Monarchy79

Great Discussion Topic!!!
 
My pre-massage shower routine is as follows:
If I have an appointment after work:
1.) gym workout
2.) pre-sauna shower
3.) steam/sauna
4.) thorough shower, which consists of
A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.)
B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel
The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me
1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there.
 
From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean....
and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

That's a great two for one!

Well, if you put it that way...

Many escorts are young, and somewhat naive, or flat out don’t care about being exploited for the almighty dollar.
 
Approach a regular, intelligent, black gay man in a social situation and refer to him as a “mandingo”, and the response you’ll get may not be too pleasant.

“Thanks for that black lives matter 101”, was the specific quote of passive-aggressive, dismissive sarcasm.
 
1.) blacklivesmatter wasn’t referenced here at all. There was no need for him to reference it here.
 
2.) other posters explained to this dude why the term “Mandingo”, is a negative term used to describe black men, and he, in turn, responded by using another point of reference that’s a sensitive issue to many black people as well.
 
It was purposefully sarcastic, and to say that you didn’t see any sarcasm in it, is yet another form of flippant behavior and the nonchalant mindset that’s so offensive to others.

Many escorts are young, and somewhat naive, or flat out don’t care about being exploited for the almighty dollar.
 
Approach a regular, intelligent, black gay man in a social situation and refer to him as a “mandingo”, and the response you’ll get may not be too pleasant.

Well the comparable relationship that a white man has to a black man is that of a cuckold.
 
Have you ever seen those porn flicks where a big dicked black man, fucks a white woman who is married, but her small endowed white, effeminate husband can’t satisfy her? Well that’s the “mandingo-cuckold” stereotype.
 
I’ll also add a little bit more trivia to, concerning the marginalization of the black man and the big black dick.
 
Centuries ago, european scientists equates penis size with one’s level within the hierarchy of human civilization, and European men with smaller penises were consideeed the ideal. A black man’s big black penis was poked fun of and used as scientific “proof” that he is primitive, and sub-human.
 
The fetishizing of black men dates farther than you realize

“Thanks for that black lives matter 101”, was the specific quote of passive-aggressive, dismissive sarcasm.
 
1.) blacklivesmatter wasn’t referenced here at all. There was no need for him to reference it here.
 
2.) other posters explained to this dude why the term “Mandingo”, is a negative term used to describe black men, and he, in turn, responded by using another point of reference that’s a sensitive issue to many black people as well.
 
It was purposefully sarcastic, and to say that you didn’t see any sarcasm in it, is yet another form of flippant behavior and the nonchalant mindset that’s so offensive to others.

You excuse yourself for your ignorance (one step forward) all while making a sarcastic dig at black lives matter(two steps back)....
 
You’re a real class act... ?

You excuse yourself for your ignorance (one step forward) all while making a sarcastic dig at black lives matter(two steps back)....
 
You’re a real class act... ?

Well in this forum a black life doesn’t matter, only his “big black mandingo” dick does.
 
There are people on this site who won’t:
1.) rent to a black male tenant
2.) hire him for a job
3.) vote of his innocence in a jury
4.) be friend him
 
But will “order” him and exploit his assumed “animalistic” sexual prowess, and suck and sit on his big black dick.
 
And will confirm to himself that because he has swallowed the semen of a black man, that he therefore isn’t a racist.
Lol

No prob babe,
 
This is good. The more we share, the more we learn to understand one another better.
 
☺️??

Many escorts are young, and somewhat naive, or flat out don’t care about being exploited for the almighty dollar.
 
Approach a regular, intelligent, black gay man in a social situation and refer to him as a “mandingo”, and the response you’ll get may not be too pleasant.

https://medium.com/@suzanejardim/reconhecendo-esteriótipos-racistas-internacionais-b00f80861fc9
 
 
When we know better, we do better ?

Many escorts are young, and somewhat naive, or flat out don’t care about being exploited for the almighty dollar.
 
Approach a regular, intelligent, black gay man in a social situation and refer to him as a “mandingo”, and the response you’ll get may not be too pleasant.

I’m going to reference Trevor Noah and say that not only is it sad that many people in the US won’t admit that black lives simply “matter” but it was taken one step further on this board after it was posted as an insult...

Well the comparable relationship that a white man has to a black man is that of a cuckold.
 
Have you ever seen those porn flicks where a big dicked black man, fucks a white woman who is married, but her small endowed white, effeminate husband can’t satisfy her? Well that’s the “mandingo-cuckold” stereotype.
 
I’ll also add a little bit more trivia to, concerning the marginalization of the black man and the big black dick.
 
Centuries ago, european scientists equates penis size with one’s level within the hierarchy of human civilization, and European men with smaller penises were consideeed the ideal. A black man’s big black penis was poked fun of and used as scientific “proof” that he is primitive, and sub-human.
 
The fetishizing of black men dates farther than you realize

Well in this forum a black life doesn’t matter, only his “big black mandingo” dick does.
 
There are people on this site who won’t:
1.) rent to a black male tenant
2.) hire him for a job
3.) vote of his innocence in a jury
4.) be friend him
 
But will “order” him and exploit his assumed “animalistic” sexual prowess, and suck and sit on his big black dick.
 
And will confirm to himself that because he has swallowed the semen of a black man, that he therefore isn’t a racist.
Lol

Scroll up to my original post please ??

Please don’t call ghosting a “norm”, that gives the impression that it’s acceptable, and it’s not.

The whole “ghosting”, thing is just foul, dissmissive, and cowardly. It shows such a disregard for others.
 
Ironically, those who behave this way, cry the hardest, when Karma comes in and serves it back to them triple-fold.
 
Hopefully more people will realize that how you treat others is your way of telling the universe how to treat you.

No prob.
 
I don’t think the OP meant any offense with using the term “mandingo“.
 
I’m truly starting to believe that porn influences and perpetuates stereotypes and old archaic exploitative archetypes of various ethnicities.
 
This is why I’m soooooo happy with the “Noir Male” films.... because black guys aren’t depicted as “thugs”, “rappers”, “pimps”, or “mandingos”....

https://medium.com/@suzanejardim/reconhecendo-esteriótipos-racistas-internacionais-b00f80861fc9
 
 
When we know better, we do better ?

https://medium.com/@suzanejardim/reconhecendo-esteriótipos-racistas-internacionais-b00f80861fc9
 
 
When we know better, we do better ?