DJla

Hey guys - I haven’t updated because I have nothing exciting. I have been to see him a few time more - and nothing more than before. Still playful but never anything more.
 
I think I have to accept the fact this will be all it will ever be. I am ok with it. I leave him so fucking horny and turned on I run home, beat off, and cum so fucking hard. So I get a good massage and still get off (even if it’s on my own)

I am not small. But 7.5 inches is hardly an elephant.

Not shirtless. Couldn’t tell if he was free balling.

Ok - so I show up and he is wearing jeans. In my mind I took that as a sign - I feel there is nothing about jeans that say “these might come off”
 
Massage was great as always - maybe the question I need to ask is how can you tell if a massage is viewed as a sensual massage by them and not just me being horny with a good imagination?
 
There was grazing when I was on my stomach with hands to my side and a little looser draping and lots of ass work (more than usual) so I was all hot and bothered as always. But those jeans just made feel he didn’t see this as a “sexy” massage.
 
Am I over thinking?

Have another appointment tomorrow - going to be a little ballsier this time (I think, Ha)

Ok - OP here.
 
I saw him last night. Although not the porn scene I was hoping for - it was a little “different” massage than before.
 
If I thought we got close to the line but never crossed it before - well we got closer.
 
We started with some small talk. The other day I realized I don’t think I have ever out right said I was gay - I am sure he know it. So this time I made sure to make it clear in the conversation.
 
The roomset up was more of an area than a room. He said he was working on a screen but, I could still see him when getting naked. I tried to see if he stole a look, but I couldn’t tell.
 
The massage was amazing as always. Same accidental brushing as before, but with him wearing loose basketball shorts with obviously no underwear vs scrubs - I could feel his cock as he would drag it along my arm, leg, top of head. I thought I noticed him getting hard, but that might have been wishful thinking. I was too chicken to touch it. But, It was so fucking hot. I was hard from the minute I got on the table. I made more noise that usuall, especially when his dick was resting on my thigh. Ha. I am sure he knew I liked it.
 
He has always been casual with the sheet, but he was even more so this time - If it goes the same next time I will try and make some joke about “just getting rid of it”
 
I guess all in all it was the same great massage - a little freer. I feel I could push the boundaries a little bit more.
 
Thanks for all the help guys.
What do you think for next time? Push things or just relax and see?

Thanks all. Made and appointment with him tomorrow night. I asked for 5 he said later was better. So we settled on 9. Maybe that’s a good sign? Or it means nothing.
 
I think I’m going to go in thinking it no different than any other time. See what happens.

I get hard every time so that would be nothing new.

I have been seeing the same guy for years, he worked at a chiropractor I went to - and yesterday told me he is leaving but gave me his number and said he is going to take clients at his house.
 
The massages have never crossed the line, but get as close as you can get, lots of accidental grazing and such.
 
I will defiantly schedule with him, any ideas on how I tell him I want the massage to get more sexual?

Just an update. Had a really great time here. Good crowed that was definitely playful. Hot at the end of the day was very relaxing ?

EL - hands down, best in long beach and best just about anywhere. 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6049/
 

EL - hands down, best in long beach and best just about anywhere. 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6049/
 

Burke Williams is offering their 3 day spa pass again when you buy a gift card.... think I'll buy so I am ready when they open it all back up.

well there ya go, I should learn to read. That's a no for me then.
 
Thanks Cari.

801 Baker St
Unit E
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
United States

There's really only one thread about this place, though it is mentioned in comments on other threads. Anyone have recent experience with Candle Spa in Studio City? I'm sure it's off my list until we get to a better spot post-pandemic, but I'm curious about it. Also there seems to be a masseur named Andy there that people recommend, though I have noticed in my years of getting massage in Los Angeles that a lot of the providers choose the name Andy for some reason.
 
So, gents... what's the 411?

Just an update. Had a really great time here. Good crowed that was definitely playful. Hot at the end of the day was very relaxing ?

The latest email I received mentioned "The lounge, quiet room, lockers, showers, and vanities are open. All other amenities are temporarily closed."

Has anyone been back to Burke Williams now that they are opening back up? What is open what isn't? The massages/ treatments were never the main attraction so I don't really see myself going till everything is back open.

Just an update. Had a really great time here. Good crowed that was definitely playful. Hot at the end of the day was very relaxing ?

Just an update. Had a really great time here. Good crowed that was definitely playful. Hot at the end of the day was very relaxing ?

Just an update. Had a really great time here. Good crowed that was definitely playful. Hot at the end of the day was very relaxing ?

Ok - OP here.
 
I saw him last night. Although not the porn scene I was hoping for - it was a little “different” massage than before.
 
If I thought we got close to the line but never crossed it before - well we got closer.
 
We started with some small talk. The other day I realized I don’t think I have ever out right said I was gay - I am sure he know it. So this time I made sure to make it clear in the conversation.
 
The roomset up was more of an area than a room. He said he was working on a screen but, I could still see him when getting naked. I tried to see if he stole a look, but I couldn’t tell.
 
The massage was amazing as always. Same accidental brushing as before, but with him wearing loose basketball shorts with obviously no underwear vs scrubs - I could feel his cock as he would drag it along my arm, leg, top of head. I thought I noticed him getting hard, but that might have been wishful thinking. I was too chicken to touch it. But, It was so fucking hot. I was hard from the minute I got on the table. I made more noise that usuall, especially when his dick was resting on my thigh. Ha. I am sure he knew I liked it.
 
He has always been casual with the sheet, but he was even more so this time - If it goes the same next time I will try and make some joke about “just getting rid of it”
 
I guess all in all it was the same great massage - a little freer. I feel I could push the boundaries a little bit more.
 
Thanks for all the help guys.
What do you think for next time? Push things or just relax and see?

Thank you! I’ll look him up. And I guess I should have made it clearer that when asking for a “hot” doctor I was joking. I just want someone who doesn’t lecture me about the dangers of anal sex ever time I go in and suggest an aids test as a reflex to me saying I’m gay.