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BostonTom

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  1. You know, there's no way any advice could be an exact guide as to how to navigate these questions, and you will probably make a mistake or two, and occasionally pay more than you wanted for less than you hoped for. I will say that provocative photos are a sign that more is available, and especially a rate listed as "ASK" indicates a provider is more escort than masseur. As for stating your desires openly via text, it's tricky. It's okay upfront to say you want an "erotic" massage, but beyond that few providers will put anything in writing. If you see a post from someone on this forum about the provider you're interested in, it's perfectly fine to PM them to ask what they're willing to share about the experience. Most people will honestly reply. Beyond that, you'll have to wing it on arrival.

  2. On 6/11/2021 at 1:05 PM, Wanderoz said:

     

    https://rentmasseur.com/Trainer

    Anyone have any information about this adorable, hot guy?

    Doesn't list therapeutic, sensual, or erotic.  So not sure what that means.

    But I know what I would like for it to me! 😈

    If you look in his reviews, they do mention Sensual and Erotic massages. I'd say mention the type of massage you want upfront in your first text, and see what he says.

     

  3. The going rate in Montreal has been $20 a song for at least fifteen years. So given inflation (and the low Canadian dollar) it's a bargain these days (or will be again), particularly for Americans. Your friend was a little naive to think he'd get off with a stripper for $15, but hey, at least he learned his lesson. A few other tips for the less-experienced from someone who's been around the block a few times too often: the stripper isn't going to let you do much in the first dance but get his clothes off - and the lure of "one song only and then I'll see about more" can lead to a pushy or even hostile situation in my experience so I don't really recommend it. You're in this for $40-60 if you want a smooth entrance and exit. Also, some strippers will try to pretend you've gone an extra song. Assess that situation carefully. I usually try to enter the booth at the top of a song and keep track, and when breaking it off say, "So I think that was three songs" or something like that. If they push back too strongly - again, it's really not worth it. Remember strippers are in business, and they're probably not really attracted to you, and they're trying to get as much money out of you as possible with the least effort in the shortest amount of time possible. That's just life. Also remember they talk among themselves about clients, so if you want to be able to pick up the next hot dancer, you may have to part with some cash to keep the last one happy. Also remember there's not supposed to be any actual sex going on in the back room. At Campus the back room largely lacks any privacy at all now, and at Stock the staff sometimes sticks their head in through the curtains. So anything beyond a hand job is very risky. All that said, most strippers in my experience have given me my money's worth. They provide a service much more reliably than, say, waitresses or salespeople! And most are smart, good natured and want to have a good time. Just bring extra cash, don't get too drunk, don't expect the moon, and keep your wits about you.

  4. This may sound harsh, but the younger generation is also much blander than we were. A whole culture is eroding, and they couldn't care less. And do they have as much fun as we did? A few months back I was talking to two millennials about getting my first boyfriend at age 19, and they were all like "So you finally had someone to talk to! Did you guys discuss gay identity a lot?" And I was like, "No. We never discussed gay identity. We just fucked like rabbits."

  5. I'm sorry, but those people "nitpicking service providers looks" are the paying customers, correct? I mean this isn't actually a boyfriend relationship, is it? Or is that how it's functioning for you?

     

    Your position is very strange, and frankly, contradictory. If looks don't matter in this business, then why doesn't Kenzo have accurate pics? And as far as I can see, no one has insulted him, much less been "shameless and vicious." I think you need to calm down.

  6. Outstanding post!!!

     

    Also very revealing. The fact that this good looking guy has been literally body shamed, for gaining a few pounds ultimately disgusts me.

     

    What disgusts me more is that many of the people who are critical of his minimal weight gain, are probably the same hipocrites who cry “body fascism, ageism, and complain about the shallowness of men”, when they are on the receiving end of criticism.

     

    Ironically, this man has probably been such a success, by providing massage services to a wide variety of clientele, even some who may be “chunky”, “out of shape”, or “not the prototype”, and for this, what he gets in return is a bunch of critiques from people who have the convenience of hiding their looks and bodies behind the anonymity of a user profile.

     

    I hope this thread builds his client base significantly. I plan to book an appointment with him in the near future, just because.

    No one is "body shaming" him for "gaining a few pounds." We're pointing out that his posted photos don't reflect his current looks. He has admitted this in a previous post. (But I don't think he has changed the photos.) This happens all the time with providers. I wish Kenzo well - and he seems to be doing just fine - but pointing out this kind of thing is part of the normal functioning of this forum.

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