Grindr has become a treasure trove, at least in NYC. I’ve almost stopped using RM — with people there quoting 400 or 500 & up, & often not being responsive or rude & then not delivering, there’s no point when you have all these stunning non-pro guys more than willing to do whatever you want if you throw 100 or 150 at them, and they’re happy to be taken out for a drink or dinner afterwards without the slightest suggestion you would pay them for that time. Granted you have to share pics & stats, so maybe it isn’t for everyone, but I have to say I’ve had amazing experiences since I e started doing this, and saved a fortune too.