Monarchy79

Regarding the issue of poop; it’s deeper than the concern of poop getting on your penis, but particles of fecal matter getting IN your penis, which can cause bacterial infections. 

It's best as soon as you can after topping bareback to take a piss. I'll try to drink a nice amount of water right before a session so by the time it's over I should be good to use the bathroom. This is one reason I prefer to host so I can hop in the shower as soon as the provider leaves so I can clean off my cock and take a nice piss. Also make sure when you're in the shower don't hold open your penis head to clean it until after you've pissed because all you'd be doing is having the water push any bacteria deeper into your system.
Sure you could shower after as well if the provider is hosting but I'd rather not spend part of my session on the clock taking a shower.
I've gotten gonorrhea/chlamydia three times in my life about ten years apart each time and it does suck.

Unpopular opinion here: 
I say don’t do it and remain a virgin. 
Being free from the trappings of the desire for sex allows you to channel the energy that the rest of us have lost, to do great things, with an easier sense of focus. 
Once you have sex, you’ve literally bitten the “apple” from the tree of knowledge. Your eyes will be opened to so many things and will be vulnerable to the weaknesses that sexual beings have. 

One’s sense of judgment is clouded by the desire for sex.
One’s emotions are poorly managed due to their desire for sex.
One’s dumbest decisions usually revolve around the desire for sex. 
The desire for sex has brought down world leaders, politicians, business magnates, and entertainers.
I say all of this to say that you shouldn’t be ashamed of being a virgin. And do not allow anyone or anything to pressure you into doing it. That purity you have is beyond powerful. You have a sense of clarity in your mind and spirit, that most of the world doesn’t. 
And @pubic_assistance, I know you’re going to roll your eyes at me, so bring it. 😂

Wait a minute…..
@pubic_assistanceis extremely blunt (and at times intentionally obnoxious 😎), but at the least, he is universally fair and operates on logic. 
 
Why can’t he call the men who hire escorts and masseurs “old” and “fat”, when the same guys will be on this forum critiquing escorts and masseurs for having the smallest “flaws” in their appearance? 
 
Nothing cracks me up more than seeing wrinkly, old, and fat coots in the forums ripping escorts and masseurs to shreds on their appearance : “Oh, he's gained a few pounds…”, “The structural alignment of his cheekbones are off… don’t hire.” “He’s a fraud, his dick measures at 8.36 inches and not the 9 inches advertised.” 
The thought that many of these men literally look like the embodiment of Lindsey Graham naked (with ladybugs and all) , yet can dish out the critiques, but can’t take it. 
 
Hipocrisy is a stench that permeates sites like this. That’s for sure. 

 
 

Wait a minute…..
@pubic_assistanceis extremely blunt (and at times intentionally obnoxious 😎), but at the least, he is universally fair and operates on logic. 
 
Why can’t he call the men who hire escorts and masseurs “old” and “fat”, when the same guys will be on this forum critiquing escorts and masseurs for having the smallest “flaws” in their appearance? 
 
Nothing cracks me up more than seeing wrinkly, old, and fat coots in the forums ripping escorts and masseurs to shreds on their appearance : “Oh, he's gained a few pounds…”, “The structural alignment of his cheekbones are off… don’t hire.” “He’s a fraud, his dick measures at 8.36 inches and not the 9 inches advertised.” 
The thought that many of these men literally look like the embodiment of Lindsey Graham naked (with ladybugs and all) , yet can dish out the critiques, but can’t take it. 
 
Hipocrisy is a stench that permeates sites like this. That’s for sure. 

 
 

So basically, you’re stating that a paying customer can have the highest of standards, but the provider of that service, should have NO standards? 
Guess what? 
Professionals of any type also have the right to have standards, evaluate their clients and not exactly accept what’s presented to them….
1.) professional waxers can (and will), turn down clients with poor hygiene…(there’s been a surge in videos all over social media this)
2.) A dentist can discontinue services with a client who refuses to follow protocol and advisement on the care of their teeth can gums
3.) An auto-mechanic can turn town service to a client who makes no effort on vehicle maintenance, which can cause a liability to the shop owners if there’s a dispute on who’s “at fault”, if a major issue arises. 
 
4.) a hairdresser can critique and refuse service to an incoming customer who has headlice , ring worms, or any other infection that could impact the sanitation of their equipment and facility. 
 
In turn, masseurs and escorts have the right to be picky as they choose, and the mind set that “they’re providing the service”, therefore ALL of the requirements or presentation falls on them, is unacceptable, and shows the sense of self-delusion that many guys on this site have. 
 
let’s think of the EMPATHY that these guys hive dealing with many of these clients, extending beyond being fat or old:
1.) Bad, rancid  breath (but demand kissing as a requirement)
2.) Poor hygiene (coming to an appointment without being freshly showered, dingle-berries, rancid feet and pits, etc.etc.) 
3.) Incel-ish personalities which completely turn off everyone. 
So with much of the crap that these guys have to deal with, just to entertain many guys who wouldn’t get anyone to even touch them unless they’re being paid, some consideration should go both ways. 
 
 
 

Wait a minute…..
@pubic_assistanceis extremely blunt (and at times intentionally obnoxious 😎), but at the least, he is universally fair and operates on logic. 
 
Why can’t he call the men who hire escorts and masseurs “old” and “fat”, when the same guys will be on this forum critiquing escorts and masseurs for having the smallest “flaws” in their appearance? 
 
Nothing cracks me up more than seeing wrinkly, old, and fat coots in the forums ripping escorts and masseurs to shreds on their appearance : “Oh, he's gained a few pounds…”, “The structural alignment of his cheekbones are off… don’t hire.” “He’s a fraud, his dick measures at 8.36 inches and not the 9 inches advertised.” 
The thought that many of these men literally look like the embodiment of Lindsey Graham naked (with ladybugs and all) , yet can dish out the critiques, but can’t take it. 
 
Hipocrisy is a stench that permeates sites like this. That’s for sure. 

 
 

Micro-aggressions and gaslighting don’t work with me, so statements such as “I must have hit a nerve”, don’t work. 
 
My examples were used to demonstrate a wide variety of services and how those service providers’ relationships with their customers are two-way streets, just like the business of the more “personal” services that are discussed in these threads. 
 
And to be clear, YOUR interpretation of the topic is off. The original topic at hand is based on whether a client should be offended that an escort isn’t attracted to him in real life, while in the realm of meeting with a client, the thin veil of acting that an escort must do to give the illusion of attraction. 
 
A member of this forum then  made a comment about fat and old clients, which touched  a nerve (and possibly touched yours),  which resulted in someone else stating they clients have the right to be fat and old WITHOUT criticism, because they’re paying customers. 
 
My point (which will not change), is this:
Regardless of whether you’re a paying customer or not, the eyes don’t lie. Further, you don’t get the right to impose standards on others that you can’t meet yourself. 
 
So if you’re a hiring client who is attractive, good for you. 
 
if you’re a hiring client who is fat and old, have some humility and show some respect for those who choose to have you as a client, as your money doesn’t not relinquish you from meeting general standards of attraction either. And if a client entertains you in spite of this, be grateful. 
 

So basically, you’re stating that a paying customer can have the highest of standards, but the provider of that service, should have NO standards? 
Guess what? 
Professionals of any type also have the right to have standards, evaluate their clients and not exactly accept what’s presented to them….
1.) professional waxers can (and will), turn down clients with poor hygiene…(there’s been a surge in videos all over social media this)
2.) A dentist can discontinue services with a client who refuses to follow protocol and advisement on the care of their teeth can gums
3.) An auto-mechanic can turn town service to a client who makes no effort on vehicle maintenance, which can cause a liability to the shop owners if there’s a dispute on who’s “at fault”, if a major issue arises. 
 
4.) a hairdresser can critique and refuse service to an incoming customer who has headlice , ring worms, or any other infection that could impact the sanitation of their equipment and facility. 
 
In turn, masseurs and escorts have the right to be picky as they choose, and the mind set that “they’re providing the service”, therefore ALL of the requirements or presentation falls on them, is unacceptable, and shows the sense of self-delusion that many guys on this site have. 
 
let’s think of the EMPATHY that these guys hive dealing with many of these clients, extending beyond being fat or old:
1.) Bad, rancid  breath (but demand kissing as a requirement)
2.) Poor hygiene (coming to an appointment without being freshly showered, dingle-berries, rancid feet and pits, etc.etc.) 
3.) Incel-ish personalities which completely turn off everyone. 
So with much of the crap that these guys have to deal with, just to entertain many guys who wouldn’t get anyone to even touch them unless they’re being paid, some consideration should go both ways. 
 
 
 

Wait a minute…..
@pubic_assistanceis extremely blunt (and at times intentionally obnoxious 😎), but at the least, he is universally fair and operates on logic. 
 
Why can’t he call the men who hire escorts and masseurs “old” and “fat”, when the same guys will be on this forum critiquing escorts and masseurs for having the smallest “flaws” in their appearance? 
 
Nothing cracks me up more than seeing wrinkly, old, and fat coots in the forums ripping escorts and masseurs to shreds on their appearance : “Oh, he's gained a few pounds…”, “The structural alignment of his cheekbones are off… don’t hire.” “He’s a fraud, his dick measures at 8.36 inches and not the 9 inches advertised.” 
The thought that many of these men literally look like the embodiment of Lindsey Graham naked (with ladybugs and all) , yet can dish out the critiques, but can’t take it. 
 
Hipocrisy is a stench that permeates sites like this. That’s for sure. 

 
 

Wait a minute…..
@pubic_assistanceis extremely blunt (and at times intentionally obnoxious 😎), but at the least, he is universally fair and operates on logic. 
 
Why can’t he call the men who hire escorts and masseurs “old” and “fat”, when the same guys will be on this forum critiquing escorts and masseurs for having the smallest “flaws” in their appearance? 
 
Nothing cracks me up more than seeing wrinkly, old, and fat coots in the forums ripping escorts and masseurs to shreds on their appearance : “Oh, he's gained a few pounds…”, “The structural alignment of his cheekbones are off… don’t hire.” “He’s a fraud, his dick measures at 8.36 inches and not the 9 inches advertised.” 
The thought that many of these men literally look like the embodiment of Lindsey Graham naked (with ladybugs and all) , yet can dish out the critiques, but can’t take it. 
 
Hipocrisy is a stench that permeates sites like this. That’s for sure. 

 
 

I love transparency. Those who have the opportunity to get it, should be grateful. 
 
I had a similar experience, as my local gym chain attracts gays, especially masseurs and escorts. 
 
Last summer, there were at least four guys from R—Masseur working out regularly. 
 
One guy looked at me as if I were a piece of garbage. He just gave me absolute stankness, just in passing. 
 
Once other dude asked me to spot him and the other one I had no contact with at all.
But then the fourth one came into the steam room one night while I was there. 
He started at me, and then flashed me and started jerking off. Nothing happened as some straight guy ended up coming in. 
 
I made a note to myself to book him later in the month. I did, and my mileage varied very well. 
 
So in the end, don’t be annoyed when a guy reveals his true preferences as you could be saving yourself from a terrible experience, or guaranteeing yourself an outstanding one 😎. 
 

I can confirm he’s good. I saw him years ago, when he visited DC regularly. 
 
I hope he travels to my area soon. 

Simple Issue/Simple Solution.
If an escort asks for a picture and you don’t want to send one, don’t send one. 
 
Move on. 
 
 

Simple Issue/Simple Solution.
If an escort asks for a picture and you don’t want to send one, don’t send one. 
 
Move on. 
 
 

I love transparency. Those who have the opportunity to get it, should be grateful. 
 
I had a similar experience, as my local gym chain attracts gays, especially masseurs and escorts. 
 
Last summer, there were at least four guys from R—Masseur working out regularly. 
 
One guy looked at me as if I were a piece of garbage. He just gave me absolute stankness, just in passing. 
 
Once other dude asked me to spot him and the other one I had no contact with at all.
But then the fourth one came into the steam room one night while I was there. 
He started at me, and then flashed me and started jerking off. Nothing happened as some straight guy ended up coming in. 
 
I made a note to myself to book him later in the month. I did, and my mileage varied very well. 
 
So in the end, don’t be annoyed when a guy reveals his true preferences as you could be saving yourself from a terrible experience, or guaranteeing yourself an outstanding one 😎. 
 

I love transparency. Those who have the opportunity to get it, should be grateful. 
 
I had a similar experience, as my local gym chain attracts gays, especially masseurs and escorts. 
 
Last summer, there were at least four guys from R—Masseur working out regularly. 
 
One guy looked at me as if I were a piece of garbage. He just gave me absolute stankness, just in passing. 
 
Once other dude asked me to spot him and the other one I had no contact with at all.
But then the fourth one came into the steam room one night while I was there. 
He started at me, and then flashed me and started jerking off. Nothing happened as some straight guy ended up coming in. 
 
I made a note to myself to book him later in the month. I did, and my mileage varied very well. 
 
So in the end, don’t be annoyed when a guy reveals his true preferences as you could be saving yourself from a terrible experience, or guaranteeing yourself an outstanding one 😎. 
 

This year I've been hiring almost exclusively non-English speaking Latinos, and I insist they speak only Spanish and correct mine.
It's a great addition to Rosetta Stone, real (but very simple and basic) conversation. And I file the Zelle payments as "Spanish instruction".
They seemed more flattered to end up as a language tutor than finding it weird. And glad this hobby can lead to personal improvement.

very good, likes to include tarot card reading to session. very fun extras 

He’s super sweet and the Thai massage is good, done on the floor… but it is not sensual albeit he’s naked too. It certainly is not erotic at all. I would not recommend him. Too much money for no sensual elements and no HE. 

Simple Issue/Simple Solution.
If an escort asks for a picture and you don’t want to send one, don’t send one. 
 
Move on. 
 
 

You do not need to stay away. You need to be smart and act carefully, just like in all other platforms and "real" places. The world is full of scammers.

For many men, cars are a status symbol and reflect their personalities. 
 
no different than how women see purses as status symbols. 
 

For many men, cars are a status symbol and reflect their personalities. 
 
no different than how women see purses as status symbols. 
 

Grindr in itself is plagued with danger, even with regular hookups, so any other paid service from there would seem sketchy to me. 
 
Stay away from hiring from Grindr.