Charlington

Millennial here. I didn’t play sports in high school, but I did take the required gym classes. I don’t remember seeing open showers at my high school gym. They may have had them, but I don’t remember seeing anyone use them. I don’t remember gym teachers or coaches ever being in the locker rooms the same times as students. I don’t remember seeing guys changing naked in to gym clothes. The most I would see is stripping down to their underwear. Guys seem to have become more modest about nudity.

I’m a millennial. Things must have changed since I was in school in the early aughts. I do remember kids being bullied for even being perceived as gay or effeminate. It was like an insult to call someone gay. Instead of saying you’re stupid, people would say you’re gay or that’s gay. Things must have changed with the Gen Z generation. I know the older generations on here say they didn’t know what being gay was, or use the term back when they were in school. But by the 1990s and 2000s everyone knew what being gay was as young as middle school, and it was almost always never a positive thing or celebrated.

To be fair, I think that’s true just in life in general of both sexes and orientations, but mainly with women and gay men. Women face ageism actually more than men. There is so much pressure for women to look young, beautiful, skinny, or curvy, get facelifts, plastic surgery, botox, and fillers. Not to stereotype, but Gay men generally are more body and looks conscious than Straight men. The straights don’t seem to care about their looks as they age, as it’s not seen as masculine or manly. Again, I don’t mean to stereotype, just making generalizations.

He made great points. But I would argue that being gay in youth still isn’t “cool, profitable, or celebrated” even today. Though being gay is more accepted now. I can only imagine how difficult it would to be openly gay in middle or high school. Suicide rate for gay youth is still high, and gay bullying is still a thing. I think being gay gets easier as you get older. There are workplace protections against bullying and harassment, and older adults are more mindful of their actions.

The OP’s original post is simply a picture of her new hair color. Then people start viciously attacking her out of nowhere and calling her ugly. It’s no surprise this turned political. Yes the bloody picture of Trump was wrong. We know she was forced to apologize, and later took back her apology. She doesn’t like him, and he doesn’t like her. It’s obvious. They have two different bases and followings. I personally, choose to side with Kathy as she is an advocate for the gay/queer community.

Yes she has a great figure. She also has been open about having an eating disorder when she was younger. In her jokes I don’t recall her ever calling other women fat or even ugly. I remember her doing a comedic roast of Britney’s infamous 2007 VMA performance. While many news outlets were criticizing how out of shape Britney was, Kathy defended her, saying “this was not a big girl”. And said “her outfit wasn’t the most flattering”. When she does roast the mainstream celebrities you can tell it comes from love and respect. She also has been a longtime supporter of the Trevor Project. I don’t see how anyone who identifies as lgbtq can’t like her, she is an ally to the community.

I don’t think she cares if people find her unattractive. She has always had a self deprecating sense of humor about herself anyway. She knows she is a not a model or actress. Her job is to make people laugh afterall.

I’m on team Kathy’s side. I think she is a hilarious comedian. I don’t know why she gets so much hate. She loves the gays.

Back in the glory days of backpage, I basically got robbed for confronting a guy that used faked pictures. I stupidly let him into my hotel room, then confronted him about his pictures. He pretended to call a friend to jump me, so I just paid him and he left. Luckily he only charged like 50 dollars for his rate. Escorting is a business, but it’s not regulated in the United States. What should I have done in that situation, call the cops and tell them I’m being robbed by an escort that I hired?

I’ve never had an experience where the guy is fatter than his pictures portray. But I have had experiences in which the guy is way skinnier with less muscle tone than his pictures on a few occasions. One of which despite having raving reviews on this site and on rentmen, had aged horribly, and I was tempted to run away from the session before it even started. I should have left, but I didn’t want to confront him, so I offered for him to just massage me for a bit and paid him for his time and left.

He is a hottie. I would agree with bozo and pubic on this one.

Perfection? When did I say he was perfection? I just stated he is not chubby. But as you said that’s just my opinion. I don’t mind a little extra thickness where it counts. He has a nice bubble butt.

He doesn’t have the most attractive face, but he is not chubby. What are y’all smoking?! I like my men on the thicker side anyway, especially in the backside, rather than skinny twinkish.

I have a feeling this thread will be locked. Don’t know when though. 😅

I generally don’t respond on here anymore to pm requests for more information on sessions I have reviewed on this site. If I made a review here for a provider that’s the only information I will supply. Many guys have private messaged me about getting more details on various providers I have reviewed on here, but I really don’t have more info than what I provided. So I apologize if I ignored or ghosted anyone’s private messages looking for more information. 😊

Sorry that happened. I would never hire a guy that young. Around 25 is the minimum age for me, but prefer guys in their 30s and even early 40s. 19 year olds just don’t have the maturity, nor the development, both mentally and physically. They are also more likely to be on the skinny twinkish side of things, which is not my type.

The weather is warming up, at least where I live, and I’m seeing more shirtless joggers outside. There is something sexy about a muscular guy jogging outside shirtless. Bonus if they are in tight fitting short shorts.

Good points. I’d add we really don’t know what Britney’s mental health diagnosis is. She nor her team have ever disclosed it. People speculate she’s bipolar, as it’s generally socially acceptable for celebrities and artists to have a bipolar diagnosis or depression and anxiety. But she could even have schizoaffective disorder, or schizophrenia, which would explain why she nor her team hasn’t disclosed her diagnosis, because it’s seen as a less socially acceptable diagnosis with a higher stigma, for a person to have. It could be career ending for her to come out with a diagnosis of a psychotic disorder.

I don’t have any experience with him as an escort, but I believe he used to do porn under the name RJ Alexander. There is a porn scene he did with Michael Lucas, the film was called “Fuck me hard”, in which Michael pisses and cums on his face and mouth. He treats him so dominantly, and Alexander is in complete submission. It’s one of my all time favorite porn scenes.

I can attest Brian’s stated rentmen age is accurate.

Why? You haven’t seen his face.

Grindr fatigue and convenience. I hire to treat myself on an occasional basis. My city doesn’t have a gay bathhouse and only one gay bar. More and more young people are hiring, it’s not just for the old folks or people that can’t get laid on their own. I’ve been hiring since I found out I could do this, in my early twenties. I don’t do it all the time, just to treat myself occasionally. It’s kind of a ridiculous assumption to make that people who hire can’t get laid on their own. Plus Grindr wasn’t around when I first started hiring. My straight suite mates in college would hire women escorts.

I think it has to do with women are more likely to “identify” as bisexual or pansexual, whether they truly are or not. So many young female pop stars and celebrities call themselves bisexual or pansexual then end up marrying men. Nikki Minaj recently admitted to lying about being bi early in her career. Almost like it was a trend to be bi. With men I think there is less of a spectrum of sexuality. Though bisexuality does exist with men, it seems most men either identify as gay or straight. And straight men are more likely to be homophobic.

That’s unfortunate. I don’t think I can ever give up rimming, but I’ve never been diagnosed with an std. I enjoy rimming probably more than sucking. And I’m not even a top. I’ve just always liked the smooth round bubble butt of a hot man.

I’ve been thinking about starting a weight loss drug injection like Zepbound. My only concern is I’m a big foodie, and I don’t want to lose my appetite for food. I know what it’s like to have early satiety, and I don’t want to be craving food even if I do feel full. My build is athletic, but I do have visceral fat mainly in my abdomen which has been problematic to get rid of. I’m afraid if I start this drug, I will lose my emotional attachment to food. But I know that is the point of taking an appetite suppressant weight loss drug.