when someone does rule out an entire group if there isn’t something nefarious at play. I’m not saying that there is, but I’m just saying that it does make you wonder.

It's unfortunate that the OP's thread has been occupied, colonized actually, since page 2 by a white guy who just had to make it all about him and his feels. I hope the OP got at least something useful out of it.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f1077c4e11a6&utm_source=www.lpsg.com&utm_medium=embed-mobile&utm_campaign=embed-logo-html5

I second that. I saw him for first the first time two weeks ago. Very impressed.

I second that. I saw him for first the first time two weeks ago. Very impressed.

When you look at race as a fetish, you begin to cross over to the offensive/racism side. BBC isn't a race. What's funny about Liking Asians? Liking or disliking hairy guys or even bottoming is completely different from liking or disliking skin color.

I started hiring masseurs in 2018, which grew to escorts a year later. I think I've hired or randomly hooked up with every color in the rainbow & varying body types. I'm more attracted to confidence than body type, race or even gender. In my 33 years on this Earth, my unscientific study says all dicks taste the same. Also if you're fucked blindfolded, you can't tell anything, but maybe dick size, about the person who is fucking you. Basically we're all the same when the lights are out. No need to limit yourself to just one type. Personally, I think those who do limit themselves to certain races or body types are depriving themselves of the full buffet that was created for all of us to enjoy, and might miss out on their one true love. So if someone isn't interested based on silly "preferences", it's their lost. Other dicks in the sea.

I often felt like that after hiring. It was a high followed by an even more intense low. This was the norm until I met the person who would become my first regular. I saw him for many years. Overnights, weekends, even longer. I would probably still be seeing him today if circumstances wouldn't have made that impossible. But the important thing in this, was that I finally met someone who didn't make me feel bad about myself afterwards, and that made all the difference.
After, I still saw escorts.. but less frequently. Again those bad feelings about myself afterwards returned. Just when I was about to give up, I met the escort that would become my second regular. We have progressed from an hour to overnight to full weekends. Once again I never feel bad about myself after seeing him.
 
Here are few important things to keep in mind though.
Do not allow seeing escorts to replace your real life experiences of making real friends and dating. To do so will definitely reinforce those negative feelings and self-worth doubts because you will not experience friendship and affection without paying for it. Unfortunately, it's way too easy to fall into this trap.
 
While escorts and clients can develop deep relationships of some sort, always remember that its almost always transactional based. You can be friendly, your companion may actually enjoy your company... but It's a job for your companion. When the $ stops so does the "friendship & affection".
*There are a VERY few exceptions to this (but it's so extremely rare) and should never be expected.
 
You don't pay people to be your real friends.
 
Most importantly, if the net effect on you is negative, definitely stop seeing escorts.

I’m very happy with the decision my parents made for me, and even happier that they made it when I was too young to remember. But I definitely appreciate that others feel differently.
 

Soo if you're dying with a GSW "Gun Shot Wound" and the only Medical Doctor on staff is BLACK / LATIN / ASIAN who can save your life what would you do ?????

I had chest hair and lasered it years ago. I am glad I did before it turned grey. I now have grey hair on my head that I love and hate. I am contemplating turning it to a darker shade of grey.

I have a grindr ad that I use to hire that doesn’t have any face pics. A very sexy guy that I was friendly with in high school messaged it.
 
I said I’d love to help him out, but that we were acquainted through school, and I felt bad knowing his identity while he didn’t know mine as I prefer anonymity when I hire.
 
He convinced himself that I was a teacher of his and I let him believe it.
 
He is a night attendant at a group home and invited me over at midnight after everyone was asleep. He immediately recognized me, said that the mystery of this was so hot, and that he was incredibly turned on.
 
We had a fun romp, I paid him, and before I could start my car, he had blocked me from all social media accounts and Grindr. It was still fun, and he definitely kept his sexyness, but I think he’s very scared to be outed, not that I ever would.

I don't. But I'm intrigued. Loved his videos.

When you look at race as a fetish, you begin to cross over to the offensive/racism side. BBC isn't a race. What's funny about Liking Asians? Liking or disliking hairy guys or even bottoming is completely different from liking or disliking skin color.

I would say we where more acquaintances since we had a just few classes together. We never actually hung out. He is not discreet about his sexuallity and it doesn't seem from his FB posts that he is discreet about his "side business." He doesn't advertise in fb but there are very subtle hints about sex work via comments posts.

Why do u want to hire guys who are racist? I ask this earnestly: Where is your dignity? Self respect? Why not hire guys who you know have no issues with your skin color or ethnic background?? Is being degraded, demeaned and disrespected part of the turn on? Perhaps it may behoove you and benefit you to do some self study or therapy to get to the bottom of this, which could serve you well in all areas of your life including your sexual life.
 
With that being said, I’m Black (very good looking if I do say so myself) and i do give a description of myself including that I am Black when Im hiring. I tend to hire smooth, muscular Black guys because that's what I like and I haven’t had any issues...but if I were to ever come across a white boy that I wanted to hire or anyone for that matter and if there were ANY indication in his ad or through his communication that he were anti-black, id be turned off immediately! I can't imagine wanting to throw money at someone like that.

It's soo sad too read this etc... I been in your shoes many many times over...... I been doing massages for a long time... When clients show up they would freak out and say " Oh Damm Your Black" or "Sorry Not into Blacks" soo then I had to add my race / stats / pics etc too my listing to make it clear what race I am.... It was bad when people would call me on my cell with block numbers and just call me the " N-Word" Soo now I have my cell phone forward my calls to my landline to show caller ID and stops blocked number(s)...
 
When new clients contact me I make sure they goto my site to see my pics / race etc... it works... less hassles / drama... I even have it posted on my site ALL RACES WELCOME.....