Monarchy79

I think the bigger issue here is that many men don’t want the “gay”, or “homosexual” label. And I understand why. People want to have sex without labels, and I completely agree with that. But since we live in a world where people are defined by gender, race, and sexual orientation, one has to simply “own their shit”. You can call yourself “non-binary” , and desire to live a gender-less life, but don’t be mad at the world for obviously seeing the body parts and genitals that clearly define your gender and accidentally acknowledging you as such. Being a homosexual isn’t easy either. It’s filled with world-renowned hate, based on religion, laws, personal biases and other factors that makes being a homosexual very hard; so I understand why someone wouldn’t want to be a homosexual. But trying to “cop” out of it, by simply verbalizing that you are straight, when you love every metaphysical aspect of another man, and are actively participating in homosexual acts, is just flat out contradictory. And as it should be obvious from my photo, I’m black. Being black is rough. It’s rough in business, in academia, in general aspects of society, in the LGBT world, and sometimes even in this forum. But I’m not going to wake up tomorrow, and tell the world “I’m white”, and expect people to acknowledge and respect by “self-definition”, just because I said so. That’s simply ridiculous to me.

This simply isn’t accurate. In many man-woman sexual scenarios women are rimming, and pegging their male partners. Any guy who states that he’s “straight” but is into getting his butt licked from a man simply can’t find a woman to do it, is simply lying.

At this point, I don’t classify people’s sexuality based on how they define themselves, but what they do. Don’t tell me you’re “straight”, when you e just hopped off of random dick…. and don’t tell me you’re “gay”, when your breath reeks of the last pussy you ate. So moving forward with this discussion, can you guys stop saying that you hired a straight guy, can you put the term in quotes please?

One’s level of “hotness” isn’t the point here.

Please get this straight guy in contact with me ASAP!!! I’m whipping up a batch of Snake oil, and I need him as my salesman….

Great Points!! I’m with you wholeheartedly. I think the best way to explain why this topic is somewhat triggering to me (not really, but the topic does ignite deep thought), is for me to show you. look at this rentmen ad: https://rentmen.eu/Straighthalfarab I’m sure this dude is charging premium pay, for a potential client to lick his smelly feet and dirty ass. Oh, and he’s made it clear that there will be no sexual intercourse throughout the session. From his pics, he will make no efforts to present a hood presentation of hygiene, or a welcoming environment, and gets a “pass” for sup-par services because he’s fulfilling a “straight” fetish. Although people will willingly open their pockets to be “entertained” by him (and have the right to) it’s the principle of the matter that makes me ask: “WHYYYYY!?!?”

Yes, including yours. Your response to my comments shows that you have naively assumed that I don’t “understand” psycho sexuality. Just because I don’t agree with something doesn’t mean I don’t understand it. So to be clear: 1.) I understand that many gay men drool over men who are straight and inaccessible to them. I just think it’s silly. 2.) I understand that many gay men will also hire a “straight” escort”, and confirm that he’s straight, simply because he said he’s straight on a website (although his actions belie it). I just think that’s stupid. 3.) I also understand that there are many gay men who will pay a straight “provider”, to just either look at him, touch his muscles, or suck his flaccid dick and be called names during the process. I understand the fetish, I just think it’s dumb, and a waste of money. And just like people are going to like what they like, people are going to have varied opinions. My opinions differ from yours. I’m cool with that, and you might as well be too. And since I’m not harming anyone, then let me be. 😎

I’m so glad you mentioned the Nordstrom Visa Card!!!! it’s my favorite!!!! because you can use it anywhere, I simply save my cash for large purchases, then just use the card (and immediately pay of the balance), I’ve gotten hundreds and hundreds of dollars in gift cards thanks to their rewards program. Then add in those Nordstrom “notes” and alteration credits and even more benefits rack in. Right now, I still have $300 in free alteration credits to use.

No. “DMV” is a general term used to reference motor vehicle organizations. However, DC’s motor vehicle department is actually called “DCDMV” Also in the DC area, because a large portion of commerce and infrastructure are within a radius covering the city of DC and components of Maryland and Northern Virginia, the area gets names to cover the area, such as: 1.) DC Metropolitan Area, or DC Metro Area 2.) National Capital Region 3.) DMV

“DMV” is a regional abbreviation: DC, Maryland, Virginia

Is this your philosophy on how you operate in life?

Are there any sexual acts that you do perform with men? Are you 100% celibate? Are you a virgin? Are you permanently abstinent? there are variables you left out, that could allow me to comprehensively answer your question.

My point precisely. Unfortunately many people in these comments truly believe they are having sex with straight men, because the guys simply said they were straight.

I’m in full agreement with you. And part of what you said is the foundation of my point. As a bisexual man, you can fuck women you are not attracted to, because (IMO) you are biologically wired to fuck women. I believe that a gay man can fuck men he is not attracted to because he is biologically ally wired to fuck men. I don’t believe a 100% straight man can thoroughly fuck a man as he’s not biologically wired to do so.

I understand sexual fetishes quite clearly. However, stating that something is a fetish, doesn’t exonerate it from being wrong, inappropriate, or even illegal. Participating in snuff films is considered a fetish for many…. Does that indicate that it’s “acceptable”?

Sir, You’re bisexual. I was referring to gay men having the ability to give mercy fucks to woman. if a 100% gay man has a pussy put in his face, he’s not easily diving in.

I’ll send you a direct message.

Not necessarily. thees a difference between wanting to hire men for the satisfaction of sex, vs. hunting for a specific type of man that’s destitute and in serious need of the money (i.e. hiring a precessional escort, vs., cruising the streets for corner crack hoes). Augusts message came off as if he “gets off” from hiring straight men who are in need of the money (whether it’s from poverty, unemployment homelessness, or some addiction), in order to get a “high” from the things her can get them to do for the cash…. That’s what makes his comment cringey.

The way you described everything is quite cringey. Is your turn on the actual men? Or the satisfaction of exploiting someone who needs the money?

I’ll counter that by asking if you’ve ever had sex with a man you’re not attracted to? We all have (mercy fucks). However, ask yourself have you (or will you) give those same mercy fucks to women? The answer for most will be “no.” Being attracted to someone and being BIOLOGICALLY WIRED to be attracted to a specific gender are two different things (which many people in the comments can’t seem to comprehend.)

It also needs to be clarified that identifying as straight, and being straight are two different things. I’m sure there are plenty of escorts falsely defining themselves as “straight”, simply to appear to the fantasies of some potential clients.

There’s a difference between someone not being personally attracted to you, and someone not being biologically attracted to your entire gender. A gay escort may not be personally attracted to you, but they can still be biologically inclined to perform. A truly straight escort cannot do that.

That’s true for many of those who hire escorts. But at least those gay escorts can perform expected services. I’ll never understand hiring some straight guy to “muscle worship” or to suck on his limp dick, while he looks at the client in disgust.

Desiring a man who is confirmed to never fully be attracted to you is nonsensical. But I think the bigger issue is WHY so many gay men chase self-proclaimed straight guys. I’ll dive a bit deeper by making this observation: The straight men they desire are never effeminate straight men, soft straight men or cuckolds. This observation leads me to believe that the desire to have a straight man, is connected with an idea of “authentic masculinity”, which many gay men believe cannot be achieved by another gay man. What’s unfortunate about this is that a paradigm is created where straight men can play with the minds of desperate gay men, seeking the “real man”, of their fantasies, by giving them glimmers of hope of making them his “ultimate bitch.” I see the lust on many sites, especially onlyfans, where straight guys are playing fools out of their pockets for the sheer idea of a fantasy. To each his own, but why waste money on hope? I would never: Subscribe to any of their OnlyFans or hire for the services of any straight man, ever… I don’t want to play myself, nor do I want to give any straight man the satisfaction of believing that every gay man wants him. NO WAY….

The lust for straight guys isn’t a fetish, it’s a form of cognitive dissonance.