FTM Zachary Prince

I haven't sucked hundreds of guys, but over the years I've explored this interest, I've noticed that each guy is pretty unique.
 
Some guys love hard suction. Some like soft licks. A few guys really like a "soft" suction. Some like making you gag. Some enjoy facefucking. Some want to see your eyes or watch as their dick penetrates your mouth. Some don't want to look at your at all. Some like wet sloppy head and others want it fast and rough.
 
If you want to become a better cocksucker, learn to be a better observer. Learn to tell when a guy is excited and when he isn't. If you want, ask your top for tips, coaching, or advice, but understand that once you become a master cocksucker for that top, you will have to repeat the process for the next top. All that changes, is you'll get better and better and faster at observing what works for the guy you're sucking at the time.
 
I agree with [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], enthusiasm is a big factor because many people suck cock like it's an obligation. To me, it's a privilege or honor. A guy is allowing you to touch the most sensitive part of his body and place it in your mouth, which is dangerous, teeth are sharp after all.

Also, periodically look up at your partner so he can gaze into your cocksucking eyes. Also, use your free hand to play with his balls or tweak his nipples...
 
Also, a twisting motion with your mouth from tip to shaft really gets my guys going...

THIS! I advertise on half a dozen different escort platforms. I have multiple other streams of income besides escorting, which also involve communication. I do not have a receptionist or an assistant to check my “email” (note: internal messaging, not actually email) on every single website where I advertise. I absolutely insist that all of my appointment requests (from NEW clients) must come streamlined through one form of contact. I do not have time, when I need to double check what is the address for the Outcall, to search through my email, Twitter DMs, rentmen messages, and text inbox trying to figure out which platform my client used to send it to me. All the information in one place is a MUST for me. I receive dozens of messages every single day and I need all the serious inquiries in one place or I simply cannot keep track of them. Most escorts who insist on one particular form of contact probably feel the same. I think most clients have no idea how overwhelming it is to deal with dozens of inquiries a day, the majority of which are just jerkoffs looking for free attention, and then to also try to keep track of where your serious inquiries are spread across multiple methods of contact.
 
Plus tons of time wasters like to DM on every single platform with no intention of booking. It takes a lot more effort to open my website, read my booking requirements, and come correctly with a detailed appointment request by email than it does to send a DM on this forum, rentmen, twitter, or any of the other numberous sites where I advertise. I want to see my potential clients jumping thru a hoop or two to prove to me that they are serious about booking me before I dedicate my valuable time to responding. I’m not the type of escort that people book out of CONVENIENCE, hence stressing myself out to keep maximum forms of contact available to accept bookings is NOT a priority for me. The clients who end up as my long-term, repeat clients generally find something unique about me that makes them willing to jump through a hoop or two in order to meet me. That is who I choose to focus my attention on servicing. If someone is ready to move on to the next escort because I don’t accept appointments by text message, then so be it. I will wait for the client who is happy to adhere to my preferences because he respects that I have booking policies for a good reason.

THIS! I advertise on half a dozen different escort platforms. I have multiple other streams of income besides escorting, which also involve communication. I do not have a receptionist or an assistant to check my “email” (note: internal messaging, not actually email) on every single website where I advertise. I absolutely insist that all of my appointment requests (from NEW clients) must come streamlined through one form of contact. I do not have time, when I need to double check what is the address for the Outcall, to search through my email, Twitter DMs, rentmen messages, and text inbox trying to figure out which platform my client used to send it to me. All the information in one place is a MUST for me. I receive dozens of messages every single day and I need all the serious inquiries in one place or I simply cannot keep track of them. Most escorts who insist on one particular form of contact probably feel the same. I think most clients have no idea how overwhelming it is to deal with dozens of inquiries a day, the majority of which are just jerkoffs looking for free attention, and then to also try to keep track of where your serious inquiries are spread across multiple methods of contact.
 
Plus tons of time wasters like to DM on every single platform with no intention of booking. It takes a lot more effort to open my website, read my booking requirements, and come correctly with a detailed appointment request by email than it does to send a DM on this forum, rentmen, twitter, or any of the other numberous sites where I advertise. I want to see my potential clients jumping thru a hoop or two to prove to me that they are serious about booking me before I dedicate my valuable time to responding. I’m not the type of escort that people book out of CONVENIENCE, hence stressing myself out to keep maximum forms of contact available to accept bookings is NOT a priority for me. The clients who end up as my long-term, repeat clients generally find something unique about me that makes them willing to jump through a hoop or two in order to meet me. That is who I choose to focus my attention on servicing. If someone is ready to move on to the next escort because I don’t accept appointments by text message, then so be it. I will wait for the client who is happy to adhere to my preferences because he respects that I have booking policies for a good reason.

Maybe start a new thread about this. There are numberous expenses involved in escorting and I’m not in the mood to draw up a comprehensive list on my own. I kind of feel like you’re being intellectually lazy, too. There are some blatantly obvious operational expenses that every small business owner has to deal with. Perhaps google could help you learn about those. If you think every escort is a college boy stuffing cash under his mattress and that our clients magically find us for free with no financial investments on our part, then you’re really in some kind of unrealistic fantasy-land... that’s simply not how it works.

Nope but done quite a lot of goat milking. I was surprised to learn that I’m very good with goats. Who knew?

Yes, it’s common. Like Drew said, just mention it in your advertisement.
 
Some escorts even require deposits for ALL sessions. That is not common, tho. Many escorts do require deposits for all sessions over 2/3/6 hours tho. Not only for overnights. So it’s up to you which lengths of bookings you want to require deposits for.

Yes, it’s common. Like Drew said, just mention it in your advertisement.
 
Some escorts even require deposits for ALL sessions. That is not common, tho. Many escorts do require deposits for all sessions over 2/3/6 hours tho. Not only for overnights. So it’s up to you which lengths of bookings you want to require deposits for.

LOL @ anyone who thinks escorts base our pricing for companionship on mainstream society’s ideas about who is attractive and who is an “ogre”. You have some seriously wrong ideas about what it takes to succeed as an escort. People who are that shallow don’t last long in this industry. We charge for our time and companionship. Plain and simple. Whether you’re an ogre, an elf, a faerie, a hobbit, a troll, a bear or a fox. Just be over the age of 18... and leave your ego about your “non-ogre” status at the door.
 
If you really think that the majority of our clients are seriously ugly and that you’re some kind of special snowflake for being normal-looking, you have some internalized issues to work through... We charge for our time because it’s valuable and we are providing a service. And because living under capitalism requires money, and sexual entertainers/healers deserve to earn well and live comfortably if we are talented at our jobs. Not because our clients are ugly. The value of our companionship service don’t decrease just because you consider yourself to be better looking than average.

To handle the flight booking, you can price the flight on Southwest.com and then have the client send you a digital Southwest gift card so that you can book the flight yourself. All he needs is an email address to send it to. And it doesn’t even have to be the same email address that your Southwest.com account is under. You will receive a gift card code that can be used to book your tickets. I would personally never let a client book them for me, because they could always cancel the return ticket and leave me stranded somewhere. Of course most clients wouldn’t, but SOME clients do the wackiest things sometimes! Better safe than sorry!

Everyone’s expectations vary. Its really best for you to ask the escort who you’d like to hire for travel. I definitely know some escorts who require business class flights for anything over 6 hours. I personally only require business class flight bookings when I’m traveling for 10 hours or more, internationally, and there is no direct flight available. I book all my own flights tho, so I explain my expectations to each client on a case by case basis and quote the total amount required to make the trip happen. Booking Amount. Travel Costs. Deposit amount. Balance amount.
 
For me, deposit amount is half the booking plus the full amount of travel costs in advance. So if for example the value of the booking is $3000, and the cost of the round trip flight is going to be $767, I might round up to $800 to account for flight price fluctuations and misc airport costs, and quote the full cost of the booking at $3800. I would require $2300 as a deposit (half the booking fee plus the total cost of travel), and the balance owed by the client at the time of our meeting would be $1500. This is broken down and explained as clearly to my clients as I’ve explained it here, each and every time I receive a serious inquiry for a booking that requires me to travel.
 
Most experienced escorts who travel will similarly have their own expectations in mind and be prepared to communicate them with you.

I feel like I get hired for my ability to teach all the time! But not to improve “performance”. I teach men how to receive penetration and connect with their prostates in a smooth, seductive, pleasureful and pain-free manner. How to relax into the absolute earthquake that is one’s first prostate orgasm. How to take a fist for the first time. Etc. I dunno if any of those are considered “performance upgrades”, but guys sure are thrilled with me for being able to teach them! My ability to teach these things is probably my strongest asset as an escort, along with my ability to make people feel comfortable very quickly.

Yup. But it’s generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients.

An advance deposit is a standard ask for travel bookings. Typically 50% of the total. You can have clients mail blank money orders to you in a magazine and fill the name in yourself. You can also ask him to buy Vanilla Visa gift cards, which you can use to pay bills online or convert into real money using PayPal. I don’t recommend accepting PayPal directly from clients, ever. Not only will they see your full legal name when they send you the money, but they can also reverse the transaction months down the line, well after you have delivered service. And PayPal will ban YOU for life. Escorts are not allowed to use their service at all, and even the accusation of being an escort can get you banned. Thus it’s much safer to never share your PayPal account with a client directly. Instead, ask for pre-paid gift cards. There are tricks to get the money off the cards and into your bank account for a small processing fee.
 
Feel free to “ask a lot” of any client who is asking you to fly across the country and spend a weekend with him. He is “asking a lot” too.
 
As a personal anecdote, one time a client flew me across the country to keep me up in Vegas for two days so he could sneak away once or twice a day while he was there on a boring trip with his family. He promised he would arrange my hotel and give me the details when I arrived. I reached the Vegas airport after a 3 hour flight and asked him which hotel I should head to. No answer... I desperately needed to replace my phone, so I headed to a shop to purchase one while I waited to hear from him. Still no answer... Finally another hour later, he emails me to say he needs to cancel! After I’ve already been in his city for two hours! I would have been devastated had I not taken a 50% deposit in advance for the session. But I was able to book my own hotel and not sweat too hard about losing money on the trip. Since he had ditched me, I posted last minute ads and snagged another client. And guess what? My original client ended up getting free the following day, I extended my trip by an extra night, and he ended up seeing me the next couple days and paid me the balance that he owed me for the full trip anyway. If I had not taken an advance deposit for that trip, can you imagine the pickle I might have been in? Taking advance deposits allows you to stay secure during your trip no matter what kinds of crazy emergencies or changes of plans may happen on the client’s end. And that can be very, very valuable. Last-minute changes DO unexpectedly happen, discretion-related needs sometime trump everything else, and having that deposit money in your possession can protect you from a lot. I take bookings without deposits, but I definitely never go out of my way to travel to a client without one. Keeps things simpler and drama-free.

Yeah in retrospect I can’t tell if he’s being innocently unknowing or deliberately disingenuous either. The combination of no profile pic, no identifying details as an escort on his profile, and my interpretation of tone made it seem disingenuous to me too. But maybe my responses were too harsh in tone. Regardless, the heart/truth of the matter is the same. Sorry to the OP if my tone was harsh, but I stand by the heart of what I’ve said.

People tell me that my legs are very manly. I have to admit I love them. I’m still early in my testosterone treatment. I should see a lot more hair growth starting next year. But my legs and ass are already sprouting full of hair even in this early phase. Makes me feel like I’m going to be a total furball on my lower half by a few years from now.
 
I love to wear shorts in public. I love it even more when people stare at my legs. Some people seem to get really horny seeing such a sweet, feminine looking guy with such muscular hairy legs!
 
Once on a long-distance train I was sitting opposite a guy in a corridor/vestibule on the floor, who started discreetly stroking my leg hairs. It was really hot. Eventually he ended up stroking my armpit hairs too. Amazing how sometimes the hottest encounters don’t even have to involve kissing or getting naked. I will never forget it!

Yeah in retrospect I can’t tell if he’s being innocently unknowing or deliberately disingenuous either. The combination of no profile pic, no identifying details as an escort on his profile, and my interpretation of tone made it seem disingenuous to me too. But maybe my responses were too harsh in tone. Regardless, the heart/truth of the matter is the same. Sorry to the OP if my tone was harsh, but I stand by the heart of what I’ve said.

You mentioned that the escort gave you a very good rate because you already have an established relationship online. That’s a very sweet gesture on his part. Sometimes escorts do this, because they want you to agree to the extended booking and want to make you feel special... and then regret it later. It’s not because we change our minds about you being very special after all. It’s just that getting paid less than our standard rates can bother us EVEN IF IT WAS OUR IDEA! Sometimes we are under economic pressure to get you to agree to the trip or simply feeling generous in the moment when we give the quote. Then oops, later we wish we hadn’t offered such a generous discount. I’m not saying everyone does this, but it’s a relatively COMMON story that I hear. This can make us reluctant to give our very best service or agree to repeat trips, just because of our subconscious irritation with ourselves for underquoting the value of our labor. Whether an escort has made a mistake in underquoting or completely knew what he was doing and quoted you an amount that he feels GREAT about is impossible to know, and probably depends on how experienced he is as an escort, among other factors.
 
What in the world does all this have to do with tipping? Well, if he shows you the time of your life, you might consider tipping an amount that brings his total compensation (not including the flight) closer to whatever his actual/published rate would be for that amount of time normally. Match his generous gesture of a discounted session with a generous gesture of paying the full amount anyway. As a tip. If your experience is great. It can go a long way in establishing a positive and generous dynamic between you two in the ongoing future.
 
Tipping is not “expected” when it comes to hiring escorts in the USA. But it can definitely mean a lot to us and is highly appreciated. We often go “above and beyond” for clients in terms of what we bring to the table, and it’s always heart-warming to have the extra effort acknowledged with a tip. That said, if someone barely fulfills their end of the bargain, of course you might not feel inclined to give one, and that is also perfectly fine.
 
I also want to note that as small business owners, most escorts keep nowhere near 100% of the fee we charge. We typically have operational expenses that eat up a decent chunk of that sticker price. But I agree that tipping your waiter/waitress is totally different because they do not set the price of their own labor and are paid an extremely low hourly wage that ASSUMES there will be tips involved, and that’s definitely not the case with most independent escorts either.

Well it depends... how long can you last before you explode?? I tend to push my clients up against a wall and have my tongue and fingers inside their nooks and crannies within moments of my hotel room door closing. First impressions really set the tone. It’s not unusual for me to drop to my knees right there behind the door. Oh... you need a shower? OK, I guess I can give you a moment for that. After all, my tongue wants to be able to go *everywhere*. My sexual repertoire is so varied that an hour is really not enough time for my sessions. It’s why I have a two hour minimum. The sex I have with my clients tends to take a minimum of 1.5 hours between oral every which way, fucking in both directions, prostate stimulation, tease & denial (more oral), and the big finish. And usually guys cum so hard that they need 5-10 minutes before they can form complete sentences let alone get showered and dressed. So I don’t really have an answer for how much sex happens in a one hour appointment. One hour appointments don’t exist for me. When I used to schedule one hour appointments, I was kicking people out well before either of us wanted them to have to leave. My 90 minute appointments consistently ran overtime. Hence now I have a two hour minimum and all my clients seem happier. The way I personally like to have sex, I don’t even understand how to fit it all into a one hour booking. Whenever guys come to me for an hour thinking they only want to try X and Y activities, they always end up wanting to do more once we are together.
 
I agree with the other comments that say every encounter is different tho. You shouldn’t really try to pin a number of minutes on the sexual activity you should expect from any particular length of appointment.

To handle the flight booking, you can price the flight on Southwest.com and then have the client send you a digital Southwest gift card so that you can book the flight yourself. All he needs is an email address to send it to. And it doesn’t even have to be the same email address that your Southwest.com account is under. You will receive a gift card code that can be used to book your tickets. I would personally never let a client book them for me, because they could always cancel the return ticket and leave me stranded somewhere. Of course most clients wouldn’t, but SOME clients do the wackiest things sometimes! Better safe than sorry!

Yeah in retrospect I can’t tell if he’s being innocently unknowing or deliberately disingenuous either. The combination of no profile pic, no identifying details as an escort on his profile, and my interpretation of tone made it seem disingenuous to me too. But maybe my responses were too harsh in tone. Regardless, the heart/truth of the matter is the same. Sorry to the OP if my tone was harsh, but I stand by the heart of what I’ve said.

Nowhere did I state that this thread needed to be deleted or express any authority over this forum. I stated openly exactly the amount of information I was comfortable stating openly! The fact that it is generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients was a piece of information I was communicating.
 
Giving advice to another escort on how to communicate amongst ourselves about sensitive topics that are not meant to be client-facing is not an attempt at moderating this forum. Sorry if you can’t underatand the difference. Also not my problem tho.

I thought your first response had answered the OP's question perfectly. 'Although this is a forum for clients to ask escorts questions, what you asked is the sort of matter we don't discuss with clients.' I don't know if he was being innocently or deliberately disingenuous.

And? Your point is?

And? Your point is?