nycman

Holy fuck that was a fun and sexy read. Thanks so much for sharing @ThroatCummer. I’d love to read the entire novel. Even though it doesn’t end with the two of you in old age watching sunsets in Provincetown, it’s a beautiful story. I’ve had several “relationships” with straight men. They were all magical and complicated, but I wouldn’t trade them for anything in the world. They helped make me the man I am today and I am thankful for every one of them.

If you choose not to decide, You still have made a choice. - Rush

Evidently he died at age 38….but I can’t find anymore about him.

Nair works, but not well. And it stinks…literally. Nair works by breaking down the disulfide and hydrogen bonds in the hair. Breaking disulfide bonds releases sulfur….which smells like rotten eggs. Nair can also burn "sensitive" areas. Specifically, I’d avoid my balls, cock and asshole. If you don’t leave it on long enough, it won’t work. Too long, and it will burn your skin. In addition, Nair only works on hair above the skin line. Physically, it removes hair "mid-shaft" on the same level as shaving. Whereas, waxing/sugaring pulls it out at the root. Thus stubble after Nair/shaving develops quite quickly compared to waxing/sugaring. All in all, I don’t like it.

As you repetitively rip the hair out, the hair that grows back hasn’t had enough time to firmly cement itself into place before you rip it out again. The "new" hair will also be more fine than hair that’s been growing for a while. And fine hairs hurt less than larger mature hairs when you rip them out. I also believe that longer hairs hurt more to rip out than shorter hairs. There’s also the psychology of the unknown that makes the first time more painful. Add it all up, and frequent sugaring should lead to less pain over time. YMMV.

I’d fuck him.

It ain’t. Some providers are better at lessening the pain than others. Some areas hurt more than others. And, the pain gets less the more you do it. But, even in the best case scenario….it’s never been pain free for me.

Hmmmmm?

30 years old?!?!…..hmmmmm.

I’m still trying to figure out why I should care…..

Are you planning on diagramming sentences with him…..or fucking? grin

The good news is...with repeat sugaring...the pain gets less. The bad news is...if you stop...for say 3 years....because of a PANDEMIC...the pain returns. Yes, that was me SCREAMING in Midtown NYC last week....grin

You watch too many scary movies.....and more importantly....you're missing out on some GREAT blow jobs....grin

I thought that was the whole reason Stella's even HAD a bathroom.

I’m still partying like it’s 1999! I’m more of a “steady as she goes" type of investor. As such, I don’t try to play or game the markets. I invest a set amount each year, and then ignore it. I occasionally rebalance my portfolio (but since I’m mostly in index funds there’s really no need), and I occasionally sell to offset tax issues that may arise. I could care less what the market is doing today, I just care where it will be 20 years from now. And that’s far enough into the future that worrying about it or attempting to plan for it, seems delightfully futile. "Tryin' to run from the destructionYou know I didn't even care"

If a provider waits until you arrive to tell you that they expect payment upfront, you’re already in for a crappy experience. Acquiescing to their sudden request for payment up front isn’t going to change that. The date is already fucked up and I refuse to reward shady business practices. I’ve never had someone ask for $$ upfront and had it end well. Yes, after I politely say "no thank you" I fully expect them to turn tail and leave. The scam has been exposed. They have nothing to gain. I have agreed ahead of time to showing the $$ on arrival. There is a small risk in that I’ll admit, but I’m a fairly large/strong man and it’s one I am sometimes willing to take. Especially, if I get the vibe that the request is in earnest. I’m not saying that it can’t happen, but I’ve never gotten burned in that scenario. I have no problem with escorts who say they require the money upfront, as long as they tell me ahead of time. I will politely decline the appointment and move on to the next provider. I wish them no ill will. It is their business to run as they see fit. Unfortunately, I will not be one of their clients. If that pisses them off…..I know I just dodged a bullet.

It’s not hard at all……just repeat after me…."no thank you".

And yet last weekend in NYC, despite 870 listings….I couldn’t find one good bottom. 3 attempts…..2 "Meh"….one bad apple….I gave up.

Holy crap. I just watched some recent videos of her. They’ve got the soft focus cranked to the max every time they show her face. It’s even weirder because they turn it off when they show everyone else. The sharpness of their faces contrasted with the blurriness of her’s is unsettling. And what you can see is a waxed, pale, freakishly smooth, bloated mess. Whoever did that to her should lose their license. So much for aging gracefully.

Strangely, I find it to be neither. He is simply stating his opinion. I may not agree with it, but homophobic and offensive?…nah.

Get a new table lamp instead. Most likely more reliable….and brighter. I always find it odd, when someone I couldn’t wait to get rid of texts me in follow up about how much fun they had. My first though is always "were we on the same date???", followed by, "Damn, I’m a good actor!"

Thank you for sharing that. He’s amazingly talented but also a beautiful human.

It’s easy to miss….but the answer is in the show.

Brilliant. I haven’t enjoyed a “kitchen” movie this much since, "The Cook, the Thief, His Wife & Her Lover". Thank you for the recommendation!