Vegas_Millennial

There was a strip club in Puerto Vallarta that was notorious for charging a customer's tab to his credit card then saying the charge didn't go through and demanding to be paid in cash. The customer would later learn that the charge did indeed go through, and that he double paid and couldn't dispute it with his credit card company. I almost fell in to that trap once, but spent time calling my credit card company to confirm the transaction did go through and refused to pay cash as well. It was only later that I read reviews and discovered that this was happening to other customers frequently. Now I never cary credit cards. I only use cash. I have not asked to review any of these club's accounting books, or any of the dancers' paychecks, so I do not know. Private dances are in a private space. I've also had fun with public dances in public on the main floor. None. Everything is 600 pesos now.

I finally had a chance to see Alex Blessings on my current holiday in NYC. I can see why he gets consistently good reviews here. His price is reasonable and his extra were nice and he is not a clock watcher. I can see why he's a regular of so many fellow forum members.

They are in the range of 300/hr, 1800/overnight

On the contrary...I find the real thing easier to take than a dildo of similar size... Because I want it more! 😈

The "Search" 🔍 function up top yielded many helpful results, including this same question:

NickkXL is Italian. Neither black nor white, he's a gorgeous golden olive tan 😉 😍

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My very first hire asked me to bring his favorite flavored vodka (back when that was popular 😂) and I obliged. It helped me relax. I wish more providers adopted that "get-to know-you drink" model.

In my experience, it means the provider offers or desires sessions longer than 1 hour (90 minutes, 2 hours, or all evening, for example). To the opposite, I've met with providers who only offer 1 hour sessions and won't commit to longer even if I ask them. That's their business model, and that's what they feel comfortable doing.

About half the speakers speak fluent English, about half speak broken English limited to "Where you from" and "ready for Private?", and maybe 1 in 10 speak Spanish only. It's actually a lot more English speakers than a typical southern California business, for example. Tip: Mexicans don't use "Top" or "Bottom" to describe sexual preferences, even when speaking English. They use "Active" ("Activo") or "Passive" ("Pasivo"). At a strip club, knowing how to say Activo and Passivo is the best Spanish that can help you have a good time 😉

I don't mind if I'm "judged". But I do mind paying needlessly extra when I don't need to. Businesses and strippers in Puerto Vallarta will accept US or Canadian dollars, but you'll pay at least 20% more for the privilege. It's so easy to withdraw Pesos from the ATM using a debit card that has no foreign transaction fees, that it just doesn't make good financial sense to pay in US or Canadian Dollars.

Never dispose of condoms or "flushable" wipes into the toilet. Use the trash instead. I've toured my town's sewage treatment plant, and the bar screens at the headworks are overwhelmed scraping used condoms from the wastewater (especially early mornings after Friday and Saturday nights). Most of our sewage overflows are caused by "flushable" wipes, and then by condoms, that clog our pumps. The result is raw sewage overflowing out of manholes onto the streets, and into the waters of the U.S. If you care about clean water for the environment, go bareback (or use the trash).

Real IDs are issued to non-citizens also. You just need proof of identity, not proof of citizenship, to obtain one.

The problem here is "discreetly get away". That's not a marriage, that's a prison sentence. Sounds like this man should not be married if he has to lie to his partner. Solution: Start the divorce proceedings first, then contact the provider with an available time between court hearings or after the divorce is final. @pubic_assistance called it out perfectly. You can be bisexual and married; but, you still owe it to your partner to be honest that you're having sex outside the relationship.

If there will be any noticeable effect on the sex industry caused by change in immigration enforcement, I suspect it will be mostly noticeable at massage parlors and on the streets where sex workers are beholdant to their employer or pimp to perform in exchange for protection to stay in this country. I predict fewer vulnerable immigrants sex trafficked into the country; and the greatest decrease will be mostly among women and children. The independent self-made made man who advertises on his own and sets his own rates and schedule will continue to thrive. Speaking on behalf of an illegal alien escort close friend of mine who has been here since the late1990s and has been very successful, he said he was the most successful in the late 2010's. He said that's when customers could afford to splurge on hiring him more often.

Yes, I've noticed about 80% of the restaurants, bars, and stores I visit have gone Cash Only or charge fees for credit cards. Join the bandwagon and start carrying cash, and enjoy that 3-5% discount at every purchase!

Good point. At some point, it's more cost effective to pay for prep than it is to pay for condoms, especially if one uses condoms five to ten times per day. Plus, there's the environmental factors to consider: condoms are not recycled and don't decompose well in a landfill. Society benefits all around if the most sexually active among us use prep instead of condoms. I do my part and go bare

A price provided.

There's a thread on that, here:

Unfortunately for you, Eric Adams would most likely be the mayor of Brooklyn. He formerly served as Brooklyn Borough President, and represented a district in Brooklyn when he served in the New York state legislature. I've only visited New York as a tourist. I've ventured out to Queens for a hookup once, but otherwise confined myself to Manhattan south of 96th Street for any hookups or hires.

Gay bars sound like a great destination that fits what you describe. Unlike paying a provider, finding someone at a gay bar is not guaranteed. And unlike the seedy clothing optional hotels you mentioned, most gay bar patrons remain clothed (except in the basement or back room 😉). Happy hunting!

I use Android phones and try to use as little Google as possible. I downloaded and use Microsoft Edge instead of Google Chrome on my telephone. I save all contact information only to my phone, and never backup to a cloud. I create a new Google account with a fake name whenever I buy a new Android phone, and I transfer the information from my old phone via cables, and stop using the old Google username associated with my previous telephone. So, while Google tracks me for the few years I own a mobile telephone, there's no lifetime data associated with my account, and no name or personal information given to Google. It's a few days worth of headache to transfer what I need when I buy a new telephone, but I look at it as a helpful purge every few years.

I remember my "Ah-Ha" moment when I realized that I don't need to be a physical stud to pick up guys at a bar or on Grindr...I just need to be able to host nearby. Now, I eschew from sharing a hotel room or cruise ship cabin with someone, lest it impede on my ability to bring someone back to my room. And, I ensure my hotel is in the gay neighborhoods.

I sit in a chair at the gay men's beach, drinking Pina Coladas 🥥 while watching men in speedos splash in the water 🌊, while having a man massage either my shoulders/neck/arms for 30 minutes, or massage my feet and legs for 30 minutes. If I want the middle of my body massaged, I have to go to one of the massage studios a block away from the beach for that.

Over the last 8 days in Puerto Vallarta, I've had 14 massages: Last Friday - (1) 90 minute full body erotic Saturday - (2) 30 minute upper body at the beach, (3) 30 minute lower body at the beach. (4) 90 full body erotic at a studio Sunday - None Monday - None Tuesday - (5) 30 minute upper body at the beach, (6) 30 minute lower body at the beach, (7) 30 minute lower body (different massuer) at the beach, (8) 90 minute full body erotic at a studio Wednesday - (9) 1 hr full body Thursday - (10) 30 minute lower body at the beach, (11/12) a four-handed 30 minute upper and lower body at the beach, (13) 90 minute full body erotic massage at a studio Friday - (14) 2 hour full body erotic