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I had a massage this weekend. His partner was there but in another room. At the end of it, he asked if I was up for getting fucked. His partner came in around that time. I wanted to but it was a little much to take on 2 (I still haven’t done much with guys). I ended up passing but they both begged me to let them fuck me. Kissed my entire body. Ate my ass. Fingered a little. It was a 90 min session for less than 200 with tip. I’m keeping then in mind if I ever want to try it with 2 guys.

Saw him a couple years ago. Massage was good. He's a talker. He begged to rim he. I said no. hands only is my limit. He kept asking then just started licking me. It felt good so I allowed. Then things got really outta control. I enjoyed it though I never agreed to it. It felt amazing but I never wanted it to happen. Now I know how all those girls who get date raped feel. I'm conflicted. I would not go back. But I still beat off to it from time to time. weird.

Yum

and figure out how to get the camera to work on that phone!.... "pictures or it didn't happen", as they say......

I wanted to share where I’m at... I got a lot of private messages. Thanks for all the advice. I think I’m starting with a massage first - ideally sensual. I think it will help ease into more.
 
These are the guys I’m looking at in Dallas...
 
Bill
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30935/
 
Robert
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/15806/
 
Eric
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/223/
 
Troy
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5923/
 
Adam
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8275/
 
 
I’m physically attracted to all these guys. I’ll do my own research but if anyone has suggestions would be appreciative of any advice.

Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.
 
Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.
 
I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.
 
I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?
 
I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t go through with it all the first time we meet.
 
I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago, Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.

Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.
 
Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.
 
I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.
 
I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?
 
I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t go through with it all the first time we meet.
 
I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago, Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.

I was kidding. I just like his ass.

Dallas Steele
Benjamin Nicholas
Chad White
Inzane
 
Thanks. I’ll search. This is my list for Dallas. I go to LA in August so if it doesn’t work this trip, I imagine LA will work out. I’ve been sent the name Rod Hagen through PM by multiple folks. Maybe I’ll reach out to him.

Sorry for the extra post but there are also a couple of reviews for Dallas Steele in Daddy Reviews. I know nothing about him but from his pic he looks incredibly hot. Search in the Forum and see what guys have had to say.

Benjamin Nicholas has posted here many times. You should be able to read many things that he has written (to get a sense of his personality) and if you do a search I am sure you would find a lot that has been written about him. I am sure that if you could find reviews on the now segregated Daddy Reviews. As aa matter of fact use this link and just search under his name (use the "name" section). http://daddysreviews.com/search
I have always found him incredibly sexy and if I recall a really nice body. You could always contact him and explain things as noted above.

I was kidding. I just like his ass.

Put their name in the Search function and if they had been mentioned before hopefully it will come up (sorry if you already knew or tried this).

If BOSTON was on your travel list I would offer to help you out

Playing devil's advocate, could a child of the '60s namecheck Glenn Miller, Duke Ellington or the Gershwins?
 
The ignorance of youth is revisited with each and every generation. History repeats itself

Tall muscular... don’t care on dick size. Smaller may be better. I prefer 40 and above. Don’t want kids:).

Dallas Steele
Benjamin Nicholas
Chad White
Inzane
 
This is my first time so if it doesn’t work out on the Dallas trip, I’m in LA for the next one. Thoughts on the aforementioned?
 
Appreciate the responses. I know this is not the most exciting thread.

I think you’re going to enjoy this hobby starting at your age. You’ve also got the height and stats that I love.

I'd suggest an escort; a professional. He's had experience with newbies before. There you can set your limits. People here can give you recommendations on escorts who are good with beginners.

Hey guys. I’m a 34 year old male. Have a comfortable and seemingly normal life. I had a fiancé but ended that about 6 months ago. I’ve dated since then but nothing serious.
 
Here is why I’m posting... I’ve had a desire to be with a man for some time. I had a married buddy that I met through CL years ago. We would meet up, JO - some touching but that’s it.
 
I’ve never had a dick in my mouth or ass. I want to try that. I travel a lot for work so want to this during a work trip.
 
I need advice - this is something I want to try soon. Should I try to meet someone through a hookup app or hire an escort? Or maybe start with an erotic massage?
 
I’ve chatted with a few guys on Grindr. I’m 34 6’3” 200 lbs. Played baseball in college and have an athletic/muscular build. The reason I mention that is because I’m getting a lot of responses from guys that want me to top them. I suppose I’ll want to do that. But what I really want is a guy that teaches me how to suck, bottom and can make me feel good. A dominant albeit respectful and patient guy. A guy that won’t get upset if I don’t go through with it all the first time we meet.
 
I frequent Seattle, Minneapolis, Chicago, Philadelphia, Dallas, and Los Angeles for work. Hope this hasn’t bored you yet. I don’t know how to best move forward with this. Suggestions would be greatly welcomed. And if anyone knows of the right person? Any recommendations would be appreciated.