SirBillybob

JD Pardo of Mayans MC. Series wraps in 2 weeks. Motor on in.

If you see references to a venue named Mykonos, note that it is long closed. I don’t know much about Rommeo Hotel Sauna or the new Ares Hotel Sauna. I have been to Dragon Club and California Thermas, both OK. The place almost right across from California is a regular local bathhouse. This chap seems to possess a wealth of current info and has a lot of vids out. The appended apparently recent vid content chrono order is Rommeo, California, Dragon, and Ares Hotel Sauna. The point is that you might consider simple additional searches yourself, supplementing msg board sources, if the details are important to you. Good sauna!

My god. How do you do it?

I cannot speak for providers, only that I have received no protests from any, but I share SOME degree of physique visual representation and offer a full frontal non-nude body photo with face clearly depicted. 6’ 180. I am not uninked. They inadvertently will know my true name, and I theirs, prior to meet-up. The latter same as any type of hook-up past half century, transactional or not, except first-run baths encounters in uni. I provide any medical info requested including health status and STI prevention playbook. These fundamental descriptors are not contained in the same communication passes as service details and remuneration. I have had no complaints over decades in terms of info insufficiency or over-inclusiveness. I cannot think of one time when I myself did not follow through on booking after having commenced sharing of personal details. Most recent, began with my navy briefs, in contrast to the model sporting same (appended). Blue bathing suit example, worn, on request. Emphasizing they are clean laundry unlike the ‘zine caption. Then added the clothed body&face portrait, offering more details if needed. Spent all of 10 minutes total to seal the deal. An hour later: in; an hour after that: done & dusted. I instructed them that I had CAD$200 and I did not mention awareness of the ad reflecting USD$350 in a recent American city. I don’t know what they want but they are not put in a position of running up against resistance regarding their curiosity or imperatives. I believe in normal common parlance this is termed 😘 💋 K.I.S.S.

4 weeks out, developments, probably not very interesting to the broader membership. But the public forum is not the place. DM with questions if you like. The vibe I am picking up from our illustrious mods, understandably, is to not openly stimulate antipathy on the public side. Additionally, the fellow (my assumption) or person that out of the blue initially served harassment, through direct notification to me, has the option to deal civilly, ‘Mano a Mano’, as I had originally explicitly suggested to him directly thru backchannel mode with plenty of lead time and repeat invitation from me, before he scurried off with flimsy attempt to cover tracks.

[Mods may move this to a better suited location; here for now] I write this as a recent observation. This year, half of ad-based meets with new fellows, counted on one hand, had a unique feature I had not previously encountered. I found it offputting and sadly unnecessary. Young guys with great physiques, face pics not at all suggestive of the disturbing characteristic: obviously major plastic surgery, badly done, you know, the cliché train wreck-grade cosmetic procedures that we sometimes observe in media specific to the topic. Sufficiently handsome baseline features, it seems, with the more standard orthodontics correction or veneers (the latter I think is often overboard too). The latest, that prompted the tipping point for writing this, swollen cheeks and bee-sting lips that rendered speech difficult to make out, as if had cotton stuffed back in his mouth. Young, I would say around 25. Older photos, ostensibly early 20’s depicting an attractive visage. Another chap, I would say about age 30, had his nose apparently pared down to a much smaller version of its original self (think MJ), out of sorts with jowls that seemed swollen and, again, the “duck lips” look. Not discernible in ad photos. These two biggest examples really nice men. I realize that trade aspects themselves may reinforce the pursuit of flawlessness that can itself go south. I wonder if I just happened to meet them on cosmetic carve-up day. That said, I think it is NOT a very widespread phenomenon and these encounters were the luck of the draw. Other ad-based guys this year had non-shopped vid erotica with no closeup indicators that would portend a history of plastics consults. Gym-fit, well-groomed, charming. Actually, better looking in the flesh from my POV.

Sorry. Zé is spoken for, decades ago. That trumps all.

You mean after all these adult years I COULD have actually been liked for my dick, by NAMBLA?

Only if it/they is/are a pleural effusion of confusion.

This post-pandemic qualitative research paper related to male commercial sex work, in the journal Sexes, may be of interest due to this message board’s themes. I have read it, but not the 2 other articles (not MSW-focused) that you should be able to access, if keen, via the periodical’s ‘special issues’ link. You may observe that G Mitchell’s 2015 book Tourist Attractions is not referenced although a 2011 paper is. The article linked here is a meta-synthesis of dozens of research papers, a lengthy read as it is. https://www.mdpi.com/2411-5118/4/2/16

I don’t grasp what might be complicated about this scenario as far as the decision, once set. What is complex is assigning an arbitrary utility value to the regret that you both sustained in your own ways. He made the choice autonomously and likely had some amount of time to weigh it, perhaps even some past experience to draw on. The only thing you could have done, and didn’t, would be to protest and try to override it. He did not put you in that spot and it certainly was not his aim to prompt you to second-guess the appropriateness of your own choice to abide. He could have easily initiated some fluidity 😉 in the exchange by suggesting that the total amount was not justifiable, thus neither leaving empty-handed nor having you subsequently ponder your capacity for magnanimity (which, again, is yours to sort out). It was a one time deal, for now. If a dining partner always insists on picking up the cheque, that is a different set of dynamics. Before reciprocity is possible, outside of double-dutching, one or the other bears it first. If it’s one-off, the imbalance goes to the proverbial pay-forward ledger.

Time immemorial, perhaps for some. Remember pyramid schemes? I think they are supplanted by post-modern scams. A colleague, one of the most intelligent persons I ever met, successful clinician and moderately successful hobbyist screenwriter on the side, decades ago spit up and left on the table what amounted to 10% of annual salary at the time. Excitedly told me about prospective payoff. Blanched when I explained the composite hundreds of thousands of dollars that would need to be put up by the ‘sucker born every minute’ generational iterations following her to prop up her windfall.

Go for it, Debbie! 😏

The craft brew curated in Passadumkeag? After which tying one on locals can be heard uttering the next morning, “Ogunquit, after last night.”

Albanian: give birth. Sugardaddying. Same difference. No thanks. I’m good for a year max then it’s off to foster care for ‘Lindoro’. That’s my reveal. At least with kids there’s a chance of launching.

Come now, my daahling wife, enough waving at the mobs.

I did not watch, much. I think that I’m already spoiled by Tracey Ullman send-up skits and Spitting Image caricatures.

Reminds me of a former colleague, fellow First Nations Health provider from Manitoulin Island, that lobbied for biggest hockey stick in world. It never happened so I assume the majority of the community didn’t give a puck.

I assumed all American flags (1st sentence) were larger than a football. That’s one hella tiny town. 😏

Or as some, mind you never I, might say Queen ‘conswhort’ in spite of Cami’s improved image.

And will the third be the second to lose his head?

I have not been in years but must circle back. 1991, first Brazilian (!!) in the house on Queensberry near British Museum. Late 20aughts, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu fellow’s 1st day Nevern Pl.

My good times over the past 10 yrs 2 months, from point of starting up the ‘hobby’, have been: RANKED Rio de Janeiro about 2 dozen times amounting to several total months across all seasons Barcelona about 10 times, Spring or Fall Zürich, 3 times, Spring São Paulo about a dozen times across all seasons, amounting to a few months in total Bogotá, 4 times, all seasons Madrid merely once but a very lucky single once-in-lifetime find only a block from lodgings Belo Horizonte, once, Dec, amazing single find Medellín, once, Fall, a good single find —— non-RANKED Salvador Bahia, 3 times Santo Domingo, twice Mexico City, twice Recife, once Porto Alegre, once Fortaleza, once Lisbon, once —- All told, very good experiences.

Small step. I will only post a few paragraphs but one can obviously google search.