I'm addicted to one person for the past 2 years so hiring is a chore for me. It's an attempt to both stay sexually diverse and to get my mind off the one. Sort of like conducting job interviews. I have a hard time with strangers though so the sex is subpar (condoms also kill it for me). So to me hiring is a chore like working out.
From that I can provide a couple insights.
One, pay more and you get more appreciation and you also will self-limit the frequency desire. Concentrate on quality, not quantity. Masturbating thinking about your next time with that perfect 10 is much more exciting than the actual sex with a bunch of 5's.
Two, do what you do to get over a break up or an unpleasant event. Vacation, do housework, gardening, a pet, politics, whatever. (politics is a real libido killer if that's what you're after).