NYMassageAddict

1 hour ago, JUWS said:

Yes I went several months ago. But recently they told me that Peter went back to China. ..?🤷‍♂️

He did go back to China - his mom or dad were very sick with COVID. I think possibly one died. Anyway, he’s back now. 

I’m not sure who on here is familiar with Renew York Spa on 8th Ave next door to the Q. It is a mixed spa, meaning men and women and legit and YMMV. 
 

I think the facility is quite impressive and you can get a very good massage. Peter (40+) medium build, nothing special in the looks department delivers a very strong but good massage. He can be quite enjoyable at the end too. I’ve also had Jake - not as good as Peter but can be enjoyable. 
 

Today I tried Tony. He is not skilled and not enjoyable at the end. And trust me; I tried. If you haven’t checked it out, do it, but skip on Tony. 

Anyone know of any good Asian massage spots or masseurs in Austin, TX? 
 

I like spas but also open to a traveling masseur to come to my hotel. 

On 12/10/2022 at 6:59 PM, glycine said:

giving men my money turns me on SO much for some reason- i think it adds to the degradation/humiliation feeling and emphasizes my worship. When I'm really turned on I literally want to give real men every last dollar I have. Anyone else have this as well? And how do you balance it with personal finance? I'm normally good but I've definitely gotten way too carried away before lol

I love degrading men and controlling their finances. Punishing them by fining them for misbehaving. 

On 1/9/2023 at 10:20 AM, jeezopete said:

A lot of recipes I've been looking at lately list wine as an ingredient. I've heard several TV chefs recommend always using a wine you'd prefer to drink rather than a "cooking wine". The problem with that is, I don't drink wine. I just never acquired a taste for it. Some of the recipes suggest substituting broth if the cook doesn't have or want to use wine, but I'd like to try some of these recipes as written before I go making changes. I'm open to suggestions, so what types/brands do you use for cooking?

Thanks!

This is horribly wrong advice. Cooking wine is very different than drinking wine. It is made to withstand the heat and as such maintains the flavoring. Drinking wine is no match for the heat and basically it serves no purpose. It’s also more expensive. 

3 hours ago, adianblance said:

Thanks so much- how are the guys built? Muscular? Jock? Bear?

If you click the gallery I think the final two photos are them. One is a bit older and medium build. The younger guy (maybe 40s) is built but more runners build. Nice guys and a fun experience. 

1 hour ago, adianblance said:

Traveling to Mexico City soon and wondering if anyone has some recent experience with masseurs? Checking everything posted is a little out dated. Thanks!

I saw these two guys a few years back. They host in their studio and it was a pretty thrilling experience. 
 

Tantric Four Hand Massage

I don’t know about those two in particular but the ownership opened Chelsea Men’s Spa on West 29th. 
 

a recent yelp review refers to an Allan so maybe he’s still with them. 

On 12/31/2022 at 12:19 AM, foleynyc said:

The few four handed massaged I've had have been rather disappointing. Perhaps the masseurs are uncomfortable with fellow workers?  Can anyone recommend 4-handed that is both a decent massage and sensual with both masseurs participating? Either a spa or private is fine with me.

I’ve also had several failed 4 hand experiences but had one that was fantastic in Mexico City. It was advertised only as a four hand tantric experience. I think in cases where that’s the only thing they provide it can be mind blowing. When you ask solo masseurs to work together, I think it fails for reasons you suggested. 

8 hours ago, Frankcal said:

Different strokes I guess…. So may hot Asian guys and this masseur looks so average. 

I don’t watch for the hotness factor. I watch for the unique setting, the experience I see the recipient have, the teasing and skill of the masseur. I guess I’ve had enough massages in my life at this stage that I now seek something out of the ordinary and I think the Japanese are great at providing that. 

First I’ve seen this one. The Japanese continue to outshine anywhere else in the massage scenes. Japanese massage

16 hours ago, NYMassageAddict said:

So I but the bullet and visited Renew Spa today. I think they have one male masseur, Patrick. He is not your 20s twink type. Rather I put him in his 40s and maybe 200+ lbs. fairly tall. 
 

Anyway, I recommend seeing him. 

Sorry his name may be Peter. It’s a P name. 

So I but the bullet and visited Renew Spa today. I think they have one male masseur, Patrick. He is not your 20s twink type. Rather I put him in his 40s and maybe 200+ lbs. fairly tall. 
 

Anyway, I recommend seeing him. 

If he’s any good, he will make a fortune in Palm Springs with all the old gay money in that city. 

17 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I change the towels every time using fresh towels. Also put paper on the table. But latex gloves? No, I couldn’t massage wearing latex gloves. There’s no feel, no connection. 

I’m vaccinated now so feel more confident to give massage. Being a sensual masseur I do get tested every 3 months at least, and am on Prep so I’m used to managing risk. This pox is just another risk to manage. 

You sound very responsible and I’m sure many would appreciate knowing more about their personal masseurs or spa’s efforts to do the same. Sadly as receivers we are left in the dark about a lot of this. I also recognize that providers would also like to have this information as well. Pandemics sure do suck. 

8 minutes ago, Redwine56 said:

Some of the masseurs that I've gone to use disposable sheets on the massage table and head rest but regular towels. The disposable sheets tend to be thinner and I notice usually will have a towel under it for cushioning which is not changed for each massage.

We’ve got both individual masseurs and spas and a great opportunity for either side to broadcast measures they’ve taken. It can be dicey because of an innuendo of sexual activity but I think both should be investing in and advertising their Monkeypox efforts, including vax status, latex gloves and disposable sheets. I for one would welcome it. 

Has anyone explored the potential of using latex gloves during massage? I wonder how a spa would react if I brought surgical gloves for the masseur to use. Or if any private masseurs are using them. I know it’s tough because a lot of the massage may include forearms rubbing but I might feel more confident if I knew a spa had handed them out. 

Whether you can believe this guy or not is up for debate, but I’ve been told that someone claimed that he received MPV from massage. Now again, I don’t know whether the failed to mention m2m sex because massage was a convenient excuse OR if the massage turned to sex. But I just wanted to flag that I heard it and it caused me to pause. 

14 hours ago, b95 said:

Any good spas/ providers in the NYC Chinatown area?

I’ve always wondered about a good old Chinatown spa that might provide extras. Seems they should exist but I haven’t heard of any. 
 

Not TOO far away is Yeah Man

Anyone into the more ceremonial aspects of masturbation especially with another man? I love when I’m with someone who is guiding the session talking about the history of masturbation and celebrating the penis - talking about the different parts of the male erection and the power it holds. Maybe he’s performing the masturbation or coaching you. Maybe chanting. That whole scene does something for me. 

20 hours ago, Mydavid said:

I wish I could meet more guys like you in my life. I am Asian, and I feel difficult to make friends since most guys aren't sexually into Asian guys. I was even refused by an escort when I told him I am Asian.😭 

Are you just seeking someone who is into Asians or someone into the more taboo race play? I’d qualify for both as I am fine with a standard relationship but I also am open to more kinky talk if it’s requested. 

On 7/29/2022 at 9:41 AM, sniper said:

While that's possibly correct, no actual place of business is going to say anything else via text to a stranger. Or over the phone for that matter. If you're going to a spa...a place that lists itself publicly and can get shut down...you're only going to find out what happens inside the massage room.

I’m actually a little more inclined to try this place now. They said they have a younger Asian male masseur. The fact that it may or may not happen kinda fits one of my massage desires. 

On 7/29/2022 at 7:49 AM, TerryAance said:

I texted them , they said they provide regular massage  only.   

How does that text exchange actually go? 
 

“Do you provide happy ending”? 
 

“No!” 

Anyone try Renew York Spa? Seems to be a new spa on 8th Ave near maybe 45 or 46. I saw a sign and due to proximity to Hell’s Kitchen asked if they had male masseurs. They said they do but I haven’t stopped by. 

If you’re in Chicago and after an interesting experience, you may want to check out this guy. His website is https://atman.yoga

He was trained in Asia somewhere. It’s a full body I mean FULL body experience. More spiritual/healing/tantric and less therapeutic. Offers lingam massage and prostrate for those interested in that. 
 

If you’re seeking a different experience from someone who takes their craft seriously, check him out.