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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VoDJsz1f7b8 Gman

I'll have to disagree. The escort was obviously trying to scam @matt842 from the beginning. I would have been very reluctant to pay. It also takes two to tango. The escort is responsible for the time as well as the client. It's up to the escort to say "We are heading past our agreed time to end. Did you want to extend?" The only thing I'm still having trouble with is mistaking 4 hours for one hour. If I were that jet lagged, I'm not sure I would have been coherent at all. And I probably wouldn't have been hiring. Gman

I've gone to an ATM with an escort before. Maybe not the smartest thing to do in retrospect. But the guys I was with were mostly good guys. I can't remember any problems. The one problem I vaguely remember was one time when I was out of town. I needed money after a session. But it was going to require more cash than my daily limit allowed me to get. I knew that ahead of time. But I also knew the session was going to extend past midnight when the limit was going to be reset. I'm sure I told the escort beforehand that I was going to need to go to the ATM afterwards. So we get to the ATM after midnight, but the ATM still says I'm up to my limit and won't dispense the full amount. What I had not counted on, my bank was in the Central Time Zone. I was visiting Florida in the Eastern Time Zone. Midnight in Florida was only 11 pm in Texas. My limit wasn't going to reset until midnight Texas time. I was willing to barter -I could buy him anything for the remaining money as the shopping limit hadn't been reached on the card. Luckily by the time we found an ATM, and I had been refused the money, it was only about 15 minutes until my limit reset. So we waited, and I gave him the rest of his fee then. Gman

During my early days of hiring, I knew about how many guys I'd been with, and I'd start counting them off on my fingers trying to see if could remember them all. Occasionally I might try the same on a sheet of paper. That's the closest I ever came to keeping a log. Gman

I made a mistake. When you mentioned Armand, I was thinking of the Armand who used to advertise on M4RN as being from Alaska (probably to show up on the 1st page). He advertised as versatile but had a large tallywacker. I'm not sure whether Rizzo ever advertised as a top. I'm not saying this scene didn't get me hard. Be it disturbs me on some level when the bottom looks to be in actual pain. Gman

I think CutlerX advertises as a strict top-of course who knows what he would do in his personal life. Both Adam and Armand advertise as versatile although I'll bet they were usually hired as tops. The permutations just boggle the mind. Gman

Ok, I've had that problem before too. I think the solution is to get to the View of the Review Site where the Escort is listed off to the left in its own pane. You can get there my using the search for escorts function. Then hover your mouse arrow, or your finger if using a phone or tablet, over the escort's name in the left pane. The entire URL with the escort's name should show up. And if on a pc, right click to copy and paste like normal. If on a phone or tablet, keep pressing with your finger to copy and paste. And if on an iMac of some type-well the one time I had one, I configured the mouse to work like a pc mouse. So I don't remember how to copy and paste natively with an iMac. Gman

Who was his former boyfriend? I have forgotten. Wasn't it another pornstar/escort? Gman

Can you not paste and copy the address in your browser window? Gman

I believe the reason Ayou can't copy and paste pictures directly into Forum posts is because it would require too much bandwidth for the Forum. Photos have to be hosted on server and can be imported using the picture function here (the portrait icon at the top of the message box when posting). Gman

Not to minimize the psychological main thrust of this thread. But not all of us travel like this. I'm both an American and a Texan-a state known for large distances. When I lived near a smaller coastal city in Texas, I'd drive for 2 hours to San Antonio when I had scheduled a weekend with an escort. I hated that drive. I often needed a Red Bull or two to stay awake. And once while living in the Dallas area I traveled 2 hours away for lunch with some family members for a chicken fried steak that had been written up in the newspaper (The paper turned out to be right. It was delicious.). But that was 10 years ago, and we've never repeated a similar trip since (although I'm trying to convince my Mom:p). Gman

My (previous) therapist sent me an email a day or so after I called it quits. I don't think it was financially based. I think it was due to her concern for me which was nice. She said she started thinking about some of what I told her about my trouble with making friends. She came up with that I might have Social Anxiety Disorder-hereafter referred to by me as SAD. After giving it some thought, I had to tell her while I might have some traits of that, I doubt I have a full-blown disorder. In my previous career I spent a whole lot of time talking to people. And the majority of the time it wasn't a problem. Also I can remember telling my high school best friend (that was an interesting situation-I think-well I know-I 'forced' the friendship-on the other hand it lasted from junior of high school until he went offf on his mission after freshman year in college. After that we were still friends. But he got married fairly soon after coming back) that I didn't do well at parties where I didn't know anyone. David, my friend, said "Well it must only take you 15 minutes to get to know people. " Granted he only saw me at parties with LDS'ers. And they are always on the lookout for a convert. But I still liked those parties as the main source of fun was not based on drinking. In any case my troubles of not finding 'commonality' to lead to friendships is not, I think, usually due to anxiety although I will admit to becoming normally anxious in new situations. There were a few other points she made. I sent back a really long reply. It was basically a refutation of her ideas-I hope in a repectful way. Although possibly in the same way that escorts on here who repond to bad reviews only confirm the bad review, my long rambling response may have confirmed every idea she had about me. She never responded back to that email (I don't think I expected her to-or at least it wasn't a surprise when she didn't.). But maybe she read the email, began shaking her head, and thinking, "None so blind as those who will not see." I still haven't mentioned to my family yet that I've quit therapy. I've thought about it. But I'm sure when I do, it's going to make my Mom worry. She worries enough. I don't need to add to it prematurely. As it is while I can't say I feel better without therapy, I am definitely not feeling any worse. Although considering we only met about 4 or 5 times at most, it probably shouldn't even really be called therapy. Gman

That sounds like a good way to live/love to me. Gman

Vapors -you mean flatulence? Gman

I loved the Scholastic Book Club. I think it started for us in the 4 th grade. What an exciting day when the books arrived, and the teacher passed them out. I think I remember being upset when my 7th grade reading teacher didn't participate when other reading teachers did. Gman

In his ad he says he's a top. Plus $500 is still a lot of money!! Gman

You mean I could have had Zeb Atlas bottom for me for $500? Gman

I bought a Casio from Walmart a few weeks ago. It set me back $15.88. But so far the expense has been worth it as it keeps excellent time. Gman

On M4RN there were three or four guys in Las Vegas who never changed their pictures for years and were always logged in at the same time. Gman

I think the first time I saw an uncircumcised tallywacker was in junior high around 7th or 8th grade. Most of the people in my neck of the woods were circed. But while I can't remember it now as it was 44 years ago, I can remember remembering, if you know what I mean. I'm sure there was one guy in my PE class who wasn't. But what your story for some reason put me in mind of -when I was 5 or 6 someone invited us to swim at a membership only pool. Some adult guy that knew the family we were with came over and started talking to the adults. Well the guy had a shaved head. I don't remember ever having seen someone totally bald at this point in my life. I remember circling around him as if I were the moon, and he were the sun searching for some hair on his head. Gman

But, and this is my point exactly, while obviously there are going to be exceptions or extreme cases, the best escorts working now-and again I'll use for an example @Mikegaite since he is the one I know the best, but I could probably also mention Kristian (if he is still escorting)- and those escorts of blesséd memory which we on the Forum still reminisce about fondly such as Dirk from Man to Man or Alec Andrews (and notice I didn't mention Alec's partner Ryan. Ryan was a nice guy but from my experience with him probably only really performed well if Alec were present or if he felt some attraction for the client), could promise fairly effortless encounters for the majority of their clients. Could I do it if I had the looks, physique, and tallywacker to be an escort, but were otherwise the same? HECK NO!! But that's why not every handsome well-endowed guy can be an escort. And the only reason I am commenting is the same reason I had when Rex B used to praise certain escorts. The escorts he liked, he praised to high heaven. But the majority of them weren't full service, and many probably required the elusive "chemistry" to perform well. But if people hadn't read (what this is turning out to be) long, involved threads, or had prior knowledge derived from other threads they very possibly might have totally unrealistic expectations for their encounter leading to disappointment. And as you mentioned previously, @Gymowner this is an expensive hobby. While I have no direct knowledge, my impression is that Hooboy started the review site and the forum to make encounters less nebulous for the benefit of both clients and escorts. Goan

I was being sarcastic-not to you-towards him. While he may actually be bisexual , I'm sure there is also a good chance that he is straight and only buy-sexual. Gman

You must be thinking of someone else. His ad clearly states he is bisexual. Did you ever review him on RM? All his reviews there are 5 Star? Gman

I'm sorry about you needing the iron. If you consider the number of people who receive it in intravenous nutrition, I'm thinking the incidence of allergic reactions is fairly low. Maybe some of the physicians on here could speak in reference to patients they've had if anyone has had a bad reaction. Gman

I'm confused-not really an unknown condition for me. Did you change your opinion on Ryan between 2016 and now? Gman