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It's been a mixed bag for me. I had one provider contact me when I changed my travel location to Las Vegas. He was very aggressive with several messages even though I hadn't even looked at his page. When I did, he messaged me several more and then blocked my as a "time waster" for simply asking a few basic questions. But I've had a couple contact me in Denver and it's been generally okay. Hooked up with some, passed on others. Oddly, I had one do so recently only to not reach me after messaging him back. Maybe he got busy.

James Stevens is an absolute gentleman. So is Gianni. Very nice guys...although honestly almost every guy I've ever been with has been pretty nice.

I usually do hour sessions, but honestly do like to do longer ones on occasion so I could get a more BFE with the guy. I had a really nice evening session in London, which was great because I didn't know anyone there and got a nice time to see the city from a resident, have some hot fun from an apartment overlooking the Thames and then after even enjoy a nice sauna in his building. To me it can be worth the extra money. Almost would rather do a longer session once a month than two short sessions every paycheck.

I do not seek out PNP at all, but I was with an escort once who was on it while we were together and honestly didn't even notice it. We had a multi-hour session and I only realized when he started to use again as our night was ending and he was about to go out to try and meet with more clients. At first I was a little weirded out, but he explained that he has ADHD and it helps him both focus more on the client and to stay up all night so he can work longer. He explained that he had smoked meth just a few minutes before I met up with him, but I had no idea that he was on any substances at all except cigarettes. I did try meth one time and know it's not something for me, but I am not going to judge others for their choices. It's probably likely that many of us clients have hired escorts who were on meth or other substances and we didn't even know it. @Kurtis Wolfe ...I was going to suggest Gay Lesbian Medical Association, (http://www.glma.org/) an organization a good friend is a part of who help train and advocate health professionals to learn about LGTBQ medical issues. They did a big study on the health effects of meth on the LGTBQ population about a decade ago that is still used be medical professionals. But actually I think Dance Safe is probably a better organization that more directly helps the LGBTQ population. I'd go with them too.

All I am trying to say is that the way you present yourself is likely costing you clients in general. You're right I am never going to hire you because of the way you talk about your clients. But there are now probably another dozen or so on this forum who are probably also not going to hire you for the same reason. The fact that you significantly edited both your original post and the title of this thread shows that you probably too understand how your messaging may be alienating to your clientele.

I think the first time it pays to maybe do a longer session..90 minutes or two hours. I did that the first time and it helped with the nerves. We met at the hotel bar he was staying at, had a drink and conversation for a bit and then went up to his room. It's worth the extra money to make sure you have the time to feel comfortable with him. There is also a nice safety in meeting the provide in public. Then once you get used to hiring, 1 hours sessions are just fine.

@Mocha I do understand what you are saying. I am sure it is frustrating from the provider perspective dealing with us clients who can be flaky and inconsiderate. I see that you are coming to Denver soon, but from my perspective, I would not be inclined to hire you because of the way you talk about clients and the way it appears you have a lot of hoops you make clients go through. The same weekend you are here, I have two semi-regulars visiting Denver and they are the ones going to get my business over you because I don't want to deal with a provider with such a negative attitude towards clients (even though it is probably often justified). I don't say this to antagonize you. I think you often add a thoughtful discussion to this forum and probably do a great job for many fo your clients. But I am probably not the only potential client who is turned off by the way you decide to present yourself both on this forum and in your Rent.Men ad. Maybe it's worth it to you to avoid those flaky clients that you have to deal with, but I also feel it's quite likely that you're losing business in the process. But best of luck with whatever you are trying to do.

Totally agree. Him and his best bud Gael Garcia Bernal are both very good looking to me. And seeing their homoerotic roles in Y Tu Mama Tambien, I always wondered if maybe they messed around a bit together in real life.

You're actually getting things confused. Lashana Lynch is actually going to play 007, not James Bond. The novels and previous movies both established that the 007 code name has been held by agents before Bond and there are also other numeric code names (00 means you have a license to kill). Apparently Lynch will be playing the newest iteration of 007 after James Bond retires in the newest film (https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/film-tv/a28419248/new-james-bond-007-lashana-lynch/), but James Bond will remain played by Daniel Craig and will assuredly come back into action at some point. Also as someone else pointed out Thor actually has been Jane Foster in the comics before and there have been at least five other Thors as well. The original story of Thor actually had a disabled medical student named Donald Blake become Thor after finding Mjolnir although that was later retconned. But there have been many times where the original Thor has been incapacitated or otherwise unable to wield Mjolnir and another Thor has been in his place. In both cases, there has been long established continuity that women could play both 007 and Thor. So I feel people upset about this are likely more upset at the supposed "political correctness" involved than any connection to the established background of both characters.

Definitely all true. I actually did review him on the local escort web site in England that he uses. He actually said he would prefer I not review him on Daddy Reviews.

No, but he has been posting in Denver for a while and seems like a handsome and nice guy. Not my type, but definitely worth a shot if he's yours.

Yes..I actually love having lots of touching and cuddling with escorts, especially this guy who was shaved/waxed smooth and was absolutely wonderful to touch head to toe. But in retrospect, I should've have never offered to top. Probably about 80 percent of the time when I am with escorts, I just bottom and am fine with that, but for some reason I felt like topping him in that moment. I do think my initial conversations with him (I had specifically said I was vers because I do top a lot more in my dating life), should have led him to being prepared as he too advertised as a versatile. So I think there was just a communication issue with this particular escort.

James/Virgil is great. Just met him recently when was in Denver last week. We met last winter in Denver as well, because he actually testified in Denver to support a gay conversion therapy ban for minors. He is such a great advocate for this issue and his personal story so powerfully shows why gay conversion is harmful and should be made illegal.

I did meet with him. Daddy Review Matt Muck.

No...I spent a solid 4 hours with him that included a massage, full-service fun and some time in his sauna, plus drinks and dinner. He did have very good massage skills though.

I had a great massage with Daniel in a recent trip to London. He's based in Vauxhall/Nine Elms. https://ukgayescort.com

They are hidden from people accessing the site in the US. I was looking for guys in England for the trip I just took there and you couldn't see their prices in the US. Once I got to England, they became visible though.

They stopped posting prices in the US after FOSTA-SESTA law made web sites more liable for potentially illegal activities. In Europe they still post prices. I think there may be some way to see them through a VPN but not sure how to do that. So yeah, you have to contact the escort directly. Though if they have a Daddy Review, they have prices on there. However, keep in mind that the prices may have changed since the review was done.

I have definitely spent time with escorts after a relationship has ended. It's definitely great to be with someone that doesn't come with all the complexity of a relationship and just have a nice and relaxing time.

Yeah he definitely did not offer any additional time and as I said in my original post I kinda shied away from asking for it because the rate was already pretty good compared to American rates and the escort's English was somewhat limited and wasn't sure I'd be able to communicate that well to him. Clearly, that had already been an issue. We were basically just kinda cuddling at the end and he just sort of started to look at his phone and he said he had to go meet someone else so he basically ended it just a couple minutes after the hour we had. But thanks for your response, because mostly I was thinking for future escorts with stronger English ability. I remember one escort I was with had a family phone call he had to take during the session and as a result offered me some additional time. But maybe if he hadn't offered the time, your response leads me to feel that I should be comfortable asking for it. That's helpful..thanks!

I'm not sure exactly what your question is but I do know that the situation in Venezuela has created a lot of desperate refugees willing to do whatever just for food or a bit of money to help their families. Many have been taken advantage in sex trafficking rings in Colombia where many of the refugees are ending up.This article is more about women but I suspect the same applies to many gay men or simply men desperate enough to do whatever for money or food. ttps://www.reuters.com/article/us-colombia-venezuela-slavery/desperate-venezuelan-migrants-fall-prey-to-sex-slavery-in-colombia-idUSKCN1NX22X Not saying one shouldn't watch and give tokens or whatever to these young men. It's hard to say whether they are victims of sexual trafficking or if they are simply desperate individuals doing things on their own. But I do think that the Venezuela crisis is a part of it. (The UN estimates there are now 4 million Venezuelan refugees now).

There are currently more than 20 listed on Rent.Men, including many well-reviewed ones that are there traveling. I think you'd likely be able to find someone to fit your desires.

Yeah, I think I'm going to be taking a break from the hobby now that I'm in a relationship. It's not fair to compare a regular guy with these beautiful men with amazing sexual skills that few could ever possess. While it is great to spend an hour with them, they can't provide the stability and love of a relationship. So I think I need to stop my visits with them for the time being because it truly is challenging sexually to be comparing one with the other.

I got a nice massage from him ages ago. Very handsome face with beautiful blue eyes, definitely agree with his "dad-bod" assessment, but I actually like the hairy otter type. He's just not a gym muscle type at all. He was a bit distant I'd say. But I only had an erotic massage with him..nothing more so can only speak to that. He did have a very nice dick though that he let me touch during the massage which was hot.

Both Midtowne and DSC are fun..I kinda prefer Denver Swim Club, just because I feel like it's a bit nicer and with an outdoor pool, it has a great summer swim and sunbathe naked scene, which I love. Midtowne does have more private rooms available so that might be a better fit if you are wanting that. They also do "Jack-Off shows" with fairly attractive guys dancing and masturbating in a theater space, which can be pretty hot. You really can't go wrong with either one though. Sunday afternoons are actually a very popular time if you want to go when there will be lots of hot guys. Most nights of the week are also pretty popular.