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Without going into too much detail, I met a much, much younger provider in early February which has morphed into something more. We spend more time off the clock than on, and I’m the one who insists on “on the clock” meets. We’ve unexpectedly become very fond of each other and go on long hikes, among other non-sexual things. He finds me attractive physically (I’m fortunate to have good skin, look younger and have been cross training since college). I’ve gently encouraged him to date people his own age, and he has, to a limited extent. I look at it from a surfer’s perspective: I’ve found a great swell and I’m going to ride it as long as I can, without any starry-eyed notions of marriage, which my personality is probably innately disinclined to anyway. It is exhilarating, though, and I fully empathize with your current situation. In sum, given the thoughtful responses and advice, you’ve come to the right place for advice. We’re a seasoned and caring community.

Great advice! In many states, once a “houseguest” begins receiving bills, etc., at your address, it can become almost impossibly expensive to evict them. I know a foolish older man who allowed his hot regular to live with him, whereupon he refused to leave and was extremely nasty to my acquaintance. Without spending far more time with this love interest, you’ll have no idea what state his mental health is, among other scary surprises.

Brazilian model for Zod underwear. I’m wearing a pair now.

True, but I’d love to smell them after he’s worn them walking in the Florida humidity

Princess Anne has the classic horse face of the inbred Home Counties horsey-set.

That’s good. People shouldn’t drink that poison.

Another reason I never signed up for any of these apps.

We spent an overnight at my place near Seattle in summer of 2019. We’d met at the PS gathering. He paid his own fare from Las Vegas, so I presumed he was seeing others in Seattle. Really lovely time.

We didn’t get that far, but I’d guess $300.

Indisputably true; however we’ve now entered the era of “grasping” capitalism and plutocracy. For example, the destruction of regional banking to the benefit of the mega-banks. Rent-seeking and crony capitalism are the norm now.

Many years again I read an outstanding book called Seven Tomorrows, describing seven possible American futures. It appears we’ve now entered the Chronic Breakdown stage. https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Tomorrows-Paul-Hawken/dp/055301367X

A few, like Byberry State Hospital and Pennhurst, in the Philly area, were nightmarish; but I agree that the mass closures played a large part.

I read that he and his boyfriend are living on MTG’s property in Dalton GA

I would agree that Canada can be rough. Once across the border, it’s Nirvana.

Good luck!

100% agree. I would leave reviews but I’m not wasting $20/month to join premium. I’d pay $5.99 tops.

I’ll have to whip him when I’m back up in the area.

He has the requisite bling, I see, and the first class space, most likely on Emirates.

Our trio again.

He looks like he’d be cute.

I’ve noticed the same thing, but I also have a filter. A lot of online retail shops offer 15% off for your first order, so I use a sock-puppet account for those, so I never see their subsequent ads.