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I'm not even sure how to respond to this as I'm not even sure if you know what Global Entry is.

I do not know what it is.

Or just have the US government do the dirty work and require your providers to have Global Entry.

I would like to keep the government out of my sex life as much as possible.

Besides just the failure of sexual gratification, there is also sort of a sense of humiliation in having to beg to have someone cum in me. I guess now that it has been articulated in some way I understand it more but then I guess it is not a good client/escort match. The thought of actually saying "Because I am paying you to do it" is so humiliating - (I am sure for both people). And I have experienced it also in non-condom experiences which I have understood even less. There is probably some explanation but if both are on PrEP and testing negative I do not understand the hesitancy of cumming. Again it is humiliating to beg. However no one must do anything in the heat of the moment.

Interesting. I find no humiliation for myself in asking the guy to cum in me as I am a submissive bottom. My sexual gratification is psychological and me achieving an orgasm is not necessary. I take medication that makes ejaculation extremely difficult so I have learned to achieve pleasure in other ways. I would never say because I am paying you to do it. That is just disrespectful.

Have you considered asking them to use a dental dam? They come in all flavors these days and are very useful for good hygiene...

Never crossed my mind. Thanks for the suggestion.

Beautiful yet so very sad.

If you are able to concentrate on xbox while I am sucking your dick then I am doing a horrible job.

Are you allowed to do that ??? I had the pic posted, but it was deleted as a violation.

post the link, not the pic

This looks incredibly hot, but I have never been in a gangbang-threesomes at most. To me one or two dicks is plenty, how does one take so many-is it painful? Or just reserved for porn, where they shoot over a few days and combine into one clip? Just wondering if anyone has been in gangbangs and is it really as hot as it looks?

 

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1334155750

That gang bang was painful for the bottom. I do not like overly aggressive and sadistic bangings. However, I was gang banged in a sling by 18 guys at a sex club in Atlanta. After dick number 6 I was begging for more. It was a hot experience. My ass was sore for a week.

They might have been in a hurry. Prepping for bottoming isn't something you rush.

No it is not. It usually just takes one time of being utterly humiliated to make sure you prep. It is a lot of work to be a bottom. Tops have it easy.

Let's face it - gay men can be particularly bitchy often bordering on cruel. So many psychodynamic reasons for this. And so sad.

Oh is that ever the truth. Straight people would never say the things that gay men have said to me.

Hose out well.

If they shitted out after 5 minutes of getting fucked then they made little to no effort to get clean. It takes me a freaking hour before I feel confident that the chassy is clean. Nobody likes dirty bottoms and rightfully so.

It is for most people. Hence the enhanced intimacy here.

I had a guy that wanted to help me clean the pipes but I was way to uncomfortable. Possibly, maybe if the guy and I were in the shower it might work but I would need some foreplay.

"...for me"

 

Sorry, thought I'd finish that sentence for you.

Yes, thank you. I got distracted.

Good sex needs to be messy sometimes. I don't mind a sloppy ass.

 

But mine is probably the minority view ...

If by sloppy you mean cum then sure. But I make all efforts to ensure that there is no mess. The smell of leakage makes me vomit.

I have a wonderful connection with a lovely, very sexy guy in NYC. We're friends on many levels, and I top him as often as possible. To be clear, I'm not into scat, but we've made the douching process part of our extended foreplay -- I think that the very intimate and personal of the process has made it into an incredibly bonding and sensual experience for us both. We are both rock hard throughout, and move seamlessly from shower to bed. I don't think it would work with just any guy who I didn't know, and I know it's not for all tastes, but wow what a trip.

The cleaning process is a private matter for me. Partly because I am obsessive and it takes so freaking long.

 

This is the first I have heard of Pure for Men. I just googled it. So, this produce really works? You no longer have to douche? Seems unbelievable.

Nope, not for me. I use saline made with sterilized water to douche. I have done this for years without problems. It gets me completely clean. Pure for Men may help you evacuate solids but it does nothing towards getting you clean and removing bacteria. My high fiber diet and douching is preferable for me.

I met with a provider who used Coconut Oil, said b/c it's natural the body absorbs and responds to it better, once warmed up has the consistency of Vaseline.....worked well for that one session, have not seen or used it since (top here).

I must try that. I love vaseline except for the cleanup so something similar I must try.

Do escorts generally cum in a clients mouth? What about sharing their own cum? I understand not wanting to eat a clients cum, but what about their own.

In my experience, escorts dont mind cumming in my mouth.

I dislike putting people and groups in boxes using labels and stereotypes but appreciate having information about individual people, books, etc. because it improves the chances of finding what I'm looking for.

 

It's the difference between using labels to limit people and put them down and using them to meet your needs/desires. That's a functional difference, not a semantic one.

Ok, cool. I see the difference now. Thanks for the reply.

Edit: the person who said was going to take me to court made amends and took care of half of the proposed rate in person last night. So he's been cleared. However, last night a different person thought it'd be cute to send me on an outcall out to a gated community....with no gate code, only to claim to have fell asleep upon arrival. I was just reimbursed for that this morning.

 

I always tell myself every year, that I wish I could take off and not have to advertise or work from mid December until after the 1st week in January. And this year, it couldn't be more in hindsight. Just when I was on a money train the past few weeks, ended up hitting a predictable funk as Christmas nears.

 

Dude, you have so much negative energy, you are attracting problems. I have hired 200+ escorts over the past 30 years and I have only had 2 bad experiences. You come off as bitter and angry. I would not hire you.

I don’t hire such escorts. Stop saying things about ME.

Your words: I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. Hiring escorts with criminal records, some 3 strikes is throwing caution to the wind.

Maybe we can co-opt pittakionophobia as our word of the year - the fear of stickers, closest I could find to fear of labels haha:

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pittakionophobia

I find that quite amusing

I'm someone who hates labels but loves categorization.

Isn't that just semantics? Could you please elaborate, I am not sure I understand the difference between the two. Thank you.

HOT man! I would like to see him erect - could be a real grower:)

 

As I have posted, years ago, I had several sessions w/ a guy who was 3” erect and the diameter of a regular hotdog. Some of the best sex ever.

He couldn't get that past my ass cheeks. Was he a top or bottom? Dick size only matters for tops to me.

Not pleasurable for me in a condom. I'm so used to it from receiving or giving it's become status quo for me and my escorts. If I did BB then I would come in his ass. But I don't.

I just realized I have never worn a condom. I have only fucked once, when I was 17. I am clueless about what tops go through with condoms.