Monarchy79

You made me think of the doorman from “The Jefferson’s.”

Unfortunately, what you are experiencing is only going to get worse. Be firm in putting people in their place, weed them out by using all of your “blocking”, capabilities, and don’t let the nonsense ruin your “Chi”

You’re absolutely right. Know one is allowed to just call things as they are. That would fall under the “shaming”, or “judgment”, categories.

By Gay American Standards, he’d be considered a “cub”. “Junior Cub”, to be specific.

I’ve seen this guy at my gym here and there. He has that body type that’s borderline chubby, borderline bloated, and borderline muscular all at the same time. If he dressed well (he definitely does not), I could see him looking good in carefully fitted clothes, but appearing “doughy”, when naked. And sidebar: Being a regular bar fly at the typical DC watering holes wouldn’t classify someone as a “socialite”. ?, Just someone who regularly drinks at COMMON places. ?.

Statistically, The biggest danger to people (in the realm of sex), isn’t an escort, or a porn star... It’s that Grindr/Jack’d/Adam4Adam/Craigslist hookup (that was free of charge). Honestly, in dating, mating and any other intimate interaction, once should consider a background check. I’ll admit that I get highly annoyed when people tend to “categorize”, the expected level of “character” of a person, simply because they are in a sex-related profession. The most disgusting, nasty, morally corrupt people that I’ve encountered in my life (in person/or have witnessed through the news or experiences of others), were not escorts or porn performers. What one does for a living and who they are as a person are (for the most part) mutually exclusive... I always think of a situation a few years back, when I met a guy (off of an app), who, after one dinner date, I ghosted, as he creeped me out. Years later, after learning of his disgusting, sexually deviant behaviors, which, at a minimum involved infidelity, a multitude of STDs and some other things, I was glad that I didn’t naively assume he was a “good person”, because of his resume (as most others naively did). He’s an ivy-leave educated, 7-figure earning lawyer.

You got me good on that one!!!! ????

Wow!!! I never knew about Tom Hanks’ son.... I don’t understand these children of Superstars... they have opportunities ready to be handed to them on a platinum platter, yet they choose to make fools of themselves instead. I just don’t get it.

I’m always intrigued at how society has such a low bar of “moral expectation” for porn performers, when they’re simply doing on-camera, what everyone else is doing behind closed doors..... Ironically, the listing of crimes and arrests for Hollywood actors, and those in “mainstream” Entertainment, are probably just as long and disturbing (if not longer)..... This doesn’t include all of the scandals that the Hollywood machine erases from public record to maintain the image of the stars that society seems to worship. Porn performers are people. People are complex.

Well maybe some white boys are from the “hood” as well, and can be just as inarticulate as those black guys you generalized.

There’s not one word that the guy said, that even resembled the stereotypically exaggerated slang used in that scene on Airplane. I’m also quite familiar with the many tweets from Rappaport as well. He speaks in slang, uses profanity as well. Would you consider his way of speaking “black hood talk”, too? ?

Care to explain further?

Ummmm, Well aware of their exchange and guess what? One is black and one is white. They were both name calling. Neither of them spoke that “blacksploitation-jive-talk”, you previously referenced. In social media, most people do not use proper English, especially on Twitter.

Ummm..... I’m not going to go THERE tonite, but your point of reference in “translating”, Kevin Durant’s level of “articulation”, is reaching towards that line... and you know the “line”, I’m talking about ?

Here’s a hard truth about people in-general: They usually aren’t sorry it truly apologetic about anything, unless it directly, negatively impacts their lives....

I love love love when tour posts reference such memorable scenes of TV shows!!! The Golden Girls was one of those shows where I watched the show at two different times of my life.... as a kid, when I didn’t get all of the jokes, but my mom did, and was “beet red”, in laughter.... and of course as an adult, where I got ALL of the jokes!!!! ?

I’d actually prefer to eat more ass: It’s 1.) Zero Calories 2.) Gluten Free 3.) Keto Approved 4.) Doesn’t cause bloating ?

Ummm.... you may be reaching a bit. Everyone’s path in life isn’t to be a “well-articulated orator”. He’s a superior athlete, which definitely deserves respect, as anyone does, if they are prolific in their said profession. Secondly, playing basketball requires more skill than just “throwing a ball into a hoop”. You wanna know what’s sad? That the level of stupidity you speak of, was celebrated for four years, by people wearing MAGA hats....

These are athletes who are fueled with adrenaline and testosterone. Anyone who has played a lot of sports understand that this type of communication is quite common and shouldn’t be made into more that what it is: “Shit-Talking”.

Different strokes for different folks!!!

I guess I should have rephrased my statement.... when I was suggesting washing one’s butthole, I was staying to simply scrub one’s buttcrack. Ensure that there are no skids, dingleberries, or anything else back there.

Actually you’re right.... Years ago, I got ghosted by a very sexy guy I was hooking up with. He flat out told me it was my “overbathing”. To explain, we met off of a hookup site years ago. The sex was fantastic. Typically, after work, I’d go to the gym. He’d always ask to hook up after I’m done working out. To my naïveté, I was showering and putting on fresh undies, after my workouts, and right before meeting him. The final time we hooked up, he said for me to come and see him right after the gym and in caps texted me the following: DO NOT WORRY ABOUT SHOWERING.” I thought it was a timing issue for him, so I shortened my workout, ended earlier and took a shower anyway. Well when we stripped down, and he got a whiff of freshness, he was irritated, and I told him that I wasn’t as strapped for time, so I made time for a shower....... (silly me) When I got back home he sent me a text, basically saying that “it’s not that serious to smell like a fragrance counter all the time”. He was not only annoyed with my showering, he was also annoyed with whatever fragrance was still lingering on my work clothes. That’s when I learned about the importance of B.O., and pheromones.

That’s strange, as I’ve been to Bangkok, and didn’t find the taxi drivers to be smelly.... I just got tired of every Taxi Driver offering me suggestions and places to get “boom boom”. ???

I’ll tell you one weird thing about me... although I like being super super fresh, soapy and clean smelling (I wear cologne too, just not when visiting masseurs) , I don’t mind natural body scents on others.... a sexy guy with some musky pits (or other regions), doesn’t bother me at all, ironically.

Your commentary (which is accurate) made me think of the first time I visited Rome, in the middle of a hot summer. I encountered some of the most impeccably dressed (and pungent smelling) characters ever. It was a major culture shock for me. Then on to France, the birthplace of Perfume, where I naively assumed that everyone would smell of fresh soap, and limited-edition Guerlain fragrances (boy was I wrong) . Then I learned why perfume was created, and got a major reality check. To each their own when it comes to their hygiene preferences.... but (in my opinion), when it comes to visiting dentists, doctors, and masseurs, it’s best to be on the safe side and be “sterilized fresh”.