PhoenixKing

In my experience every single Indian and Persian was rapey to the point where I could have filed a legit police report.
I guess in their cultures, a masseur is a whore and isn't allowed to say no. 
 
With Asians it's hit or miss, usually the ones born in the USA aren't as aggressive as the older guys who were born elsewhere. 
As for ages, men under 25 are flakey and men over 60 are problematic because they're often really aggressive too, manipulative, and/or really depressing to be around because they're really sad and lonely.

Maybe I was lucky in that I think I hired him not long after he started doing massage, but I found him to be a pleasant person.
I'm curious as to the "lecture" after the orgasm.  I assume that his intent was to convey information he thought could benefit the client, like a change in diet or something might enhance someone's pleasure?  Was it the actual information he provided that felt insulting, or the way that information was delivered, or what?

OK if he is such a legit only masseur why adam4adam there are plenty of sites to advertise out there that are more geared to legit masseurs. I don't even like the phrase "legit masseurs." In my mind a happy ending or sensual elements does not delegitimize anyone.

When you encounter masseurs like this it is better to just stop the communication the MOMENT they start getting weird. I would have just stopped all communication after he blocked you. The guy was weird, so what sense is there in pursuing/engaging him by texting him? You are not going to use his services anyway,and do not need to justify or explain yourself to him. Best in these situations to just move on.

Ditto, thank you very much for your honesty and transparency.

Hey guys , it’s Ragin.
 
I’ve seen messages inquiring what happened to me so I just wanted to let past clients in NYC know that I never stopped giving massages.
 
I left SMS because of time constraints. I’m in the process of launching a software startup with some friends, so that’s where most of my time goes these days. However I still give outcall massages (and bring my own table).
 
I’d like to make it clear that I don’t offer extra services though. No offense or judgement to those who do, it’s just not for me. I’ve been massaging for 5 years now. When I first really got into it I was homeless in LA and many many guys (usually older) tried to pressure me into providing extras in exchange for food/housing/extra money/etc. Most became disrespectful when I’d decline.
 
I know a lot of lgbt youth (especially foreigners) who’ve fallen into unhealthy lifestyles because of these types of pressures. This has always left a bitter taste in my mouth (no pun intended lol) because I have a soft spot for our community, especially the youth. So long story short, I just prefer to keep professional work and private fun separate. Hopefully that’s understandable to most.
 
Anyway this has gotten long-winded so I’ll just say that my massages are as great as ever and still sensual without being sexual. I think most of my old reviews spoke to that fact. As long as you’re respectful and don’t approach me in a rude or entitled manner, you’ll get a friendly disposition and awesome massage.
 
If that works for you, I can be booked at
fitguymassage.com
(^hopefully this doesn’t count as advertising lol)
 
Or just message me here or on IG or Twitter under the same username.

It's kind of funny (well, to me at least). I've been seeing all these thread about this guy or that guy, and most of them have been these very muscular, hairy guys, and mostly older, as in late 30's to 50's I'd guess. I kept thinking "nope, not interested" because I'm more interested in smooth, thin guys in their 20's. Instead of being judgmental and saying how gross these older, hairy guys are in the other threads, I thought - hey, people like what they like and we all have different tastes. No need to rain on their parade. I guess I was wrong. I should have called them names and talked down to them for not liking the same type of guys that I like. Who knew?

Sigh.
You are judgmental of physical appearances.
You are judgmental of people's preferences.
You are not actually providing any useful information.
You refuse to ever acknowledge or you pretend not to understand the other side's argument, as in here: https://www.companyofmen.org/posts/1533913/.
You are intellectually dishonest.
 
You are blocked. I will never have to see a single one of your dishonest posts.
 
Ahhhh. Better.
I recommend everyone do the same.

If you think your comment was fair game, then next time you discuss a masseur that you like, I’ll be commenting:
 
“He looks like my grandfather a week before he died, total turn off (unless you are a necrophile).”
 
We’ll see how you like it.

Then don’t hire him. Who is forcing you to comment on people’s physical appearance?

They are a drama queen works for me.
 
Just as 'You are a stud' defies grammar but works.

It's not new, if you read back through the thread, this has already been discussed. The singular they has been used by good writers for hundreds of years.

Why sign something so unpleasant, tone-deaf, and judgmental with “hugs” ?

I don't understand why using people's preferred pronouns (she, he or they) is any more of a big deal than calling them by the correct name or by pronouncing their name correctly. To do otherwise is to insist on your imposing your gender politics on them. I don't see the difference between that and refusing to recognize homosexuality or same-sex relationships.
 
Btw, Mike hinted at it, but singular "they" has been used by writers for centuries. He mentioned Shakespeare, but I believe I've seen examples from Chaucer.
 
Also there is no reason why "you" can't be used. The issue is what pronoun to use to refer to a specific individual when addressing another person, when "you" wouldn't be appropriate.

Technically correct, of course, but languages don't follow grammar rules (much as the Académie française might wish), and what is accepted usage changes over time. You moved from being plural to covering the singular as well so there's no reason that they won't also do that transition. I doubt it will, because it's been an accepted usage at least as far back as Shakespeare without the 'rule' changing. (Of course there already is a non-gendered third person singular pronoun that is in universal use, but for some reason people are reluctant to use it to refer to a person.)

While I would initially refer to someone as "he" or "she" based upon how I perceived they wish to be seen, if they expressed a desire or comfort with being referred to as "they" I would have no issue with this.
 
I'm not understanding why that's such an inconvenience for people. Gender, like most things in life is not binary, nor should it be viewed in such a dualistic manner. A dualistic approach to life, that is putting everything in a category of this or that, right or wrong, gay or straight, for me/against me, is the cause for conflict, war, prejudice, etc. While it's perfectly natural, it's also not an evolved way of thinking, and we should strive for better.
 
You can view people that are non-binary as just wanting to be special and inconvenience you with their special pronoun, or you can believe them, support them and love them.

That is so strange and fucked up. Sorry hun!

Good riddance. He never took escorting seriously.
 
~Boomer~

Ryan Rose has always thought very highly of himself. There’s no denying his incredible good looks. But his personality is the polar opposite. He has to be the most conceited model in gay porn. I could barely watch his porn scenes as they were so dull most of the time.

Ok yes, beautiful man to look at no denying, but it kills me when these guys makes these "pronouncements" like they're Greta Garbo or Anna Wintour or something lol. WHO gives a sh@t???? And yes, as someone said, 9 out of 10 times they'll be back when they need the $$$ and if not there's 9 or 10 behind them to take their place:rolleyes:
*the ones who truly keep things in perspective - that they did porn to make some dough and got a little fame in that tiny niche - are the ones who simply disappear into the night and move on with their lives.

Hi guys, Adam Wayne here. It seems like MF.com shit the bed lately (prob in response to sesta nonsense). They removed the video function and have made sweeping changes for us masseurs in limiting how we present ourselves. That said, I started pondering other avenues of networking and remembered this forum that FMG told me about back in LA. His review really helped my business, so I figured it couldn't hurt to become somewhat active on here. I've been in DC for the last two weeks and will be in NYC from May through July (east village). Feel free to ask any questions, but before you do maybe check out my website first. Cheers, Adam

I'd really appreciate a report! Feel free to PM if easier. I have some time on Friday so I'm considering him.
 
Thanks.

Oh. My. God. Adam is amazing. Might be the best massage of my life. True story. Gonna write a review later. Nude MT and HE. Gave %1000. Back cracking. Limb stretching. And what a kind, sweet, welcoming soul. And hot as fuck. Amazing equipment. Wish I’d seen him sooner. Wow. Just wow.

Here's my experience
http://mymassagereviews.blogspot.com/2018/02/adam-wayne-917-722-1710-best-massage.html?zx=5afc8afbf84000d8

Even though he is not usually my type If he gets the FMG seal of approval he immediately goes on my list.