Mhs

My rule of thumb; I don't treat what I say any differently with strangers on the internet than I do with people in line at the supermarket. 
I think we all have memories of people telling us that M/M relationships are gross and all sorts of horrible anecdotes. 
Also, keep in mind that it's really likely that someday this provider is going to end up reading your comments and continued mean statements, along with other trans folks wandering around this forum.  Your opinions are going to be hurtful to them; are you allowed to have them...sure...but you should consider if you want to make people fell crappy about themselves.  
You could just say 'Check to see if they have had bottom surgery and do some research on that; FTM guys who have gone that route are not my cup of tea.'

Let’s be clear: this isn’t just about preferences. This thread crossed a line when it moved from personal experience to publicly mocking trans people and anyone with a micropenis—cis or otherwise. That’s not a sexual boundary. That’s humiliation disguised as honesty.
The original post—in the Deli section—was a simple question about whether anyone had met or had experience with Santos. You didn’t. You just used it as a platform to shame trans men and men with small penises.
You’ve ridiculed anatomy, dismissed empathy as “nonsense,” and reduced people’s bodies to punchlines. And now, predictably, you’re hiding behind the idea that cruelty is protected by “just my opinion.” It’s not. Not when the opinion is, “this group of people’s bodies are gross.” That’s not insight. That’s a broadcasted insult.
Our community already takes enough hits from the outside—getting that kind of cruelty from within is even worse. You don’t know what kind of shame or self-loathing someone might be living with. So the real question is: why feel the need to add to it?
You’ve spent multiple paragraphs explaining, in clinical detail, why a group of people’s bodies don’t deserve dignity or desire. That’s not opinion. It’s obsession. And dressing it up in academic citations doesn’t make it less cruel. It just makes it pathetic. If your manhood depends on belittling someone else’s, it’s flimsier than whatever you’re mocking.
And now, with your latest response, you’ve made your intentions crystal clear. This was never about “just sharing an opinion.” It’s about disgust masquerading as discourse. You’re not offering insight—you’re issuing insults. What you just said wasn’t provocative. It was vile. A calculated attempt to mock and dehumanize, under the coward’s banner of “just being honest.”
You’re a smart man. By all accounts, a very successful one—personally and professionally. This is beneath you.

You’re free to have preferences, but when you start labeling parts of someone’s body as gross or saying they’d make you throw up, it stops being a preference—it becomes dehumanizing. Bodies come in all shapes, sizes, and configurations. If someone’s anatomy makes you uncomfortable, move along—but don’t use your discomfort as an excuse to shame others. We’re all just trying to feel seen and safe in our skin. Try not to make that harder.

Good grief. As the OP, I am (re)focusing this thread. Has anyone seen Hayden?

I was cleaning out old phone contacts and texted him on a whim.

Mirko is back!
https://www.massagebook.com/therapists/massage-roma/?src=massagebook
Formerly advertised under MediterraneanGuy. There are a couple threads on him…believe the hype. He’s now Massage Roma. I saw him a few days ago and can verify that he’s just as good as ever. 

Mirko is back!
https://www.massagebook.com/therapists/massage-roma/?src=massagebook
Formerly advertised under MediterraneanGuy. There are a couple threads on him…believe the hype. He’s now Massage Roma. I saw him a few days ago and can verify that he’s just as good as ever. 

Mirko is back!
https://www.massagebook.com/therapists/massage-roma/?src=massagebook
Formerly advertised under MediterraneanGuy. There are a couple threads on him…believe the hype. He’s now Massage Roma. I saw him a few days ago and can verify that he’s just as good as ever. 

Mirko is back!
https://www.massagebook.com/therapists/massage-roma/?src=massagebook
Formerly advertised under MediterraneanGuy. There are a couple threads on him…believe the hype. He’s now Massage Roma. I saw him a few days ago and can verify that he’s just as good as ever. 

https://rentmasseur.com/AlejandMart
Great find- highly recommended. Amazing massage skills, a few pleasant sensual elements…but this was definitely a therapeutic massage. Happy to share more details in DMs.

Any experiences or feedback on this guy? He looks familiar…maybe a name change? Thanks! 
 
https://rentmasseur.com/HairyHealing

Saw him recently while he was traveling. It was a last minute massage appointment, so I’m taking that into consideration. Decent-ish massage on a bed. Booked an hour, was out of there in 40 minutes. Sweet guy, impressive equipment. Oh, and he used scented oil.  

Saw him recently while he was traveling. It was a last minute massage appointment, so I’m taking that into consideration. Decent-ish massage on a bed. Booked an hour, was out of there in 40 minutes. Sweet guy, impressive equipment. Oh, and he used scented oil.  

Saw him recently while he was traveling. It was a last minute massage appointment, so I’m taking that into consideration. Decent-ish massage on a bed. Booked an hour, was out of there in 40 minutes. Sweet guy, impressive equipment. Oh, and he used scented oil.  

Good grief. As the OP, I am (re)focusing this thread. Has anyone seen Hayden?

Saw him recently. Looks just like photos - incredible body, mutual nudity & touch throughout. Downsides (for me at least): used scented body lotion; decent-ish massage skills but a lot of repeated motions; distracting music. Felt like we didn’t “click” but that may have been on me. He seemed open to extras and might be worth checking out for those. 

Any experiences or feedback on this guy? He looks familiar…maybe a name change? Thanks! 
 
https://rentmasseur.com/HairyHealing

Hi. There are quite a few good recommendations who’ve been discussed here: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/136970-chicago-recs-2022/
You may also want to search in the deli section, based on what it sounds like you’re looking for. Enjoy your visit to Chicago!

I would suggest checking out the sites and getting a sense of guys who interest you, then searching here to see if anyone has mentioned them. Direct messages to those who have will likely get you more relevant information than public postings, especially for masseurs.

Good grief. As the OP, I am (re)focusing this thread. Has anyone seen Hayden?

He & I were able to reschedule. 99% therapeutic - but wow! Easily one of the best massages I’ve ever had, hands down.  (That 1% non-therapeutic is because he worked shirtless…cute furry yoga bod.) He used a variety of pressures, checked in continuously to check on my comfort level, and incorporated lots of stretches, too. Easy conversationalist and not a clockwatcher either. He’s my new go-to therapeutic guy. Happy to answer more in DMs.

He’s also doing 4-hands with https://rentmasseur.com/Brazilianhandx. Decent massage from two beefy guys. Went into “extras” territory pretty quickly, and I was out of there in 45 minutes. Overall good experience though, and all that being said, I’d consider seeing them again. 

He’s also doing 4-hands with https://rentmasseur.com/Brazilianhandx. Decent massage from two beefy guys. Went into “extras” territory pretty quickly, and I was out of there in 45 minutes. Overall good experience though, and all that being said, I’d consider seeing them again. 

He’s also doing 4-hands with https://rentmasseur.com/Brazilianhandx. Decent massage from two beefy guys. Went into “extras” territory pretty quickly, and I was out of there in 45 minutes. Overall good experience though, and all that being said, I’d consider seeing them again. 

Very cute guy but a disappointing experience. Bed massage with baby oil…moved into escort territory within 10 minutes. I was out of there in 45 minutes, including a leisurely shower (to wash off all the oil, lol). Seems like he’d be fun in other circumstances but probably not going to repeat for a massage.