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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from beachboy in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    No thanks. Trying to inform an ignorant, incendiary, misogynistic internet bullying troll about my sexual life, so that in his mind he may perhaps think that I have any insight on women in general or female rights is akin to trying to acquire twitter followers so that I can prove to Trump that xenophobia, war, cronyism and the dismantling of female rights is wrong.
     
    Whether I have or have not had relationships with women I have a clear idea of how equal their rights must be.
     
    I tried to engage in an adult discussion with him before and all I get is childish name calling. Slut shaming, homophobic slurs, gross misquotes and ignorance. I am out of this conversation.
     
    And on top of that, Good grief with his veiled threat about the rumblings of the so many... How brave the coward becomes behind anonymity!
     
    On another thread I was told I am so open minded my brains will fall out... because I believe we all would benefit from being kinder to one another.
     
    Has the level of discourse in this forum really sunk to the levels of the commander in chief?
     
    You guys... You don't have to follow suit.
     
    Human rights are necessary for any civilization to thrive. Kindness and respect make life a better place. Anyone, by the mere practice of empathy can understand how important the rights of others are. These are basic truths.
     
    None of this should even be on the table. And no, there's no "merrits" (SIC) to both sides of every argument. Putting jews (or gays or muslims or japanese) in a concentration camp is wrong. Period. ALL humans deserve basic rights. Period. There is no automatic achievement or merit on the fact that you concocted a monstrous franken-opinion.
     
    It's sad that the kind and polite members barely ever post. But now I remember why.
     
    May you all find happiness. Best wishes!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from LivingnLA in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    No thanks. Trying to inform an ignorant, incendiary, misogynistic internet bullying troll about my sexual life, so that in his mind he may perhaps think that I have any insight on women in general or female rights is akin to trying to acquire twitter followers so that I can prove to Trump that xenophobia, war, cronyism and the dismantling of female rights is wrong.
     
    Whether I have or have not had relationships with women I have a clear idea of how equal their rights must be.
     
    I tried to engage in an adult discussion with him before and all I get is childish name calling. Slut shaming, homophobic slurs, gross misquotes and ignorance. I am out of this conversation.
     
    And on top of that, Good grief with his veiled threat about the rumblings of the so many... How brave the coward becomes behind anonymity!
     
    On another thread I was told I am so open minded my brains will fall out... because I believe we all would benefit from being kinder to one another.
     
    Has the level of discourse in this forum really sunk to the levels of the commander in chief?
     
    You guys... You don't have to follow suit.
     
    Human rights are necessary for any civilization to thrive. Kindness and respect make life a better place. Anyone, by the mere practice of empathy can understand how important the rights of others are. These are basic truths.
     
    None of this should even be on the table. And no, there's no "merrits" (SIC) to both sides of every argument. Putting jews (or gays or muslims or japanese) in a concentration camp is wrong. Period. ALL humans deserve basic rights. Period. There is no automatic achievement or merit on the fact that you concocted a monstrous franken-opinion.
     
    It's sad that the kind and polite members barely ever post. But now I remember why.
     
    May you all find happiness. Best wishes!
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    Juan Vancouver reacted to + José Soplanucas in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    I never questioned anyone's right to have an opinion, or to be a racist or a bigot. But as I said before, they need to man up and accept to be called a racist or a bigot. One thing is fighting for your rights, and another whining because you are losing your privileges.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from LivingnLA in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    My man, I am in all earnestness trying to respond as an adult, but of course... you are only giving me an emotional name-calling attack with very little information to address.
     
    I am assuming you are loosely paraphrasing me but hard as I try, I can't find where you could have thought I am saying "Yuck to women yet I may say gorse(SIC)".
     
    I am at a loss.
     
    Could you please post a direct quote of me saying Yuck to women but I might say gorse? I am not even sure what is it that you think I said. Only when I read what you are talking about will I be able to either explain what I wrote, make an apology or stand by it.
     

     
    How intensively intent you seem to be on categorically state I am gay, not bi... almost as if by asserting that, you could incontrovertibly make a clear assessment of my moral worth.
     
    Trying to equate heterosexuality as a clear proof of moral superiority in a mainly gay website...
     
    Yeah, someone does sound like a four year old.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from beachboy in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    My man, I am in all earnestness trying to respond as an adult, but of course... you are only giving me an emotional name-calling attack with very little information to address.
     
    I am assuming you are loosely paraphrasing me but hard as I try, I can't find where you could have thought I am saying "Yuck to women yet I may say gorse(SIC)".
     
    I am at a loss.
     
    Could you please post a direct quote of me saying Yuck to women but I might say gorse? I am not even sure what is it that you think I said. Only when I read what you are talking about will I be able to either explain what I wrote, make an apology or stand by it.
     

     
    How intensively intent you seem to be on categorically state I am gay, not bi... almost as if by asserting that, you could incontrovertibly make a clear assessment of my moral worth.
     
    Trying to equate heterosexuality as a clear proof of moral superiority in a mainly gay website...
     
    Yeah, someone does sound like a four year old.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from LivingnLA in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    No offence taken. I am proud of my ass and very happy with the way I am willing to share it with others.
     
    However, opening a rebuttal trying to invalidate my arguments because I am sexually promiscuous and gay (and possible an escort) is akin to trying to invalidate Hillary Clinton calling her a Ho. It's not an argument.
     
    I feel touched that you are sure I am a good guy and all, and I am not in the least bit hurt by your crass attempt of slut shaming. So let's get to your points.
     

     
    Again, misogyny is not an opinion and the word whore is what I found the least offensive on your posts. I am glad you recognized it was poor wording, but regardless of how elegantly you word it, misogyny is fucking ugly and bordering on pathological.
     
    You can put lipstick on a pig...
     
    When I read that you mistrust the majority of women I only feel compassion for you. Life must be really hard. But that doesn't allow you to present your own emotional trauma as a valid opinion. All I can say to that is that you should perhaps seek professional help. There are many different forms of therapy that would ease this and make your life a much better place.
     

     
    Yes, it is possible my paragraph lacks clarity. Let me explain. First I said that you were expressing misogyny. Then I said that anyone who publicly extolls a flawed ideology, such as (but not exclusively) misogyny, racism, homophobia, etc, should expect to be corrected by the general population, who thankfully, nowadays is more enlightened than before.
     
    I didn't call you a homophobe or a racist. I don't know if you are. But I do know you are a textbook misogyne.
    I am glad you gave me an opportunity to clarify my point.
     

     
    Again no offence taken.
     
    First of, you have absolutely no idea whether I am bisexual or have had (or have) romantic relationships with women. But who cares!
     
    Secondly, and infinitely more important, I don't need to fuck lady's(SIC), like them or have direct relationships with them to know they deserve one hundred percent equal rights and respect as men do.
     
    I am not black, nor asian, nor muslim, nor Syrian, and I am more than ready to fight for their rights. I am more than ready to fight for what is just and human. By the mere action of empathy I can -without having been in Syria- incontrovertibly know that the civil population there deserves to live lives unencumbered by war and genocide.
     
    It's the act of putting oneself in the shoes of the other and trying to imagine what they go through. Its basic human decency. It's the absolute minimum one can bring to the table when interacting with others.
     
    Again -through empathy- I put myself in your shoes and I can imagine that life must really suck if you are constantly on the defensive towards half of the human race. There is no need you should continue living like this; seek help, man. This is not an attack, it's a heartfelt suggestion. I promise that once you deal with this, life will be so much more exciting, more fun, more filled with opportunities to be present, caring and loving towards a much bigger sphere of human beings than you originally though possible. Life is really awesome!
     
    Sending you a big hug and lots of love.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + WmClarke in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    No offence taken. I am proud of my ass and very happy with the way I am willing to share it with others.
     
    However, opening a rebuttal trying to invalidate my arguments because I am sexually promiscuous and gay (and possible an escort) is akin to trying to invalidate Hillary Clinton calling her a Ho. It's not an argument.
     
    I feel touched that you are sure I am a good guy and all, and I am not in the least bit hurt by your crass attempt of slut shaming. So let's get to your points.
     

     
    Again, misogyny is not an opinion and the word whore is what I found the least offensive on your posts. I am glad you recognized it was poor wording, but regardless of how elegantly you word it, misogyny is fucking ugly and bordering on pathological.
     
    You can put lipstick on a pig...
     
    When I read that you mistrust the majority of women I only feel compassion for you. Life must be really hard. But that doesn't allow you to present your own emotional trauma as a valid opinion. All I can say to that is that you should perhaps seek professional help. There are many different forms of therapy that would ease this and make your life a much better place.
     

     
    Yes, it is possible my paragraph lacks clarity. Let me explain. First I said that you were expressing misogyny. Then I said that anyone who publicly extolls a flawed ideology, such as (but not exclusively) misogyny, racism, homophobia, etc, should expect to be corrected by the general population, who thankfully, nowadays is more enlightened than before.
     
    I didn't call you a homophobe or a racist. I don't know if you are. But I do know you are a textbook misogyne.
    I am glad you gave me an opportunity to clarify my point.
     

     
    Again no offence taken.
     
    First of, you have absolutely no idea whether I am bisexual or have had (or have) romantic relationships with women. But who cares!
     
    Secondly, and infinitely more important, I don't need to fuck lady's(SIC), like them or have direct relationships with them to know they deserve one hundred percent equal rights and respect as men do.
     
    I am not black, nor asian, nor muslim, nor Syrian, and I am more than ready to fight for their rights. I am more than ready to fight for what is just and human. By the mere action of empathy I can -without having been in Syria- incontrovertibly know that the civil population there deserves to live lives unencumbered by war and genocide.
     
    It's the act of putting oneself in the shoes of the other and trying to imagine what they go through. Its basic human decency. It's the absolute minimum one can bring to the table when interacting with others.
     
    Again -through empathy- I put myself in your shoes and I can imagine that life must really suck if you are constantly on the defensive towards half of the human race. There is no need you should continue living like this; seek help, man. This is not an attack, it's a heartfelt suggestion. I promise that once you deal with this, life will be so much more exciting, more fun, more filled with opportunities to be present, caring and loving towards a much bigger sphere of human beings than you originally though possible. Life is really awesome!
     
    Sending you a big hug and lots of love.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from beachboy in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    No offence taken. I am proud of my ass and very happy with the way I am willing to share it with others.
     
    However, opening a rebuttal trying to invalidate my arguments because I am sexually promiscuous and gay (and possible an escort) is akin to trying to invalidate Hillary Clinton calling her a Ho. It's not an argument.
     
    I feel touched that you are sure I am a good guy and all, and I am not in the least bit hurt by your crass attempt of slut shaming. So let's get to your points.
     

     
    Again, misogyny is not an opinion and the word whore is what I found the least offensive on your posts. I am glad you recognized it was poor wording, but regardless of how elegantly you word it, misogyny is fucking ugly and bordering on pathological.
     
    You can put lipstick on a pig...
     
    When I read that you mistrust the majority of women I only feel compassion for you. Life must be really hard. But that doesn't allow you to present your own emotional trauma as a valid opinion. All I can say to that is that you should perhaps seek professional help. There are many different forms of therapy that would ease this and make your life a much better place.
     

     
    Yes, it is possible my paragraph lacks clarity. Let me explain. First I said that you were expressing misogyny. Then I said that anyone who publicly extolls a flawed ideology, such as (but not exclusively) misogyny, racism, homophobia, etc, should expect to be corrected by the general population, who thankfully, nowadays is more enlightened than before.
     
    I didn't call you a homophobe or a racist. I don't know if you are. But I do know you are a textbook misogyne.
    I am glad you gave me an opportunity to clarify my point.
     

     
    Again no offence taken.
     
    First of, you have absolutely no idea whether I am bisexual or have had (or have) romantic relationships with women. But who cares!
     
    Secondly, and infinitely more important, I don't need to fuck lady's(SIC), like them or have direct relationships with them to know they deserve one hundred percent equal rights and respect as men do.
     
    I am not black, nor asian, nor muslim, nor Syrian, and I am more than ready to fight for their rights. I am more than ready to fight for what is just and human. By the mere action of empathy I can -without having been in Syria- incontrovertibly know that the civil population there deserves to live lives unencumbered by war and genocide.
     
    It's the act of putting oneself in the shoes of the other and trying to imagine what they go through. Its basic human decency. It's the absolute minimum one can bring to the table when interacting with others.
     
    Again -through empathy- I put myself in your shoes and I can imagine that life must really suck if you are constantly on the defensive towards half of the human race. There is no need you should continue living like this; seek help, man. This is not an attack, it's a heartfelt suggestion. I promise that once you deal with this, life will be so much more exciting, more fun, more filled with opportunities to be present, caring and loving towards a much bigger sphere of human beings than you originally though possible. Life is really awesome!
     
    Sending you a big hug and lots of love.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from LivingnLA in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    MGTOW_Tx, I completely disagree; you are not entitled to "your opinion" because Misogyny is not an opinion. Misogyny is more akin to a character flaw or mental condition than an opinion. Whenever anyone in a public arena overtly expresses misogyny, sexism, racism, homophobia, etc, he/she should know that people will come against them and correct their thwarted views.
     
    Most people understand that the offender has very little chance to be schooled, but if we come in defence of what is right is to make sure the quality of the discourse remains respectful, true, humane.
     
    Demonizing an entire gender, blaming them for a conspiracy to control you, belittling them with derogatory terms, minimizing their very serious plights and demanding people stop giving air time to solving those problems and start focusing on problems that affect you, is not an opinion, is a deplorable attack on the human condition; the female human condition and that of everyone who reads what you write and stay silent.
     
    Want to express your hatred? Go right ahead, just know we can't and won't stay silent.
     
    Dude, it's 2017. It's time to get on the right side of history. I know you can do this.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from beachboy in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    MGTOW_Tx, I completely disagree; you are not entitled to "your opinion" because Misogyny is not an opinion. Misogyny is more akin to a character flaw or mental condition than an opinion. Whenever anyone in a public arena overtly expresses misogyny, sexism, racism, homophobia, etc, he/she should know that people will come against them and correct their thwarted views.
     
    Most people understand that the offender has very little chance to be schooled, but if we come in defence of what is right is to make sure the quality of the discourse remains respectful, true, humane.
     
    Demonizing an entire gender, blaming them for a conspiracy to control you, belittling them with derogatory terms, minimizing their very serious plights and demanding people stop giving air time to solving those problems and start focusing on problems that affect you, is not an opinion, is a deplorable attack on the human condition; the female human condition and that of everyone who reads what you write and stay silent.
     
    Want to express your hatred? Go right ahead, just know we can't and won't stay silent.
     
    Dude, it's 2017. It's time to get on the right side of history. I know you can do this.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from mike carey in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    Thank you, LivingnLA, I was going to quote exactly those three excerpts and make very similar points.
     
    What a disgusting way of looking at the world!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from hornytwells in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    Thank you, LivingnLA, I was going to quote exactly those three excerpts and make very similar points.
     
    What a disgusting way of looking at the world!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    Thank you, LivingnLA, I was going to quote exactly those three excerpts and make very similar points.
     
    What a disgusting way of looking at the world!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from LivingnLA in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    Thank you, LivingnLA, I was going to quote exactly those three excerpts and make very similar points.
     
    What a disgusting way of looking at the world!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from beachboy in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    Thank you, LivingnLA, I was going to quote exactly those three excerpts and make very similar points.
     
    What a disgusting way of looking at the world!
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    Juan Vancouver reacted to LivingnLA in A New Way to Combat "Manspreading"   
    @MGTOW_Tx, are you intentionally trying to be provocative or are you a troll? Each of the following 3 posts by you have deeply sexist and misogynistic language in them. Why?
     

     
    Please dial down your woman-hating. Nothing in the article or video has anything to do with "manspreading." And even if they did, what's with the hostile language?
     

     
    What?! There's nothing in the article or video that expresses "disgust for men" or tries to "shame men for being a man." Unless, you're suggesting sexual harassment and assault are part of being "a man?" Because if that's your argument, you're full of BS. Real men treat women with respect and consideration. We don't need to or want to abuse them, harass them, or assault them. We recognize they are human beings just like us and deserve equal consideration and treatment.
     

     
    "Whores?!" Are you kidding? You must be a troll. There are no reliable statistics one way or the other. As statisticians say, these are "dark numbers" because our society is terrible about tracking, report, and measuring sexual harassment and assault, let alone the number of those reports that may be retracted for a whole host of reasons. Further, we know from decent studies that sexual harassment and assault are grossly under-reported because women--and men--who are victimized face crazy hostility and disbelief from people like you.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from SteveStacks in Responses when you ask for a '3-fingered selfie'.   
    I don't send pictures of my face, but if anyone asked me to take specific pictures to appease them, I would pass without any further ado.
     
    I put a lot of effort in creating a clear image of who I am, supporting a strong positive presence and a long list of reviews. Personally, I am not much for jumping through hoops.
     
    Now, if you are about to hire an escort whose ad appears to be a scam, I guess thats an entirely different thing.
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    Juan Vancouver reacted to Kevin Slater in Sex and Violins   
    I don't think sex and violence should be marketed together. It's not a message we should be sending to our impressionable youth.
     
    http://67.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnw23cUZb71qbjc7fo1_1280.png
     
    Kevin Slater
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    Juan Vancouver reacted to marylander1940 in An athlete is going to jail for rape? April Fools?   
    California governor OKs sex crime bill tied to Stanford case
     
    https://www.yahoo.com/news/california-governor-oks-sex-crime-bill-tied-stanford-184258933--spt.html
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from marylander1940 in An athlete is going to jail for rape? April Fools?   
    Yes, I get how you feel, but there is actually something you can do to steer this crazy boat in the right direction.
     
    Click on the link that FTM_TWINK shared and let the judicial system how you feel.
     
    It's people being privately outraged at home what keeps this system going.
     
    Rage baby! RAGE!
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from + glennnn in An athlete is going to jail for rape? April Fools?   
    Yes, I get how you feel, but there is actually something you can do to steer this crazy boat in the right direction.
     
    Click on the link that FTM_TWINK shared and let the judicial system how you feel.
     
    It's people being privately outraged at home what keeps this system going.
     
    Rage baby! RAGE!
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    Juan Vancouver reacted to rvwnsd in Job Interview: How much is too much truth?   
    I think you need to do what is right for you. If your openness causes an employer to take a pass on hiring you then that employer is probably not a good fit for you.
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    Juan Vancouver reacted to corymonroe in Speedo Boy No More   
    This thread kind of proves the better looking you are, especially in a Speedo, the easier the judgment, the quicker the forgiveness.
     
    He slandered the host country during one of the world's most important international events and used a stereotype to support his lie. On top of that, he disgraced his teammates and his country. He gave credence to the pejorative "ugly American." In the end, none of it was necessary. I'm not sure how any of you define stupid and selfish, but…
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from rvwnsd in Speedo Boy No More   
    I don't know in your country, but in the rest of the world having a drunk gang vandalizing private property , challenging law enforcement and bribing law enforcement are crimes. Unless, of course, it is true that in your country fast swimming athletes get a -literally- out of jail card just because they have swam fast.
     
    Or... getting drunk with your friends and destroying a bathroom is normal there? Or is it only permissible if you are white?
     
    Sober men of colour in your country have been killed on the spot for doing nothing, yet you are recommending what, for this white, privileged, man-child...?
     
    A slap on the wrist...
     
    I find this very confusing.
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    Juan Vancouver got a reaction from AndreFuture in Speedo Boy No More   
    I don't know in your country, but in the rest of the world having a drunk gang vandalizing private property , challenging law enforcement and bribing law enforcement are crimes. Unless, of course, it is true that in your country fast swimming athletes get a -literally- out of jail card just because they have swam fast.
     
    Or... getting drunk with your friends and destroying a bathroom is normal there? Or is it only permissible if you are white?
     
    Sober men of colour in your country have been killed on the spot for doing nothing, yet you are recommending what, for this white, privileged, man-child...?
     
    A slap on the wrist...
     
    I find this very confusing.
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