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I should be there this month too! I'd say to arrive by 9. Some of the dancers do get there later, especially headliners, so if you have a specific guy in mind, it's always a good idea to track him down since there could be a wait. I don't know how busy this month's will be but no harm in showing up on time.

I think that's the way to go. I appreciate a "had a nice time, hope to see you in the future" kind of message after a session but it should definitely stop there if the client doesn't ask for more. I definitely find pushiness off putting.

I feel like it was a bad move on his part. I understand that some men want to capitalize their opportunities, but it would have been a good idea for him to let you know that in advance as you obviously know what his RM profile is.

He clearly isn't looking for budgeting help. He's looking for attention. Any grown adult with common sense can see that.

I'm not someone who spends frivolously but when it comes to others, honestly who cares? It's really none of our business if he's literally flushing his cash down a toilet because it's his money. There are some men here who will easily spend 6 figures a year hiring escorts and I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who would say that's a huge waste of money, but it doesn't matter. Let the young be dumb. Some people get so judgemental with age and act as if every decision they've made has been stellar.

With masseurs, I assume that for the majority of guys it's YMMV, unless they're explciitly stating otherwise. Don't make assumptions, even if there are "sexy" photos that suggest more. It's why it's always a good idea to see what others have said about the masseur before hiring.

Honestly in that case, the masseur is doing clients a favor by letting them know that they're particular about who they want as clients and people can choose to move on.

Being a fitness influencer vs an escort or masseur are two completely different things with very different needs. One has a predominate focus on social media marketing while the others are not. You would probably want to also present ideas on what you're planning on offering rather than just saying that you will give general help as that doesn't say much.

I think that's fair, but in my opinion, also more reason to treat actual clients well. If you're feeling burnt out in this line of work, I certainly understand, but then you take a break. Charging $500/hr to then give subpar services just sucks for everyone.

I'm hoping this months lineup will be good. I haven't been to one in a while because I haven't cared for their headliners lately. For those of you who have been recently, how's the new location?

Really, the only way you're going to be sure that you're not being recorded on camera is if you always do out calls at your own home, but I highly doubt that the majority of escorts or Airbnb renters care about recording people at all. Why would someone want to risk getting sued for extortion?

A single photo that doesn't show a face? 🚩🚩🚩

"We speak BR US ES", meaning Brazil, United States, Espana (Spain), so they speak Portuguese, English, and Spanish.

Personally, it doesn't matter to me at all. At the end of the day I care about how good the services were and that has much more to do with the provider's attitude and ability than relationship status. My guess is that there are a lot of men out there that want to be sold the fantasy of "real" companionship and an escort being single is easier to fit in that box. I have never tried to have a relationship with my plumber, doctor, or accountant and understand that I'm paying for services. I'm sure there are men out there that are actually able to make personal relationships work out of professional situations, but I have a feeling that there are just a lot of men out there that push way too much.

Agreed with DrownedBoy. I feel like I'm pickier than most when it comes to hiring and pretty exclusively hire guys that have already been vetted by others. You can definitely get lucky with new guys on the scene but I feel like those just starting out are the ones with most issues. At the end of the day it's all going to be hit or miss. If something feels like it's going to be off, listen to your brain and not your penis.

I doubt it has anything to do with him being well known. A lot of people out there just don't have respect for others or consider following through important. If you want to avoid flakes and cancellations, it's always a good idea to go with guys who have already been well vetted by others here. Otherwise you just have to understand that you're going to come across guys who aren't always going to follow through.

Hot! His photos suggest more fun than massage but that could be a nice thing

Unfortunately that doesn't sound like it's ever happening considering he wants to stay low key and has been asking clients to do so as well. That means all we can go off of are reviews.

Yikes, a pretty negative 1 star review was just posted today. With him not having many reviews that's a bad look

It sounds like you both got what you wanted from the situation and that if he was expecting payment, he would have brought it up at some point? I wouldn't worry about it.

Honestly it's going to be a different experience for every provider. You should probably try doing a trip to San Diego first and seeing what interaction you get and how much you like it. San Diego County is also pretty big space wise

Wow, he looks stunning in that first photo. I'm a bit far from SD but would be interested if I was in the area

He's got an amazing body in his photos

Anyone here with any experience? He has 26 reviews on RM but would love to hear any first hand experience

Sounds like it was that provider specifically because if a client is late for a session, that's our own time we're sacrificing.