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I think Omicron is going to burn out quickly. Already it's subsiding in South Africa. I think in a few weeks it will be mostly done. I'm probably not going to hire until I visit Washington DC for the forum events there. I think it's good to be prudent while Omicron does its thing but I think it's really not going to last very long.

Haha..yes. I do get around apparently. I do like him. He's straight FYI, but eager to please. I can give more info on PM.

I like to do both. On the one hand, locals often can become nice regulars that you can build a good rapport with. But then you do sometimes see them out in public or whatever which can be awkward. Traveling escorts are great as well because they can be more available during the day (which is when I can often meet up). One thing I sometimes like to do with a traveling escort is have a bit of a longer session if I can afford it. That way it makes it a bit more worth their time to make sure everything is good for you. Plus I sometimes have been able to have nice company for dinner or a theater event or something and that makes it special too.

Yep! I liked him can give more deets on PM if you like.

No, but I really like his ad. I'd definitely consider him if I was in his area.

Yeah I've had periodic problems with loading it today as well. Other sites work fine so it mus be Rent.Men's servers.

Thanks for the greeting Sam. And thanks so much to all the moderators and folks keeping this valuable site going. Hope everyone has a great holiday season and a wonderful 2022!

For me it has to be Jay. The best combo of really good therapeutic massage with all the extras. Maybe not the typical muscle dude but I personally think he's quite handsome with a nice body. Great guy overall.

I have regular Kaiser and it's much much cheaper for me. Generic Truvada is usually only like $50 for 3-months supply by mail-order. The tests for PrEp (STD/Blood panel) are more expensive than the medication itself. Usually it costs me a couple hundred for three-months with everything.

I think it might just be a holiday related thing. A lot of guys have family commitments around now or travel plans. I don't think there are any new sites. It's pretty much the Rent.Men monopoly in the US.

I agree. Allen is wonderful. My suspicion is that he's just getting of RM. Last time we met he talked about how much of a drag it was becoming with time-wasters. My guess is he's developed dozens of regulars that he can rely on without the RM hoops. I have no inside information though I think he actually really enjoys his work just not RM.

I think this is fairly common especially with maybe escorts that are still kinda getting their careers together or maybe are just in a bit of a slump. We have to remember, we are their income and if they're not making what they need, of course they are going to reach out to us if we've been a regular source of income before. I think it does warrant a bit of tact especially if you are wanting to meet with him again. I've often said that I am saving up to hire again in the future and I'll reach out when I'm able to meet. Or that I've just gotten back from a big trip and don't have anything currently left to hire. Gives the impression that you're still interested but also that there really isn't any reason to be pushy since you honestly cannot afford to hire. Obviously if he is being aggressively pushy it can come to the point where you don't want to hire him again and then I would just say so. But if it's just in the slightly annoying range, being tactful is the best bet in my opinion.

Strangely, this profile is inaccessible which usually means blocked by the escort. I've never contacted him though did briefly look at his profile when he was in Denver. Maybe he's one of those guys where he immediately blocks if you visit his profile? That seems counterintuitive but who knows?

I've done it as well actually both as a bottom and as one of the tops. It helps to have the larger guy (in terms of dick size) be the one laying down and the smaller guy kind of fucking.

Patti LuPone doing justice to "Ladies who Lunch." Such a legacy but glad we still have those who can interpret his work with such verve and wit.

I don't necessarily think that gay guys are bad at sports. Maybe it's that they worried playing sports in high school would expose their sexuality with all those locker rooms, etc. I actually have a lot of friends who play various sports in gay leagues and many are quite good.

I think one thing that's going on here is that actually a lot of "straight" blue-collar, lower-education rural men are actually on the DL having sex with other men. There's been some academic and journalistic work on this. Many men absolutely have sex with other men often FWB kinda situations but otherwise have wives, kids, jobs, etc. I went to college in a small, Midwest town and actually had a FWB thing with a local guy. He 100% identified as straight and was recently divorced from his wife but had three kids with her. Met him on Adam4Adam and we had a great time but he never wanted to pursue anything romantic and really kept what we had going on separate from the rest of his life. I was the president of this cultural center and actually lived in this house by myself over a summer so it really worked out for us. We even kind of played house a bit...he'd make me breakfast in the morning. In its own way he was kinda cute. I do think Charlie is 100% right with this as I know my FWB had kids either still in high school or right out of high school and so he had no interest in college and was all about supporting his family right away. He worked at a warehouse/transportation center in town. I think it's more about identity than anything. I think more men have had sex with men then we realize but a lot of them would never say they were gay or bi or anything but straight.

🙄......Just kidding. I agree with you 100 percent.

I actually used to be a Lyft (and briefly an Uber) driver fomr 2016-early 2020. Lyft was definitely better/easier just because they had a very easy to find and useful "hub" where you were able to set-up everything easy and go if you had problems. In Denver there are definitely fewer Lyft drivers than Uber drivers and as a driver it could be annoying because we could be pulled from quite far away. I definitely had passengers that were 7-8, even 10 miles away from me. It didn't always make sense for me to pick those passengers up either if I was really wanting to be in a certain part of town or whatever. But I do think we got paid more than Uber drivers. We definitely kept a slightly higher percentage of the fare and with longer rides that ended up being a decent side gig. My understanding is that Uber has better "Surge" prices though and that a driver could make a lot taking advantage of that even though Lyft overall had better fares for the drivers.

I've met up with Hayden and I can assure you it is the same former porn star. He has some stories to tell about the industry for sure.

I don't always mind if they see I looked at their profiles. I've sometimes gotten some interesting connections from that. But yeah with this obvious OF spamming, I think I probably should tighten those setting actually. Thanks.

Weird thing is that I didn't actually contact/message any of these gentlemen. In all three instances, I merely looked at their profile and they messaged me their OnlyFans and two of the three said they would come to the "cities that have the most OnlyFans followers." Both of those guys are apparently Turkish so they may be connected. The other guy was Latino and I think unrelated to other two since he didn't say anything about coming to my city, just generally trying to get me to check out his OnlyFans.

Once it's random, twice it's interesting, but three times it's a trend. And it's now been three times that I have looked at a profile only for the guy to message me with links to his OnlyFans account. On two of the occasions, the guy said he "visits the cities where he has the most followers." I kinda think the whole thing is just a scam to get more OnlyFans. Dude is listed as going to like six cities and has pretty bad reviews on Rent.Men itself. Is anyone else seeing this sort of thing?

I prefer to have regulars though a lot of my regulars dropped out of the biz for whatever reason in the last year or so. Often my regulars are travelling companions that come into town a few times a year and I always try to meet with them when you do. It is nice to have chemistry and common interests. Often they do sometimes give a slight time discount. I have one that enjoys going to see theater so he gives me a better deal because he knows that I will also be buying those theater tickets (and often dinner) as part of the package.