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The link in the first post worked for me.
 
https://rent.men/japanesebro
 
The guy has a great physique. But in his ad, he puts 'Muscular'. To my mind he looks more 'Athletic," but then again I'm not the Official Physique Term Decider although I'd like to be. 😝😝

Maybe he doesn't inhale
 

Yes!! 

You know in cases like this, I always ask myself (well not really but I did this time) what would Gilbert and Sullivan think about the situation. So of course I turned to the Finale of the Mikado which I present to all and sundry here. 
 
Or to say it more succinctly, as there's lots of good fish in the sea, I wouldn't wait around on this guy. 

The last one went so well-let's try
Jim Slade-former boyfriend of Chris Steele
 

 
A story about him...
 
As I've related both in the past and recently I lost my virginity at the age of 41 right around October 2002. After that I was in a training program and not making a lot of money. But I had a bit of money from a previous job and started hiring occasionally. I was living in Cincinnati at the time. But my training program ended abruptly-and I was looking for a new job. I managed to get a paid for interview in Temple, I  wasn't thrilled at the idea of living in Temple because the population was only around 55,000. But on the good side Austin was only an hour away. Plus it would get me back to Texas-and my parents were in the Dallas area about 150 miles away. 
 
I can't remember how I got there as Temple doesn't have a major airport. I might have driven in from Austin. In any case at some point I had a rental car. I had the interview -it went meh-
 
But I was really horny. I looked at Hooboy and Rentboy all the time. And I love muscular guys. I can't tell you how many times I looked at Jim Slade's ad. And the fact that he was in my hometown of Dallas just made it better. I was determined to meet him. 
 
So I contacted him-but he was in Dallas 150 miles away. But I had to see him. I didn't knew when else I would have the chance. So I have the interview. They take me out to dinner that night. I probably get back to the hotel around 9 pm. I change out of my finery. And I drive to the 150 or so miles to Dallas. We meet at Club Dallas. It was my first time in a bathhouse. But I wasn't going to meet random guys. I was there specifically for Jim. 
 
I remember being so nervous being inside that place. But it didn't have the dark and dingy vibe a lot of them do. I had rented a deluxe private room. I waited in the inside lobby for him. This was before texting. Every time someone entered I was wondering if it would be him, or if I would recognize him. When he finally showed up, there was no problem recognizing him. He looked just like his ad. 
 
We got inside the room. He had an incredibly hard body. He was the most built guy I and been with at point-but I had probably only been with 3 to 5 guys at that point.  He was maybe not the most personable guy I was ever with-but that may have been my nerves-hiring was still very new to me at that point. After we finished our business-I still wanted to be around him. So I asked him if he were hungry. And we ended up at an IHOP. After we finished breakfast, I had to drive the 150 miles back to Temple. They were having a realtor come by and show me the city.
I think I made it back around an hour or so before she was to pick me up. She arrived while I was showering. But I was so tired.  I could barely stay awake while she showed my the city. I was so glad when the tour ended. 
I didn't end up getting the job. But on a plus note aside from meeting Jim Slade, my parents drove down from Dallas to Waco (about a 40 minute drive for me from Temple and a 2 hour drive  for them from Dallas). I met them there. We toured the Dr. Pepper Museum and had lunch. (Dr. Pepper was invented in Waco https://drpeppermuseum.com)
 
Shortly thereafter Jim moved away from Dallas and quit advertising. So I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet him when I did. But I've always wondered WEHT him. 
 

On the surface, this reads as a positive review, but when you break it down, there’s something unsettling about it. You clearly said you wanted to stop, which is a boundary. Instead of fully respecting that without hesitation, the provider made a comment about your body that, while flattering, also put some pressure on you to continue.
What stands out to me is that you ultimately went along with it and enjoyed the experience, which I’m glad for! But that doesn’t change the fact that your initial stop wasn’t fully honored before the provider pushed forward with their own desire. Even if it turned out fine for you, it sets a precedent that might not be okay for someone else who wasn’t as easily reassured.

The shirt ripping gif is fitness model Rusty Joiner, not Mark Dalton.
 
 

WEHT Mark Dalton
WHO?

Vintage Matt Miller.

While he's no longer 25, he still looks great. I hope he's managed to get his life together. 
 
I'm not surprised since he's straight.
 
(I'm hijacking the thread here. But since it's my thread, I give myself permission).
 
I  did that once -hire a gay-4-pay guy. He was  a really muscular surfer dude/ physical trainer from Florida. He had long -oily hair. But as I think back he really wasn't very gay-4-pay, he was mainly just straight.
 
There was only one main problem I had with him during the entire  weekend hire. I only found out during the drive from the airport to the hotel that he was basically straight . Of course under that main problem there were lots of little problems. He'd kiss (a little). I can't remember if he performed oral or just gave me handjobs.
 
At one point he said he would attempt to bottom. But I was so disgusted by things at that point that I never even tried. Funny thing was throughout the weekend he kept asking me if I were having a good time. I'd think to myself "yeah for being with a straight guy."
 
 I remember asking him why he listed he was into so much (like bottoming) if he weren't. He actually said it was to get more clients. So I guess honesty is the best policy. Remember you heard it here first, folks. 
 
On the other hand a muscular non-straight guy I had a weekend with was Matt Miller. 
 

My weekend with him was 90% perfect. He was an incredibly nice guy. The main problem with him was he was in a bulking phase, and I was expecting him to be ripped. That was disappointing. Also there  was about a 30 minute showing of a really unpleasant mood (which was a bit worrisome considering his muscularity ) which he later attributed to hypoglycemia. And it may very well have been as he was fine after I found us a steakhouse for dinner.  

The last one went so well-let's try
Jim Slade-former boyfriend of Chris Steele
 

 
A story about him...
 
As I've related both in the past and recently I lost my virginity at the age of 41 right around October 2002. After that I was in a training program and not making a lot of money. But I had a bit of money from a previous job and started hiring occasionally. I was living in Cincinnati at the time. But my training program ended abruptly-and I was looking for a new job. I managed to get a paid for interview in Temple, I  wasn't thrilled at the idea of living in Temple because the population was only around 55,000. But on the good side Austin was only an hour away. Plus it would get me back to Texas-and my parents were in the Dallas area about 150 miles away. 
 
I can't remember how I got there as Temple doesn't have a major airport. I might have driven in from Austin. In any case at some point I had a rental car. I had the interview -it went meh-
 
But I was really horny. I looked at Hooboy and Rentboy all the time. And I love muscular guys. I can't tell you how many times I looked at Jim Slade's ad. And the fact that he was in my hometown of Dallas just made it better. I was determined to meet him. 
 
So I contacted him-but he was in Dallas 150 miles away. But I had to see him. I didn't knew when else I would have the chance. So I have the interview. They take me out to dinner that night. I probably get back to the hotel around 9 pm. I change out of my finery. And I drive to the 150 or so miles to Dallas. We meet at Club Dallas. It was my first time in a bathhouse. But I wasn't going to meet random guys. I was there specifically for Jim. 
 
I remember being so nervous being inside that place. But it didn't have the dark and dingy vibe a lot of them do. I had rented a deluxe private room. I waited in the inside lobby for him. This was before texting. Every time someone entered I was wondering if it would be him, or if I would recognize him. When he finally showed up, there was no problem recognizing him. He looked just like his ad. 
 
We got inside the room. He had an incredibly hard body. He was the most built guy I and been with at point-but I had probably only been with 3 to 5 guys at that point.  He was maybe not the most personable guy I was ever with-but that may have been my nerves-hiring was still very new to me at that point. After we finished our business-I still wanted to be around him. So I asked him if he were hungry. And we ended up at an IHOP. After we finished breakfast, I had to drive the 150 miles back to Temple. They were having a realtor come by and show me the city.
I think I made it back around an hour or so before she was to pick me up. She arrived while I was showering. But I was so tired.  I could barely stay awake while she showed my the city. I was so glad when the tour ended. 
I didn't end up getting the job. But on a plus note aside from meeting Jim Slade, my parents drove down from Dallas to Waco (about a 40 minute drive for me from Temple and a 2 hour drive  for them from Dallas). I met them there. We toured the Dr. Pepper Museum and had lunch. (Dr. Pepper was invented in Waco https://drpeppermuseum.com)
 
Shortly thereafter Jim moved away from Dallas and quit advertising. So I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet him when I did. But I've always wondered WEHT him. 
 

now 45, Mark Dalton started dancing in his native Texas around 2000-2001.....I believe this is his first commercial studio video, with Vista Video in Florida about 2001-2002...... 
https://thegay.com/videos/359913/young-mark-dalton/?fr=359913&rp=3

Va Va Va Voom!! 

I know he went to jail a few times. But I don't know anything after that. 

I believe it was. In this case  she knew he was gay beforehand.  A spiritualist of some type told her that he was her soulmate.
 
I guess I'm just too conventional. My intellectual side says as long as they are happy and not hurting anyone. But my emotional side says this is bananas. In this case I know my intellectual side is most likely right. But he still hasn't convinced my emotional side. 
 
Maybe this link will work. 

https://www.washingtonpost.com/style/trends/2025/10/09/mixed-orientation-lavender-marriage/

Although I consider myself 1000% Gay, I do confess to having occasionally fantasized about having two women at the same time; one to cook, one to clean.
My thanks to Jimmy Carr for this delightful insight.

Paradise by the dashboard light had the Phil Rizzuto section about rounding the bases.  

You can't get to Pornhub in Texas either. I wonder if a VPN would help. But I'm not going to pay for one. 

I even being gay, I'm too much of a traditionalist. But apparently there are more things in heaven and earth....
 
Let me know if you can't open the article, and I'll try another link. 
 
He’s gay. She’s straight. They’re happily married.
APPLE.NEWS Meet the couples who are redefining what it means to be in a relationship, including those in gay-straight and...  

These days, assuming I can get "Junior" interested in anything I'm usually on something like Cialis, so they're contraindicated as they can cause severe blood pressure drops. And even if I weren't taking the Cialis, I think they give me a headache. Not to mention as a top, assuming I'm able to top, they seem to be used more commonly by bottoms.

I don't think about this one much until it shows up on my calendar. And it's not that I put it as a recurrent event on my calendar then. I was looking back one time at texts a few years after the fact-and was able to piece it together.
 
So here it is....
 
Today October 8th 2025 is the 11 th anniversary of the first time I met @Mikegaite. I don't know exactly where he was headed from or to, but he had a several hour layover at Seattle/Tacoma Airport. I saw his ad and was immediately enamored of him. I arranged to pick him up. I reserved  us a room at the Sleep Inn just down the way. And then had my way with him-or possibly vice versa. Might have been 2012. But whatever. 
 
However, that October meeting led to multiple subsequent meetings with the last being around Valentine's Day 2016 for an overnight.   I knew that was probably going to be our last meeting-financial problems, and I was very sad.  I didn't mention that to Mike though.  In fact as I recall, I was only planning an hour visit, but it ended up being an overnight.  We again stayed at a hotel in Seatac although this time not the Sleep Inn.  
 
I can't say anything about Mike now as I haven't seen him since 2016.  But of everyone I met over the years, he's probably in the top 2 with the other guy he would need to duke it out with for number 1 being Andrew Justice. 
 

I am a proud 6, exclusively homosexual. 

Exclusively gay, as expected. Glad to be a pure blood.