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Michael PhD

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    Michael PhD got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Sensual vs Erotic   
    The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted.  
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I think that doesn’t necessarily matter - as pointed out I do agree that the right thing is to move on from a physical relationship with both of them…
  3. Agree
    Michael PhD got a reaction from Looky_lou_boo in Sensual vs Erotic   
    The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted.  
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in Sensual vs Erotic   
    The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted.  
  5. Thanks
    Michael PhD got a reaction from Caguy7 in LA recommendations?   
    My favorites:
     
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/27911/

    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41456/
     
     
     
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from marylander1940 in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I think that doesn’t necessarily matter - as pointed out I do agree that the right thing is to move on from a physical relationship with both of them…
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I think that doesn’t necessarily matter - as pointed out I do agree that the right thing is to move on from a physical relationship with both of them…
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from Hyattsville in Sensual vs Erotic   
    The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted.  
  9. Haha
    Michael PhD reacted to + azdr0710 in Sensual vs Erotic   
    It's been debated since Christ was a child. 
    Keep in mind that the ads are as masseurs, not full-on "escorts". 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from marylander1940 in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Appreciate hearing your perspective. I’ve gotten good recommendations on how to handle the situation. This current topic about relationships between a son and father albeit tangentially related to what I am dealing with does not apply specifically to me (maybe something the two of them need to explore) so not much I can add but thanks for chiming in @pubic_assistance! 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from marylander1940 in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Yes, you’ve made that suggestion a couple times… thanks for your continued interest none the less. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from TonyDown in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Well I don’t usually resort to anecdotes to make conclusions but as someone who is also bi, I have met married couples where the man is bi and they have gay children. Most I imagine aren’t out to their children as this lifestyle is not one I find to be easily accepted but I may be wrong. My experience would challenge your statement. Don’t have the data to make a conclusion but would just point out that our experiences do not align so your statement may be true for you and mine true for me. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Sensual vs Erotic   
    The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted.  
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from TonyDown in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I didn’t plan for this or set this up. I’ve made connections with them both. But after the input and much thought, it’s clear that I’ll have to move on from both. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from + newatthis in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Yes, you’ve made that suggestion a couple times… thanks for your continued interest none the less. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from + newatthis in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I understood your point. Again, it does not apply to me. I can’t make anyone do anything. My question was how I should handle this. And I’ve gotten sound advice. Thanks for your input and the time you spent reading this. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from musclestuduws in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Well I don’t usually resort to anecdotes to make conclusions but as someone who is also bi, I have met married couples where the man is bi and they have gay children. Most I imagine aren’t out to their children as this lifestyle is not one I find to be easily accepted but I may be wrong. My experience would challenge your statement. Don’t have the data to make a conclusion but would just point out that our experiences do not align so your statement may be true for you and mine true for me. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    @pubic_assistance, I don’t have influence anymore…
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    @pubic_assistance, I don’t have influence anymore…
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I understood your point. Again, it does not apply to me. I can’t make anyone do anything. My question was how I should handle this. And I’ve gotten sound advice. Thanks for your input and the time you spent reading this. 
  21. Agree
    Michael PhD got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Appreciate hearing your perspective. I’ve gotten good recommendations on how to handle the situation. This current topic about relationships between a son and father albeit tangentially related to what I am dealing with does not apply specifically to me (maybe something the two of them need to explore) so not much I can add but thanks for chiming in @pubic_assistance! 
  22. Like
    Michael PhD got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Appreciate hearing your perspective. I’ve gotten good recommendations on how to handle the situation. This current topic about relationships between a son and father albeit tangentially related to what I am dealing with does not apply specifically to me (maybe something the two of them need to explore) so not much I can add but thanks for chiming in @pubic_assistance! 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from marylander1940 in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Well I don’t usually resort to anecdotes to make conclusions but as someone who is also bi, I have met married couples where the man is bi and they have gay children. Most I imagine aren’t out to their children as this lifestyle is not one I find to be easily accepted but I may be wrong. My experience would challenge your statement. Don’t have the data to make a conclusion but would just point out that our experiences do not align so your statement may be true for you and mine true for me. 
  24. Agree
    Michael PhD got a reaction from musclestuduws in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    I didn’t plan for this or set this up. I’ve made connections with them both. But after the input and much thought, it’s clear that I’ll have to move on from both. 
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    Michael PhD got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Dating a closeted bi man…   
    Yes 
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