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I hope you take him home and feed him some good meals.

It's always upsetting to be rejected like that by an escort or someone on the apps. I almost always (unless I forgot to) let the escort know I was fat when arranging the time together. I remember one reasonably popular escort from years ago -can't remember his name-said he had been fat as a child. And he couldn't deal with fat clients. My ego didn't feel great. But I was glad he was honest about it. It was far better to be rejected beforehand than with them there in front of me. Luckily I'm not hiring now as I'm even fatter these days. It might (probably) would have happened anyway, but being on daily prednisone for 8-1/2 year has definitely not helped. Funny occurrence-years ago I hired a somewhat famous Belgian porn star for a weekend. I have his real name in my old Expedia Account. But I can't think of his porn-de-plume. I won't post his real name. I think he worked for Falcon. Long time porn watchers may remember him. I believe he was from the Flanders area. Anyway I was used to delaying meals in order to keep appointments because of the job I had at the time. But when I was arranging the weekend, I had told him I was fat. To get the most out of our non-bedroom time I had scheduled a busy weekend including innertubing down the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels, Tx (by the way I took multiple escorts there over the years. I think he was the only one not to enjoy it. He told me Europeans weren't into nature-or some crap like that. I said what about those sex scenes in places like the Grand Canyon. He told me that was different.), and probably an evening at Esther's Follies in Austin (the cities are about 48 miles apart). I didn't starve the guy, but we did have places to be. And there may have been long intervals between eating. I could tell he wasn't happy. And at one point, he said to me when you told me you were fat I thought we'd be eating more regularly. 😂😂😂

Did you mean because be is 60 + 9 inches tall. Because if you were referring to his tallywacker, on the stats section he reports he's 7.1 inches. So that would be 1.267 minutes per inch.

I think you are right. As I've mentioned to him (about another matter entirely), when ignorance is bliss, it's folly to be wise ( with the proviso that what you aren't divulging is not going to cause harm to the person not in on the secret).

Well I think about it. But it's not going to happen due to, among other reasons, lack of funds. Plus I live in the Dallas area now. These days most of the escorts here aren't really my type. I'm more into Northern or even Eastern European (well Eastern European if they had better reputations-in the old days of Rentboy I remember multiple reviews of how they promised a lot and didnt deliver) extremely athletic to muscular physiqued masculine gay escorts who are either bottoms or versatile bottoms. Those types seem to be in short supply these days.

As I've said in some threads recently, I'm in my 60's and in my first real relationship other than an intense fbud relationship about 9 years ago that lasted for about a year. Prior to this relationship for the last 8 years or so I only had sex from guys I met on the hook-up apps. Some of the guys I met with more than once. But it was nothing I'd call a relationship. Before 8 years ago-starting from 2002 until mostly 2017 -the majority of my sexual experiences were with escorts-including my very first sexual experience at the age of 41. I had kissed women in my life on an occasional date before then. But that had probably happened less than 10 times. And those kisses were only a brief touching of lips. At no time did my tongue ever leave the confines of my mouth. My new beaux was active a lot earlier than me. He dated and "knew women (in a biblical sense) in high school and college. But at some point he decided it was men he was really attracted to. I've heard a lot of his stories. I've told him a very few censored stories of mine -not really much about sex but experiences I had while on dates with escorts (A large plurality of my encounters if not an actual majority were overnights or weekends.) But while I mentioned in passing once that I had had erotic massages in the past, I haven't told him I used to routinely hire escorts and don't plan to. It feels weird as I'd like to, for example, tell him about my first time. But I don't know how he'd feel about it. And I don't want to risk it. I have a platonic close friend who lives in the area-I'll call him Stan. I've known Stan for around 7 years. We met thru the Message Center although he's not active on here anymore. He used to hire too. But he hasn't for a while. A month or so back I introduced my beaux and Stan. We went out to lunch together. Stan has also met my Mom-multiple times-- and my siblings a few times. Prior to all of these I made sure that Stan and my stories matched. Our story is that we initially met each other on a message board. It has the advantage of being true even if it leaves out a bunch of specifics. Anyone else avoiding the topic of hiring with a new -or an old -significant other?

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I don't think I'm the most masculine person in the world-but for the most part, I wouldn't consider myself fem. However I do have some physical traits that might lead me to be taken more to the fem side. For instance my voice is relatively high for a male. It's so higher pitched that I can't even really lower it if I try. I'm in my 60's, and occasionally I'm still mistaken for a woman on the phone. Or people have thought I was younger than I am going by my voice. Along with that, I don't have a visible Adam's Apple. Now you might think it's because I'm fat. And I am. But even when I was skinnier, I didn't have one. And if you feel my neck -there's no real Adam's Apple bulge. As far as attitude or actions, I'm not really into sports, but I do like musicals/plays-although I'm not into opera or ballet. So again -while not the most masculine guy out there I think I skew more towards the male side than the fem. And to tell you the truth-and I realize it's my own problem to deal with-but overly masculine women, overly feminine men, and overly butch/macho males (whether straight or gay) have a tendency to make me uncomfortable.

I always wanted to meet him. But by the time I was really aware of him, he had given up bottoming. He was always very polite in his correspondence.

I tried your link, and it said you were no longer on RM!!😢😢😢 Is it because you are on set and waiting for your close-up?

You have your own Tristan Baldwin!!!!??? Lucky man. Every time I try to buy one they are all sold out and on back order with no known re-stock date!!

Obviously being picky is certainly fine. I mean in the field of attraction and hiring, I'd say it's difficult to not want specific things or change what we want. My main question being -if you classify yourself as picky-how, I wonder, would the 'average client' (assuming there is such a beast) feel about Mr. Twunk's current looks. In my case, I can definitely remember hiring guys who were in nowhere near as good as shape as their photos ( I can remember two in particular-one was much older-I mean I didn't ask his age But I wouldn't have been surprised if the photos were 10 years old. The other guy was athletically slim in his photos and pudgy (=unpleasingly plump) when he showed up). But on the other hand, I can remember lots of guys, particularly porn stars, who, while they looked good, didn't look as good as their photos. But I always figured they had probably been dieting for some time, restricting fluid, and working out like a fiend prior to the photo session. So again I have no problem thinking Mr. Twunk looked better in his photos compared to real life. But for me, if he had been even 85% of his photos, I probably would have been happy. If I can ask, how close to his photos did you think he was, @Chancealot?

For me it never left. I mean during my hiring days from 2002 to 2017, I hired many guys who were shaven (or naturally hirsute free), but I also hired many with chest hair. Ray Stone who is still advertising is an excellent example as is Tyger!! https://rentmen.eu/RayStoneXXX https://rentmen.eu/AAATygerscentXXX

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Maybe he's running from the mob!!

Unless you just want to visit an area to see if there might be clients for you, I'd say the best practice is for the client to pay for your flight (or if in the NE Corridor your Amtrak fare). Nothing is perfect, but If the client has paid in advance for your travel, that does imply a level of commitment for the meet up.

I didn't see it because on my screen it's white which is the same as the posting box background. So on my screen the area with the link appears as a big white space. I think I've accidentally done that before when I copy something with the screen in dark mode.

So you approached him wrong. And you've admitted it. But if you'd still really like to see him, there are ways unless you FaceTimed or sent pictures of yourself. You could make a new RM account, email, and new phone number. Then after that recontact him. . Also never refer to the previous conversation. If you're a nice guy and don't intend to scam him, I see no harm in it.

It would be great if you would be so kind as to include a link in a post like this.

Did you by any chance Facetime, Zoom, or anything similar to make sure he isn't using Daniel's photos?

I believe if you look up the definition of hirsute-sexy in the dictionary, you'll find Nate's @nate_sf picture.

If anyone is into older muscled daddy types, then how about Ray Stone? His ad says versatile, but he always bottomed for me. He was always a great time. I had several weekends with him back in the day. He was fun both in and outside the bedroom. For complete honesty I have to admit that I haven't seen him since around 2006. But his physique has only improved over that time period. https://rentmen.eu/RayStoneXXX

I hadn't even considered that. I was thinking about 'professional' porn. But these days, OnlyFans counts too considering how many people subscribe to it.

I was wondering if Mike still does porn. If he does, I wouldn't really be aware of it as I don't really watch much porn. I usually get 'my fix' either from the videos on Rentmen, just the pictures on the ads themselves, or the occasional snippets that I follow onto X (formerly known as Twitter -you have to put that when discussing X, don't you?)from the links on Rentmen ads . So I'm pretty much out of the porn loop as it were

I probably would have asked her to save it for church.