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Gee do all of you belong to the same mean girls club at your "all girls " Catholic School?   
My understanding was that the posts where moderated and I wanted to avoid any issues with terms of service violations hence the term "orally submissive".   
Thank you to those who messaged me directly and provided leads including personal  experiences

There's a couple of providers I have regular repeats with, sometimes they rate 10 sometimes they rate a 5.  And I would say all of that is not on the provider I own about 50% of that myself. I've learned that my expectations cannot be centered around any previous hot experience and I have to focus on the here and now in that current experience. These guys know my preferences, I know their limits.   Not getting erect happens, not being able to shoot happens.  That's not going to prompt me to ask for a discount.  I always make sure they know I respect them as a person despite the transactional nature of our encounter.  
Luckily I've not had the situation where the persons appearance /age/ vitals did not match IRL. I agree with some other posters on here that I would express my disappointment respectfully in that situation and offer to pay a portion of the fee and cut them loose. 
Some of us have unreasonable expectations and are just plain jerks to these providers.  No need for that. People want to do business with someone respectful. 

Gee do all of you belong to the same mean girls club at your "all girls " Catholic School?   
My understanding was that the posts where moderated and I wanted to avoid any issues with terms of service violations hence the term "orally submissive".   
Thank you to those who messaged me directly and provided leads including personal  experiences

He looks like a retired tailor from Pikesville 

Gee do all of you belong to the same mean girls club at your "all girls " Catholic School?   
My understanding was that the posts where moderated and I wanted to avoid any issues with terms of service violations hence the term "orally submissive".   
Thank you to those who messaged me directly and provided leads including personal  experiences

Any suggestions for Mid-Atlantic area or Northeast?

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

Hearing that there are a lot of big dicks in DC isn't exactly a surprise.

Where are you located?

I thought about that,  not seeing any one local that would be on par physically and appearance wise for what I am looking for in a bear/Chub type.  My role will be more voyeur in the 3 way.   TBH I am looking for a "3" or "4"  to interact with my provider friend who is a solid "9". The appearance disparity is a huge turn on for me 
 

Any escorts out there are experienced and good at prostate massage. Not into bottoming here but prostate play done right really blows my load

I like having a small circle of regulars (3 to 4), and I rarely have regulars that I actively drop. Various reasons why it ends:
1.  Provider quits the business altogether.
2. Provider moves to another city.
3. Sadly, death one time.
4. Providers changes the parameters of meeting. (For instance, one guy I like a lot wants a week's notice. I'm just not in a position to offer that. Another's price doubled. I just couldn't afford that steep an increase). 

5. Sometimes there's just a drifting away with no real reason.
Now I have deliberately quit reaching out to a few who radically changed what's on offer or stood me up several times in a row or got mad because I met with other providers. But usually if I'm a regular with someone and then I'm not, it's usually a change on the provider's end, not mine.

A married friend of mine who has a LEO background contacted me about an escort I had recommended.  Unbeknownst to me apparently this escort was convicted of drug related felony and went to prison.  Seems he was released within in the last 3 years. My friend provided proof.  Frankly I was shocked he in no way seemed to be that type of person.  I have other friends that I have recommended to him.  No big issues other than the typical not always being responsive etc.  Am I obligated to inform my friends I gave the recommendation to for this escort

Assuming your LEO friend was able to look up this information in a manner available to anyone, I'd say nothing.
If your LEO friend is using information systems in an unauthorized manner -- in other words, using his position at work to look up information about people when he has no business reason to do so -- you might want to remind him that he's putting himself at risk and that you don't want information gained in that manner shared with you.

"Drug related offense" is way too vague.
If he got arrested for using drugs, ignore it. They should all be legal anyway. 
But if he hurt/robbed/raped someone while high....you get the idea.
Like @APPLE1said, it's public record. Don't tell anyone unless it's something serious. 

He goes to my gym.   Muscular yes,  bodybuilder no.    I would add 10 years to the posted age.   

I met with him  this past June,   great body was able to pull off the fetish /fantasy I wanted.   Somewhat  "scatter brained"   with  scheduling  took several  attempts  to confirm an  appointment over the course of a week.   Kept me waiting in the lobby of his building 45 minutes  to  "get ready"  after our agreed upon appt  time and day. 

If  the  picture of  him sipping a cocktail from a pineapple is any indication ,  maybe he should  change his name

I  wish  Chris  Duffy was still working.  Cool man ,   with a  brain and a dick