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  1. He is very laid back and very sweet.
  2. Hlparx

    Best Kissers

    In no particular order: Anthony_Montano DanielXXL Willonly Eli_Bliss JulienXXLTOP
  3. I think US insurers are required to cover at no cost to patient. https://www.statnews.com/2021/09/02/hold-insurers-accountable-for-covering-hiv-prevention-drugs-at-no-cost-to-patients/
  4. I wonder if this is a US v. Europe thing. Escorts that I've seen in Europe have tended to emphasize at least one day's notice. In the US, there does seem to be more "day of." From the client side, I absolutely prefer to book in advance. From my perspective, that increases the likelihood that I can be seen at preferred time or, if not, that we can reach some sort of mutually agreeable time. I assume that other people have things going on in their lives and messaging them two hours (or even five hours) is asking them to rearrange their lives on short notice. Personally, it's the rare friend that I'll rearrange my plans for on two hours' notice.
  5. I haven't quite done this, but I have tipped in appreciation of a provider providing an excellent time at a lower rate than others and being willing to inconvenience himself for me I saw an escort in Paris last year and had a fantastic time. He charges a lower rate if you come to him. During a more recent trip, I arranged another meeting and, although he wasn't able to host, after I volunteered to host, he said that he said that he would charge the incall rate. True to form, he arrived and showed me a good time. I added an extra amount because I knew that I'd have a good time and because he'd volunteered to take the incall rate for an outcall.
  6. Huh. I spotted him on the street several years back. He is stunning. The same is true for fellow Sean Cody model, Dean.
  7. Does anyone know if using RM Messenger acknowledges your RM privacy settings? In other words, if you have "Do Not Track" checked on RM, can someone still see if you've looked at their profile when you access it through RM Messenger?
  8. I haven’t had the opportunity and, to be honest, not sure that I will. I’ve hired a non-kisser before and while it was fine, it turned out that it was more important to me than I thought.
  9. Here's a link that won't circle back: Ahmedxxl - Male Escort - Miami, FL | Rent.Men
  10. Any chance that he said where he's going after L.A.?
  11. It’s possible that I’ve missed it, but I don’t think anyone has pointed out one of the reasons for “high” rates in the US is that escorting operates in a legally gray area in the US. If you’re buying something on the black market, you are going to pay more for it than you would on an open market. This absolutely depends on overhead and what type of practice your lawyer has. In NYC, I doubt $350/hr will get you a law school grad at a large firm; it might get you someone who is practicing on his own. In Billings, MT, it’ll probably get you a partner who has his own firm. I’m not sure that an ad is the only overhead in this business. Some potential ones that jump out at me: lube, condoms, PReP, testing, a home (can also be used for incalls), utilities, and travel. There are also some natural limitations to the number of clients that can be seen each day unless Viagra is in play, which adds another expense. And of course, there are other potential life expenses that need to be considered. As to whether $400 is “worth it” or “too much,” that’s subjective. That may depend on what’s important to you at the time you’re thinking about your options. On RM at least, guys push a lot of reasons why you should hire them: height, weight, endowment, sexual prowess, educational background, conversation skills, worldliness, intelligence, physique, personality, etc. If there’s some combination of these reasons that’s worth $400 to the prospective purchaser, then it’s not “too much.” If there isn’t, then it’s “too high.”
  12. Does anyone have experience with this provider: Englishlad - Male Escort - London, United Kingdom | Rent.Men He's previously been discussed in the following threads, but they're ancient:
  13. Assuming the world is still here, I plan on heading to the UK later this month and had my eye on a few gentlemen with whom I might like to get acquainted. Has anyone met this guy: ArcherXL - Male Escort - London, United Kingdom | Rent.Men His profile was on hiatus until a few days ago.
  14. Hlparx

    SF Top Recs?

    Beauxdan: BEAUXDAN - Male Escort - San Francisco, CA | Rent.Men EricJordan: Ericjordan - Male Escort - San Francisco, CA | Rent.Men KyleGrantXXX: Kylegrantxxx - Male Escort - San Francisco, CA | Rent.Men
  15. I was told that he is "not into kissing," which I interpret as he doesn't kiss.
  16. I have no personal experience with him, but he caught my eye a few weeks ago and I ended up checking out his OF, messaged his reviewers, and did end up contacting him. Two of the three reviewers responded. Each was satisfied, one enthusiastically so and he was clear that he would repeat. I was told that while there are limits, Hans is nevertheless an eager participant. When I chat with the provider, he was perfectly pleasant. The rate he provided was in line with what I've been quoted before in LA. I've never hired in SF, but I suspect it's in line with what you can expect there. From what I could tell from the videos on his OF, he's roughly in his mid-30s, but it's certainly possible that he's older. Beards make men look older and he's clean shaven now.
  17. Talk about full service. Offers a massage, tonsil examination, and mouth care. What more could a man ask for?
  18. Hlparx

    SF Top Recs?

    https://rent.men/Eli_Bliss Nice guy and well-equipped.
  19. I see--and agree with--some of your points, but nothing in here is a persuasive response to the advice to put together a 3 or 4 sentence introductory message. Yes, you can be noncommital in the first message, but be upfront about it. For example: Hi, I'm Interested. I saw your profile and would like to ask a few questions. [Insert description of self OR likes OR questions here.] [Do you think that we'd be a good fit?] If the escort isn't willing to answer a couple of questions that are aimed at deciding whether you want to move forward, then it probably means that any experience with him is going to be unsatisfying. You're right that you don't have to use your name, real or fake. But, for what it's worth, I'm not sure revealing your assumption that revealing your RM screenname in a text message is as enlightening as you think. Escorts may know better than me. I've searched for my screenname on the site and my profile doesn't appear. If you were using the RM messenger to communicate, I'd agree that just mentioning your screenname is an acceptable, if impersonal response. Regardless of whether you're using RM messenger to communicate, it's also kind of unreasonable to expect the escort to go research you to find out more. As for the bareback question, this can be: "What safety precautions do you take?" Or you can reveal your preferences on that front when you're describing yourself.
  20. Hlparx

    NolanParis

    I was in Paris in November and last month. The quotes that I saw or asked ran from 150€ to 250€ per hour, so right around pre-pandemic levels. I paid 150€ or 200€ when I hired. That being said, there were more providers quoting 200€ than 150€, which is a shift from pre-Covid times.
  21. It's not the way i would've approached this, but I think that @Jamie21 is right that the initial message is within the wide bounds of acceptabilty, particularly given app culture. That said, I don't like app culture. When I reach out to a new guy, I usually have something the lines of: Hi Provider, I'm Interested. I saw your profile and would like to arrange a meeting. Are you available [date and time/or timeframe] for [desired amount of time]? If it's a timeframe, I usually mention whether I can be flexible within a certain time. Basically I try to remember that there's someone on the other end and talk to them as though they were standing in front of me.
  22. Intrigued and am bumping this. I see the worrying reviews, but his most recent review seems to disprove one of them...
  23. Yes, reviews will stick with a profile even if the name changes. I saw an escort in November when he using one name and left an ecstatic review. He changed his name a few weeks ago and the review is still there.
  24. He’s previously gone under “TallWhiteandHung” and another similarly named profile that has since been deleted. I think TylerOnTop is a rebranding of TallWhiteandHung. I also think he’s been a member of the forum at some point. I remember him commenting on a thread and offering to provide a dissatisfied client with a gratis session. I think it was before the transition. Here’s some of the prior discussion. Definitely a split of opinion on him.
  25. He was discussed here in a thread a few years back. It looks like he has the @Hung_Codyseal of approval.
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