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Yes, I can not imagine ever falling in love with or having sex with someone who does not have a penis. In that sense I am a homosexual. But the lack of attraction toward a penis has always baffled me. So I am trying to see if I fit elsewhere in the gender continuum. Of course, whether are not I find my place there, I will keep doing what have been doing. Who needs a label or a pronoun for that 😀

I have always been attracted to male butts ..way more than penises. As long as the person I am into is a man with a penis, my main criterion, aside from decent looks, has been the shape and size of his butt. I have seen a lot of unattractive guys or guys with flat butts garner a lot of attention because of their humongous penises. Most of my gay friends are constantly talking about penises. But I have very little to no attraction toward a penis. As long as it is there, I am happy to play in the backyard and finish there only. Once I had great sex with a guy with muscle body and butt but with a very small penis. Given this, and given the recent acceptance of gender continuum, different pronouns etc, I always wonder if I fit at a point different from most gays who are mainly into male genitalia when it comes to sex.

Hands down it's a clean smooth ass for me ..if it belongs to an attractive guy, with a regular sized dick (which I don't normally touch) . A hot guy's ass and the hole are mysterious and very sexy organs for me, I don't know why. I do not like toilet humor for that reason. I have tried finding evolutionary rationale for attraction to what would be considered a non-sexual organ by many. Perhaps paraphilia. I do not like toilet humor for that reason.

Given this profession attracts many golddiggers, it's important to find a right guy. With a wrong guy, you might end up putting your life in danger since his big payday doesn't arrive until you are gone.

Given I have no children or other close relatives to share my modest wealth with, I will definitely leave a chunk for an escort who provides me kind companionship in my sunsetting years.

He is a flake and not a professional escort. He will either not show up or ask you for pix at the last moment. I saw him from distance at the Folsom street fair pre-party. His pix are real, but again, don't waste your time. He is absolutely unprofessional.

Yeah one of the pix appeared in the TommyEighteen profile that appeared for San Francisco last week. RM deleted it for being fake.

Rentmen kindly deleted the profile.

It's a fake profile. A reply to the ad was responded by https://rentmen.eu/AndrewSuperFit . I think it's Andrew (if he is real) himself from years ago. Andrew says 23 yrs, but the male pattern baldness showing in Andrew's pics at 23 seems somewhat unlikely. Seems like a couple of gay4pay str8ish guys traveling in a pack.

He flaked out on me too last year. Told me he was outside my hotel, but none showed up. I think this is a prank profile.

I met him in LA a year or so before the pandemic began. Not a particularly memorable experience. Also, despite my well-in-advance request, there were hygiene issues in a certain area that turned me off. It seemed a bit odd the way he talked . May be there was no good chemistry. So despite the good looks, it was not worth it.

Flat butt..pass

Sorry about your experience! Would be great for our peers if you posted a starred review on Rentmen.

I met him in Denver last summer. The experience was not particularly memorable. But he was friendly and professional. Pics are a bit dated.

I saw him recently. He is a nice guy, and will do the job as promised, but he is probably 10 or more years older than he lets out. He will send a face pic via Snapchat since those messages disappear after a while, but that pic is likely him 10 yrs ago. Body is defined, but not the kind that a late twenties guy would have. At 400/hr he is overpriced for what he has to offer.

3 yrs ago I switched jobs. I had worked for the previous tech company for almost 13 yrs. In the new company almost everyone was younger than me and in tight jeans and speaking in acronyms that I did not understand. That's when it all dawned upon me. I wasn't the cool kid on the block anymore. I quietly logged on to my 401K management and turned my risk tolerance levels to a lower number. As a single gay man with no kids or any other younger relations around me, I never got accustomed to being the village elder.

Does asshole count?

Yes they have. However, as a timid , overly self-aware, and someone who finds it very difficult to strike a conversation up with a stranger, I find a cell phone a useful device when I venture into a bar out of sheer boredom. I read NYT articles half-heartedly to appear engaged and not be a lonely loser nobody pays attention to.

I recently met a guy from RM and we were chatting about he got into the biz. He told me it was his gf who started with Seeking Arrangement where she would set up 'dates' with older men, ask them to pay for gas to meet for dinner, get a free dinner, and then ghost the person. Apparently many college kids use the trick to get free fancy dinners. She got him to do the same thing ..and that opened him up to seeking more opportunities in the "biz" as he realized he could monetize his youthful good looks.

We crave what we can't get our hands on. I have had my share of disappointments when an escort who showed up at the door did not look like the pics I saw. I set up an appointment with this guy, didn't have high expectations, was waiting to meet him at a public place. A guy went past me and I could see his back. That perfect form, nice legs, bubble butt, the hair made me wish why I never get to meet a guy like this. Turns out he was the escort I had set up my appointment. Dream come true! Strange request: An escort asked me if I wanted him to come over with a butt plug lodged in place as he traveled to my place. Super hot!

Moreover I find Russian and eastern European escorts lack passion when it comes to intimacy. Very cold matter-of-fact approach. I may be stereotyping, but I have had this happen with almost all of the ones I have hired.

My father passed away at 86 last month. He got the Delta variant in April 2021, survived the infection. But it impacted his heart . In early Jan he got Omicron, survived that too. But by the end of Jan his heart gave away. My mom is still alive at 86 and survived two Covid infections. All my life I had dreaded the moment when my parents would start passing away. But when my father passed, after the initial bout of sadness, I was alright. Having seen so much death and turmoil over the last two years, I am glad he passed away without suffering too much. My hope was he would live for another 2-3 years, the climate of fear and anxiety would pass, and he would pass under happier circumstances. But now I am glad he did last month. With talks of world war III and the nuclear threat, I was wrong about happier days returning soon.

I was visiting Denver and reached out to multiple providers on RM to get rate quotes to figure base price for the city. Whoever was on the other side was able to figure I was using a Google Voice number and that I had reached out multiple providers. Then I realized those multiple providers were probably being handled by a single handler sitting somewhere with multiple phones or Burner app numbers or multi-SIM card phones.

Eros was my first experience with a gay sex club when I moved to California in mid nineties. I stayed mostly a spectator, but as a fresh out of college naive mind back then I remember being surprised by the variety of ways, tools, and games men use to have sex with other men. I was also surprised how the club got busy after 5 pm with commuters to the city trying to get some action before heading home (to their wives?) . Now, 23 years later, nothing surprises me anymore. Not sure if that's good or bad.

With the business model you have in mind (select clientele you find attractive) you may be better off using word-of-mouth, networking, and other non-standard channels to drum up business. If you use RentMen etc, you will get some rejected/pissed client reviews who will drive your business down. Also, carefully consider other implications such as this business being not totally anonymous (someone will dig up your internet footprint and real name etc), safety risks, and added instability due to Covid. Good luck.