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I don’t care how hot he is . NO 

This request is not reasonable. In almost every way the client is taking a much bigger risk meeting a provider than the provider is meeting the client. 

Yeah, that is a horrible horrible idea. Who would ever let a provider know their full name, address, and date of birth. If he asked me for that I'd say show me yours first! 🤣

Do NOT do it. There is absolutely no reason for that.

No way would I do that. Can you spell identity theft?

I met with Juan not too long ago (earlier this year? last year? it's all a blur...) and at the end of the session, I mentioned how I enjoyed his old posts from the forum. He laughed at the blast from the past. He had forgotten about it, and wondered if he should check the forums out again.

So umm... One review is dated: 01 Jan, 1970...
 
Time flows differently around this man!

I met with Juan not too long ago (earlier this year? last year? it's all a blur...) and at the end of the session, I mentioned how I enjoyed his old posts from the forum. He laughed at the blast from the past. He had forgotten about it, and wondered if he should check the forums out again.

Update: had my first meeting and it was fantastic. Incredibly grateful to this forum and all the posters!

As an overweight client, I always disclose my weight to a potential masseur or escort.  I've found providers care less about my physique and more about cleanliness.  I've never had any provider explicitly decline me for my weight. 
I assume that a provider that replies with a message, "I am not available" at the time requested without suggesting an alternative appointment option are politely saying "Something in the information you have provided does not meet my standards.  Look elsewhere."  
 

After being overweight for most of my adult life I don’t offend easily and have a thick skin. (Pun intended).  I’m not sure if you even read my post, but that’s just what I am doing, having gone from 477 to 250 lbs in three years.  My health is better than it has ever been the past ten years and my doctor tells me I’ve added years to my life.
The point of the post was to get feedback on what I should expect from providers at this size. 
I can assure you that any overweight person does not need to be told to get to a gym, we live in these bodies and whether or not we show it, we know deep down the effect excess weight has on our health.  Unsolicited advice like this is neither helpful or supportive.  

I've been asked once for more details about a review I left. I didn't have the time to reply right away, but eventually did and everyone was happy. And I've had a few good experiences asking reviewers a bit more details about the escort. It's always understood that it's only if they have the time. Some were more forthcoming than others, while some never replied, which I totally respect.
Replying with "don't waste my time" seems excessively hostile. I mean... who do they think reviews are for?

I've been asked once for more details about a review I left. I didn't have the time to reply right away, but eventually did and everyone was happy. And I've had a few good experiences asking reviewers a bit more details about the escort. It's always understood that it's only if they have the time. Some were more forthcoming than others, while some never replied, which I totally respect.
Replying with "don't waste my time" seems excessively hostile. I mean... who do they think reviews are for?

I've been asked once for more details about a review I left. I didn't have the time to reply right away, but eventually did and everyone was happy. And I've had a few good experiences asking reviewers a bit more details about the escort. It's always understood that it's only if they have the time. Some were more forthcoming than others, while some never replied, which I totally respect.
Replying with "don't waste my time" seems excessively hostile. I mean... who do they think reviews are for?

I've been asked once for more details about a review I left. I didn't have the time to reply right away, but eventually did and everyone was happy. And I've had a few good experiences asking reviewers a bit more details about the escort. It's always understood that it's only if they have the time. Some were more forthcoming than others, while some never replied, which I totally respect.
Replying with "don't waste my time" seems excessively hostile. I mean... who do they think reviews are for?

Sounds like you did well. 
I have usually kept rates and extensive details private. Out of respect to the other party involved, I refrain from sharing details that they don't openly indicate they do...if any...and in some instances the rate was different for one reason or another and consequently prefer leaving those details out and not put them in an awkward position. Rates change and since I prefer longer engagements, it was often different. Those are questions for provider to answer directly is my thought.
Questions like would you repeat? Did he look like his pictures? Was he welcoming and accommodating? Did he do the things you requested? Was there anything negative that you are willing to share that would keep you from repeating. Those are examples of questions that are well in bounds. 

same with @HotWhiteThirties. I am pretty generous with my feedback to those who ask nicely or politely. but rude folks that reach out via RM messenger will just have to see that I have read their message without a reply (if not blocked).

I've been personally contacted regarding experiences. In all instances - both on this site, RM (when I had a profile there...took it down when the pandemic happened), etc. I can recall replying to each. How I replied was dependent upon how I was approached, but never like the message above. 
However, on more than one occasion- several actually- the party inquiring began acting as if they were owed every detail. Not appreciated, and I quit responding. Quite a few of those got pervy looking at my pics and a provider's pics and started hounding for details to get off and trying to imagine our "encounter." Shut that down pretty fast. Not totally the same, I know, but these experiences actually helped me understand a little how providers might feel sometimes when folks are just "fantasizing."
Bottomline, it all depended on the approach of the person asking. Expecting multiple messages was annoying. One reply and a follow up should do it. I assume you asked nicely, and if so, the response was that of a jerk, but lots of folks are, and as pointed out, is a hazard of asking. 

I've been asked once for more details about a review I left. I didn't have the time to reply right away, but eventually did and everyone was happy. And I've had a few good experiences asking reviewers a bit more details about the escort. It's always understood that it's only if they have the time. Some were more forthcoming than others, while some never replied, which I totally respect.
Replying with "don't waste my time" seems excessively hostile. I mean... who do they think reviews are for?

I don't believe you can review on that site without creating a profile, so it's a bit of a double-edge sword if you want privacy.
My main point here was that just because you can doesn't always mean you should. 
That said, I believe that if someone doesn't want to be bothered, the best way to handle it is to not reply at all versus messaging something negative.

https://rent.men/LatinbearXL
Has anyone met this sexy beast? 
 

This guy is fucking hot, but also really really frustrating. He will change appointments on you five or six times (if he sees you at all). He's asked for money to be sent to him when he's low on funds (I mean free money). He's asked to rent him a hotel on your credit card and pay you back in visits (but doesn't honour this).
 
When you're with him: he's gorgeous, he's hot, he's sensual, and looks just like his photos. It's that it comes with a whole lot of baggage and frustration with it. Basically he's super active when he wants money instantly, and something else when he's fine. If you're in town and a one-timer, totally worth it. If looking for regular, he's not your man (imo).

I was taken aback when he asked me for it up front. I mean, in general, he's operating way above the typical pay grade of most escorts and asking for cash up front in general we all know is a huge warning sign to stay away.
 
But i took the plunge because as a first re-entry back into sex after a long covid desert, everything that was said about him was precisely what i needed AND, of course, what he looked like.
 
So i just bit the bullet.
 
And i repeat: Worth. Every. Penny.
 
And he really isn't a con artist. He really loves doing this and loves the people he meets. And we talked alot about drugs too - cuz i have nostalgia for the days when on nice occasions i might do shrooms or x or k - with FBs or at "circuit parties" in days of yore. So when he talks about PnP, for himself he's really talking about occasional recreational drug use and, probably, that its ok for his clients who do more. Though i bet if he has such a client he'll wind up getting invested in helping the guy steer away from destructive behavior towards sobriety.
 
How did we wind up talking about all this stuff? He loves to talk but even more, he seems to love to listen. And we discovered we have complexly overlapping spiritual lives - we spent time exploring that. Escorts may be able to have such discussions, but hustlers rarely can. Really: this guy is the Real Deal. And he's also a good business man creating a business model that works for him and the people who can afford him.
 
I wish i could be a monthly! It would be good for me! Alas, unlikely. But for this particular night in this particular year, he was medicine for my soul, not just my body.

Malik of Stock Bar and porn actor on Men.com now available on RM in Montreal.
 
https://rentmen.eu/MalikDelgaty
 
If I'm not mistaken, its the first time he has advertised on RM.

Some of his pictures come back as having appeared on the ad of HazeXL, who's been talked about a lot on the forums.
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-hazexl.116373
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-hazexl-from-newark.114410/
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/hazexl-or-bolden.145613/