menaughty

4 hours ago, toddoles said:

Thermas parties are from 11pm to 3pm, so they start at the end of one day and carry until the afternoon of the next day. 

Thermas has a lot of coed parties. 

So do they close early that day?

What I mean to say is that for example the party is on Friday 11pm. Do they close early that Friday? 
and do they open late or are completely closed on Saturday (the next day after the party)?

Thank you so much for the kind words everyone. That helps a lot.

this is such a tough journey of my life both physically and mentally. I am really hoping to get better soon. It is so sad to see that once an independent person that could walk anywhere now struggles even to go to the restroom. 
 

I am really hoping all of this gets better. 
 

you are guys are right about the gay part. Sex with multiple is risky for both gay or straight people. 
 

i just wanna get done with all of this 😭

Hello everyone,

I am writing this with a lot of sadness and pain.

I am in my late 20s. And i got my first ever STD. Long story short a week ago I woke up with a fever and then the next day all of my joints were hurting. They hurt so bad, it was a pain I have never experienced before. I cried a lot.

I was admitted to ER for a week and recently got discharged. I was diagnosed with Gonococcal Arthritis. The pain is better  now but still there and hurts. I still cannot walk. I have to take IV antibiotics daily for a couple of weeks along with pain medication.

The whole experience has traumatized me. 🥲So many mixed feeling even to the extent that I question if being gay is actually wrong. Maybe i just have to be celibate. 
 

I am not exactly sure what direction I want this thread to go. But I guess I am looking for words of wisdom, inspiration or maybe someone who has been is my situation can chime in. Or anything related. This experience has really shook me. Please tell me it gets better. 🥲

Honest question:

I have noticed that Prague & Zurich are always discussed together? 
is it because the escorts travel back and forth. But isn’t Prague like 8 hours away from Zurich? So i don’t understand the relation

1 hour ago, excelntsvc said:

uh lets see ... Sauna gran via has more pay to play guys now ... i think that summarizes my experience ... 

lol…

did you go with any of the guys?

how were the guys?

what is the ongoing rate?

On 9/16/2023 at 10:14 AM, excelntsvc said:

Sauna Octopus and to a more extreme extent Prinicpe ae the 'daddy saunas' with more old guys and those who like them ... you'll find a few pay to play types there

Sauna Gran Via has more of the pay to play guys these days

 

Can you please elaborate on your experience with Sauna Gran Via?

I really like Lagoa. It has great selection of men.

of course! 117 and 202 has even better but Lagoa is not too far behind IMO.

the thing with me is that i find 117 and 202 so dirty and old whereas Lagoa is much cleaner than those two and a lot more modern.

just because of that i choose Sao Paulo over Rio for a sexcation. 

@Simon Suraci

Thank you for your detailed post. Though I would never agree on $400 but your post made me see things from providers perspective. I respect that. 

In my humble opinion $400 is too much. Heck even $300 is too much tbh. $250 should be the cap. I haven't hired in the US for almost 2 years now. I take trips to Barcelona or Brazil  etc. (I understand that the cost is more in total) but I get more bang for my buck.

I am no stingy person. But the reason I do not agree with these prices is because we talking about RM here. I can only speak from my experience, majority are not outclass, excellent providers. We are talking 400/HOUR here. You can only do the deed and leave. There is no "experience" so to speak. 

Now I understand someone who is pornstar material or is one can probably charge that but not just anybody.

I really like someone here mentioned that high cost does not equate with high equality in this industry. This is so true!! 

It is slowly become rare to find a provider that is excellent quality, some want money upfront, cut the time short, do not follow what agreed upon etc. etc.

So 100 Euro is the current rate at Paragonya?

Thank you so much everyone for an amazing and informative input.

I am thinking to do Mexico or Colombia but now I gotta choose the city and the program.

I really love Barcelona and would love to learn their but I dont want to learn Spain's spanish 😂. I prefer Latin American Spanish. Idk if it's because I live in Texas and I am so accustomed to Mexican spanish or it's my love for latin american music since childhood. I am not a complete beginner. I can do small convos in Spanish.

Hello Everyone,

Has anyone here ever taken any Spanish language learning program in a Spanish speaking country? Which one do you recommended?

Is shower attachment better than enema or bulb?

This is a really interesting and good topic.

I will be 30 soon and I am so bad at saving. Self-control is something I need to learn. 

One thing that boggles my mind is that the base pay for now is usually $300/hr in the US for escorts. To me thats crazy. I have been to other countries and none of the escorts havd ever charged $300/hr. On top of that it's like taking a risk what if the session does not turn out ok.

I was celibate for almost 4 months and then decided to go to Barcelona and be a hoe especially at the thermas sauna (men are for hire there). My Barcelona ticket was $600 from Dallas that equals to 2 escort sessions in the US. I got more bang for my buck in Spain. I havent hired anyone in the US since almost a year. But yes this has been all possible because I earn US Dollars, i just wish it a little less expensive (escort wise) in the US too.

I really do need to put a escort fund aside for my retirement, if i cant travel much at that age.

Has anyone here ever tried genital area and anal bleaching? Would love to know if it's worth it especially for a brown color skin.

11 hours ago, Bucky said:

Well, there ARE lotsa sexual acts one can do without your face, no?  Get creative and just be cautious!

BTW, would you mind sharing how pleased you are with the results? And maybe the motive behind it?  

I am only 1 month postop, so it is s little too early to say. It takes around 3 months to see final results.

I had big face and wanted to shrink it 😅 

1 hour ago, azdr0710 said:

@menaughty   are you hesitant/embarrassed to ask your doctor?......three posters have made that suggestion and you've logged in after all three posts were made with no reply about this.......thanks

Not gonna lie I am a little embarrassed to ask him especially because the surgery happened in a different country but I kind of asked about on a different way like any trauma related thing happens and the doctor said to wait 2 months at least. So I do have my answer.

But I am whore 😅😅🤣 

But yeah I am going to follow the doctor's order if any moderator wants to delete this topic I'm fine with that too. I think I got my answer.

I am sorry let me rephrase my question.

What I meant to ask, if someone has had it in the forum, how long did they wait?

Hello y'all,

Has anyone here gotten Facial Contouring Surgery?

I got:

Jaw and Chin reduction (Mandible reduction & Genioplasty).

How long should one wait to resume sexual activities?

On 12/18/2022 at 9:08 AM, PeterR14 said:

Daily Metamucil transformed my colon behavior. It’s true that when used regularly at YOUR correct dose, I barely need to wipe and well formed and solid stools are the result. Feces seem to be far easier to pass also. And it’s great for your gut, esp if you don’t eat enough fiber in your diet. Btw, the regular Metamucil contains sugar. Check the calorie content if important to you. They sell a sugar free variety also. Highly recommended for anyone engaging in butt sex. 

How do you tell a correct dose?

1 hour ago, SirBillybob said:

 

Not the same structure/arrangements or number of escorts as Thermas, but I usually find what I want even though I tend to be picky about build and looks. 

Could you please elaborate on what you mean by that? 

I guess what I mean to ask is that if it is a GP sauna then how is the structure not same?

And if it is Not a GP escort sauna then how is it similar to Thermas in Barcelona?

Thanks 😊

On 12/1/2022 at 1:05 PM, SirBillybob said:

I recently went to Medellín for close to two weeks and will be returning to Colombia for most of the winter, but not Medellín, though I enjoyed Medellín for its non-sexual (non “sex tourist” features); once being enough in terms of my general travel bucket list. An excursion to Guatapé area is a must, but will be mobbed at that time and DIY basis may present obstacles as far as getting there by regional bus due to its popularity among city dwellers during the season.

I actually don’t mind being solo for extended periods as there is usually so much to do in a new place and I combine self-catering with dining out. No bar scene for me; in my 70s and early to bed-and-rise. 

I have been to Barcelona many times. The difference, from my point of view, is the degree to which you prefer the convenience and structure of a more curated and trade-specific setting, such as Sauna Thermas in ‘Geixample’ BCN, or the greater effort and challenge of hooking up through other means, as would be the reality in Medellín. … depending on your specifications.

Additionally, the physical appearance selection aspects, but since you have not specified any preference, I see no point at this time providing my comparative take. What I can say is that written or image depictions provided on our various punter sites would not impel me to choose Medellín over Barcelona for trade, though equivalency based on subjective preference (if one can unearth it) would typically be less expensive in Colombia. Similarly, the few hotel brothel outfits will oblige with a photo inventory via WhatsApp but nothing of appeal to me or what I would shell out for. I had to drill down and try not to waste valuable sightseeing time to yield a bit of success. However, I had made sure to immediately follow up my recent trip with travel to a destination where accessing the type of trade I prefer was a sure thing. Really hot Colombians often discover they can earn so much more bank abroad. And nationally, Bogotá affords the curated setting of Sauna St-Moritz & Gigolo Erotic House nightclub/ stripper venue with private dance etc, in the same Chapinero-district building. 

 

Is there like a Sauna Thermas in Colombia?

I am lazy too...lol. I would much rather prefer guaranteed action like in bcn thermas.

@Alfstoria I am not sure if I am allowed to use names here.

But by any chance did this guy's name start with 'Ang' letters?

@Alfstoria as far as I am aware Thermas is the only place where you can hire in a Sauna in Barcelona.

But idk maybe there might be. Someone more experienced than me could give you better information. 

Let me know where you end up going. I would love to hear about Zurich. Never been there.

I finally went to Barcelona.

Thermas = 100% recommend. €50 is usually the cost.

Sauca Casanova = No luck for me

Night Barcelona = Small bar with dark area to play.

Axel Hotel & the Skybar = very classy

Axel Sauna = depends on luck. I got to play for a while with someone until a straight couple walked in.

TWO Hotel Axel = 100% recommend closer to Thermas and cheaper than the original one.

Gingin bar = small bar

Boys bar = good music but friday night was so packed you could barely move.

Escort = escort wise €150 - 200 was the rate. I hired two guys seperately. First one was outstanding! Please don't ask me who was it cuz i found him on hunqz randomly eventhough i before my trip I planned to see some people from hunqz but he was never in the list. 

The second one was very handsome but very bad service. Was not interested. He did not delievered was he promised.

Barcelona is amazing!! If I ever go next it'll be Thermas only. Thermas is sufficient for my needs 😂

There are still a lot of bars I didn't go to.