I agree with Myophile here. I want a hot experience and feeling of physical connection with an escort. I want to fanatasize. I don't pretend he's really going to be into me. So I don't worry about it. It's about the fantasy. I've had great experiences with gay and straight. I usually like to kiss so that can be a deal breaker if the escort doesn't kiss. Some str8 escorts are great kissers and some gay escorts make kissing off limits. So, for me, I'm not real concerned what the escort does in his "real" life.