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big dale got a reaction from musclestuduws in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.
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big dale got a reaction from Exploritor in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.
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big dale got a reaction from john1973 in 411 blondeeboyy in LA
I wonder how much I could make on OnlyFans with a video of him riding my big dick.
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big dale got a reaction from sdvjm in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.
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big dale got a reaction from hairyhorny415 in going back to therapeutic from erotic - to my dismay
This thinking is kind of fucked on so many levels. Everybody deserves a hot time regardless of what body they have. And the fact you have assigned some value to a certain body type doesn't mean everyone else has.
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big dale got a reaction from + Drew Collins in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.
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big dale got a reaction from Golem in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.
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big dale got a reaction from Larsnewpaul in ryanwest LA
I am asking this question without judgement, and from a place of genuine curiosity. Do you guys not verbalize to the provider in the moment on what you want, and/or redirect them if they are doing something unpleasant? I had a massage with someone who kept checking a beeping phone. I politely said "you know, I am finding that very disruptive. If there's some need for you to have attention elsewhere I am happy to come back another time." He apologized, silenced his phone and gave me a great rest of the session. I understand feeling vulnerable because you're naked and face down, but you have to retain ownership of your self-interest, politely.
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big dale got a reaction from DJla in Candle Spa in Studio City
There's really only one thread about this place, though it is mentioned in comments on other threads. Anyone have recent experience with Candle Spa in Studio City? I'm sure it's off my list until we get to a better spot post-pandemic, but I'm curious about it. Also there seems to be a masseur named Andy there that people recommend, though I have noticed in my years of getting massage in Los Angeles that a lot of the providers choose the name Andy for some reason.
So, gents... what's the 411?
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big dale got a reaction from ketut in LA Masseurs Recs.
Have you tried searching the forum? This question has been asked and answered about 427,179 times.
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big dale got a reaction from EastbayMike in LA Masseurs Recs.
Have you tried searching the forum? This question has been asked and answered about 427,179 times.
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big dale got a reaction from DJla in Burke Williams Santa Monica recommendations
The latest email I received mentioned "The lounge, quiet room, lockers, showers, and vanities are open. All other amenities are temporarily closed."
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big dale got a reaction from MisterMike in Burke Williams Santa Monica recommendations
The latest email I received mentioned "The lounge, quiet room, lockers, showers, and vanities are open. All other amenities are temporarily closed."
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big dale got a reaction from Bonedoc in LA Masseurs Recs.
Have you tried searching the forum? This question has been asked and answered about 427,179 times.
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big dale got a reaction from Mr. Jones in 411 on Grecos in LA?
Imagine a world where we could have different opinions, and you didn't need to try to lessen my worth to express you feel differently. At least I have the testicular fortitude to show my face and not hide behind a cartoon scene (one which by the way has been called out for being racist and transphobic, fwiw.)
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big dale got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Muscle Adonis / Dylan Austin
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/14229/
And he also has started just trolling Scruff and offering services to people directly.
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big dale got a reaction from + Pensant in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.
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big dale got a reaction from liubit in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.
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big dale got a reaction from CuriousByNature in Kevin_massage Los Angeles
Meanwhile, imagine having a sexwork page and linking to your personal Instagram with pics of your kid on it. That's fucking creepy.
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big dale got a reaction from CuriousByNature in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.
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big dale got a reaction from Redwine56 in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.
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big dale got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.
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big dale got a reaction from whipped guy in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.