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He is a flake and likely a fake. Asked me 40% deposit just before the scheduled meeting time (never mentioned that when we scheduled) . The insta pix are highly doctored

What happened to Brent Corrigan? He has disappeared from the face of the internet.

Yup, the OF model wanting to chat with me at 8 pm on a Sat night was too good to be true! You have to now resort to your sixth sense to determine if there is a person or a savvy Large Language AI Model (LLM) at the other end.

Name change to LucasDiamond now. Not a good sign?

Gosh! I am glad i am not the only one feeling the crunch. My raises have not kept with the inflation. Stocks had shot up, but now they are back down. I have to cut hiring down by 50% .

How?

Not taking any blame. I had met him for short (1-2 hr) appts before. I knew what he was into and had clearly spelled out what I wanted get into in textual communication. It was not outside his wheelhouse and actually a very common and safe act.

Why? Asking that the provider get into what was discussed is hardly 'being hard'. Just being nice and hoping they would deliver what was agreed to is no longer cutting it.

I just got stiffed by a twink. He promised he would help with my fantasies. Doled out 2.5 k for an all paid weekend. He acted all reserved and gave me looks like i was a creep when everything was clearly spelled out in our pre-meeting conversations. Although i had met him for brief appointments before, his narcissism was on full display in the longer meeting. Look at me, i am so pretty, but dont touch. As i drove home i almost wanted to cry like i used to in my 20s when nobody would give me a second look at the bars. Worse, we went to a bar. We were having a drink and he chatted another guy up. Later he told me he was going to the bathroom. I said ok. Then i realized the other guy also disappeared. It took me a moment to realize they were making out and sucking in the bathroom while i sat all alone. I have decided to stop being a nice client from now on. I now realize why some clients are rude and hard on their hires.

After SF, he was in the LA area for a while. I think he is Brazilian. I have seen his ad for a while.

I am in Istanbul this week. But hiring providers (many are available on RM or Hunqz) is proving difficult. Hotels do not allow visitors to the room ..even if you have booked a room for 2. The second person must be registered with ID at the time of check in. The hotel workers watch you like a hawk in the lobby or elevator entrance. So disappointing. Some guys host incalls, but as someone new to the country / city, I was hoping to host in my hotel room. I dont like bathhouses or steamy hamams, but looks like those are my only options.

His ad says he is 6'1. I am 6'1 and he was about 2" shorter. He is more like 5'10.

I met him in NYC. Pix are accurate. Very flaky and lotsa attitude. You can negotiate him down if his fancy strikes. Limited services. Def good looking, smooth, but horrible breath. Wont repeat for the price.

I will visit Adonis lounge this Friday night. No good listings on RM for nyc. May be i can find someone at the lounge to go back to the hotel with me

Do providers travel to the boroughs? In my experience they are usually not ready to set a foot outside Manhattan.

Thanks. Expected range.

I am visiting in a couple of weeks. Hotel prices are insane. What about hiring? I remember paying 400 a couple of yrs ago.

There is also competition from the guys 'visiting' from abroad - primarily from Brazil and Columbia.

I seem to run into 'perfect ass but not the face to match it' category a lot.

Most of the folks here have a healthy point-of-view toward non-exploitative escorting. Overall LGBTQ community also tends to not particularly look down upon sex work. But as I have mentioned in another post in another thread, even the supposedly liberal / progressive LGBTQ friends can get jealous and ultimately tell you in a heat of an argument that "you have to pay to get laid". This is, of course, from a client's point of view. But the point is, even the most (outwardly) progressive folks can be judgemental about the world of escorting. They just dont know any better. There are risks in this profession, but most escorts are careful and have a common sense about what they are getting into. Escorts also tend to be more careful about their sexual health than your avg partying promiscuous guy. Your friend needs some education. Let him know you understand his concerns, but you have carefully considered all the pros and cons before getting into this profession.

Use lotsa spit. Spit has some germicidal qualities.

While some providers are kind and good-hearted people, a majority are not. Many are "entrepreneurs" turned on only by the easy money. Others have figured a way to scam older, often mild-mannered, sensitive, and kind but vulnerable gay old men who are often lonely. I have learned this lesson the hard way. Look out for yourselves out there, guys. Without money, nobody's gonna give a shit when you are old and frail.

Also he has been "29" for several years now.

And just as i wrote my post above this happened . You thought you were smart and were incognito in the Chrome browser, but Google still tracked you!

They will. I am pretty sure. When Meta, Google eventually start going the route Yahoo did, and as they start scratching bottom of the barrel for new channels for revenue, and as politics of the land takes a hard right, the search phrases you enter into Google, Insta, Facebook, the sites you visited, the messages you sent, the Venmo/CashApp payments you made will all come back to haunt you. I bet Google already has an AI tool to tell who you are and what you will do next.