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Logan is great. Very chill guy, very professional...though he is definitely a bit older than his profile suggests. Can give more deets if you want them. I've no experience with DiscreetGuyCo...though seems like he'd be great. Other good mid-20s escorts I would suggest are https://rent.men/JohnME or https://rent.men/theonlygotti.

And I always thought getting your daily dose of vitamin D was a euphemism.

Believe it or not, Mike has a full-time job in addition to his escorting. Plus he still does his Just For Fans account (https://justfor.fans/MikeGaite) He probably just doesn't have time.

Mike Gaite is a true professional. He's always the one I recommend whenever someone wants to begin this hobby because he makes everyone feel welcome and sexy. Just a super nice guy and super smart as well. Not to mention incredibly good looking.

I would say I have become friendly with a couple escorts...I have done things like have a few drinks and dinner with them outside of hiring them. But I have always hired them if there was any expectation of intimacy. It's their job after all. And just like you support an artist friend by buying his/her art, you support you escort friend by buying his/her time.

I definitely enjoy having my regulars. Love having that rapport with someone where you kinda understand what turns each other on. Plus in some cases, we have similar interests and I enjoy catching up with them and doing some mutually fun activities outside of the bedroom. But I also enjoy meeting a new guy every once in a while. It's fun to explore a new body and have new sensations as they do things you are maybe not as familiar with.

I actually think there are some escorts that make more money than I do. Both because they are successful and because my job is pretty middle middle class. One of my regulars insists on us going Dutch for our dinner dates because I hire for longer sessions and pay for theater tickets. After getting to know me, he recognizes (and is appreciative) of the significant portion of my monthly budget I spend on our time together.

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In my opinion, you can find plenty of guys who will use condoms. Just ask..most of them well and many prefer and some even require it.

John is good. Haven't been with Jay. His ad recently expired so curious if he is taking a break or not.

I've been with him twice. Definitely worth the massage tantra combo. He is actually pretty vers.

Yes! I definitely think that's why this forum and the reviews are so important. If we're going to spend our hard-earned money on this hobby, it definitely should be with someone worth it.

I appreciate the review. Sounds like maybe personal problems getting in the way of the job. I think we've all been there one way or another. Not really something you could respond too, just take a break maybe and try to return when you're in a better headspace. Wish the best of luck to Sean.

Yeah fortunately I have a very solid pension and retirement fund that I put extra money into so I feel like I'll be good for retirement. I live in a fairly small studio apartment. While I could afford a nicer, larger place, I'd rather spend that money on traveling and this hobby.

Interesting way to use your winnings. I definitely would hire more if I struck rich that way.

My co-worker teaches a financial literacy and budgeting class that I sometimes overhear. She talks a lot about how that $5 a day mocha latte adds up more than $1000 a year that could be going to other financial goals. It got me thinking, not about cutting back this hobby, but more just about how much I spend on it. I estimate that I have spent about $7,500 in the about two and a half years or so that I have been engaging in hiring. I don't regret it and in fact save and cut back on other things to engage in this as it makes me happy. But just curious about how other view this expense. How much have you spent on this hobby? Do you feel it's worth it? Is it easily within your budget or do you have to cut other expenses to afford it? Just curious about how others manage their finances in what can be an expensive hobby.

I agree! With my GP I am honest too though that specific question has never come up for me. There is a nurse that handled the PrEp and I am honest with her about my sexual history too.

I agree with this completely. Denver is still mostly a $200-$250 city but a couple of the more successful guys who travel have started to charge $300. I did decide to meet with one who I hired in the past at the lower rate because we had a good time with lots of great conversation, some nice chemistry and some mutual sensuality, plus he let the session extend a bit past the hour (and of course I gave him a nice tip for a great time). Unfortunately, at $300 the same guy is a lot more rote, less sensual, and was trying to get out of my place at 45 minutes. So I haven't hired him since then. Maybe I have higher expectations now, but I feel like if you are going to increase your prices, you should try to provide a better experience. Too often though, escorts are charging more but providing less to the client. And that just leaves me being a lot more picky and engaging in the hobby less often.

I hear you. When I first started I was very excited and wanted to hire all the time, but I've definitely slowed down a lot. For me, it's basically been a couple of traveling regulars and then if someone comes into town that I am really excited about. I think part of it for me is I'd rather save money and then have a really great, longer experience with someone I am really interested than have more frequent sessions with guys that are fine but nothing special.

I don't think you should clarify the fee actually, just be prepared for current rates ($200-$300 depending on city). I suspect he is simply a new or returning escort seeing what he should set his rates based on client reaction. The older ad might indicate he is returning to escorting and doesn't know what the rates are like now so he is testing the waters.

I think all the points you made are valid. I think his pictures look a bit too professional. There is a way to check them if they are posted elsewhere (like on Instagram or Facebook) but I don't know how to do that and that information isn't always a red flag (for example, it could be from the escort's own Instragram). You could definitely have him send a photo with today's date. Or you could just go for an escort you know is real by choosing one that is on DaddyReviews or has been mentioned on this forum. It's tricky...I do think most escorts are real, but there are some fakers out there for sure. Good luck and enjoy the hobby.

I'm always kind of curious what they do with that information. Obviously your personal information is confidential, but I always wonder if the aggregate information is used in certain ways. Like if there are a lot of people in a certain area that pay or get paid fo sex, do they send that to the police to try to get more enforcement in the area? I always say no too.

The "new" HIV strain actually has been around for decades, it's just that scientists have only recently been able to use new technologies and techniques to discern that there exists another strain of HIV that was previously unknown. https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/what-know-about-new-hiv-strain-n1078291

Personality, face, body, dick in that order. I prefer a smart guy that can have a conversation and is chill. Love to be able to cuddle and hang out after. The guys with an appealing personality are the ones I make my regulars, the ones who don't tend be the one-offs. A handsome dude is so important. Someone with a great smile. I actually don't really like an overly muscled guy. Give me someone lean and mean any day. I also prefer guys that are at least 7.5"+ I usually top in relationships/hook-ups but when I'm hiring I prefer to bottom, so need a guy that can deliver something.

I think outdated is worse. I get why an escort doesn't want to show his face on a public page like Rent.men. We have to remember that many guys are doing this on the side and have careers and families to think about. I actually work in the same industry as one of my semi-regulars and totally get why there are no face pics. The moment he came to the door, I recognized him instantly. If his face was plastered all over rent.men (even in a private gallery), it wouldn't take long for someone else in my industry to show them to his boss or something. I mean I get that is a bit of a risk regardless, but I also get why someone wants to be careful.