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and this architect is oh so cute, with that killer Aussie accent

I love this guy! Congrats on a great 2017

I always wondered how you make it work in the shower without fecal matter splattering everywhere. Even with a shower douching system, I get out and use the toilet to release when douching. The drain would not be able to handle so much in my opinion.

I no longer share information/comments with escorts, ever...period, by PM or otherwise. "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice..." There are plenty of things to talk about without going down that "rabbit hole"

I wrote this back in July: http://ilikepinga.com/2017/07/13/people-never-learn/
 
The topic was not trusting others, but it is related to the labeling issue. Just in case you are interested.

Thank you, for sharing in greater detail. I understand. I felt a bit under attack for a moment. It was confusing, because, like your statement implies: I was trying [not] to label anyone. I was practicing something I rarely do, be open and transparent in a space where I could feel vulnerable. The forum has been a great place for me to practice and hone in on that place I find to be quite daunting.
 
You are correct, we should not label or target a whole class of people for the actions of a few. In this particular space, I have learned to be cautious of those in the forum with little to no experience by checking their profile and paying attention to moniker given by the site. I am less likely to share certain information with a newbie, compared to what I would share with someone with a much higher status. There is a learning process here and you do not have to be a member long to figure it out. It is more about the quantity/quality time spent in the forum giving and accepting feedback. I appreciate your feedback.
 
In my active daily life, I am much more cautious, mostly because of the less anonymous (known) nature of the interaction. However, in both situations it is difficult to judge another person's intent. I do not believe that all people have ill intentions. The bell curves.
 
I will keep this front of mind: Labeling, why do we do it? should we do it? when and where is it appropriate?
 
We all have a degree of prejudice when it comes to labeling. After a while, some things become a pattern, which causes a stereotype, not based in scientific data, but the court of public opinion.

You dont need to Deepthroat..... "If you Suck it, they will Cum".....

Let's switch the "why do you keep labeling" to "why do we".
I just do not see the point of targeting a whole class of people, implying there is something in their nature that should make us be cautious. My point is that it is irrelevant what your role is, we should always we cautious everywhere with everyone. And we should be able to find many people to trust also, everywhere, whoever they are.
I apologize if you felt I was addressing this against you.

There are always a few ass holes. On the bright side, if we did not have assholes, we would be shitting out our ears and would behiring escorts with short pencil dicks.

That ass of yours is sacred.

I hired him some time ago. If memory serves me, it was some type of heart device; he told me but I forget.
 
Pictures are accurate along with dick size for size queens. Interaction was just an OK thing and nothing I repeated. Nice guy but just no “sizzle.”

They are similar. Pure and Zero contain a few additional ingredients for "the cause." They are designed for anal intercourse with men. Whereas, Metamucil is simply a dietary supplement. Hopefully, that makes sense.

No it is not. It usually just takes one time of being utterly humiliated to make sure you prep. It is a lot of work to be a bottom. Tops have it easy.

They might have been in a hurry. Prepping for bottoming isn't something you rush.

If they shitted out after 5 minutes of getting fucked then they made little to no effort to get clean. It takes me a freaking hour before I feel confident that the chassy is clean. Nobody likes dirty bottoms and rightfully so.

If by sloppy you mean cum then sure. But I make all efforts to ensure that there is no mess. The smell of leakage makes me vomit.

The cleaning process is a private matter for me. Partly because I am obsessive and it takes so freaking long.

I have a wonderful connection with a lovely, very sexy guy in NYC. We're friends on many levels, and I top him as often as possible. To be clear, I'm not into scat, but we've made the douching process part of our extended foreplay -- I think that the very intimate and personal of the process has made it into an incredibly bonding and sensual experience for us both. We are both rock hard throughout, and move seamlessly from shower to bed. I don't think it would work with just any guy who I didn't know, and I know it's not for all tastes, but wow what a trip.

"...for me"
 
Sorry, thought I'd finish that sentence for you.

Hose out well.

Nope, not for me. I use saline made with sterilized water to douche. I have done this for years without problems. It gets me completely clean. Pure for Men may help you evacuate solids but it does nothing towards getting you clean and removing bacteria. My high fiber diet and douching is preferable for me.

I think you missed my point. Your post is perfectly relevant, but you posted it in the incorrect forum. The Deli is for research and conversation about specific people. Not fantasy. That belongs in the forum for Fetish. You will receive more responses as well.

I love this guy! Congrats on a great 2017

I think you missed my point. Your post is perfectly relevant, but you posted it in the incorrect forum. The Deli is for research and conversation about specific people. Not fantasy. That belongs in the forum for Fetish. You will receive more responses as well.

I think you missed my point. Your post is perfectly relevant, but you posted it in the incorrect forum. The Deli is for research and conversation about specific people. Not fantasy. That belongs in the forum for Fetish. You will receive more responses as well.