NYMassageAddict

12 hours ago, DLEroticProv12 said:

I am just baffled - and it should be a much bigger outrage as our tax money (at a time when there is little surplus of it) is being used - that the time and energy and money it takes to shut down spas, because god forbid a bunch of queens get relaxed AND get a hand job, is somehow a priority not only for the NYPD but for the city and its resources.  There are people being kicked out of their homes because their careers were completely destroyed by a pandemic. There are victims of domestic violence who’ve been forced to stay home with said violence for the better part of two years now. There are addicts who were sober but lost all access to their therapist and other addiction treatments who are walking a daily tightrope to maintain their sobriety (many have fallen off, and understandably as they’ve been all but forgotten). HOW and WHY is it ACCEPTABLE in ANY priority list to shut down a fucking spa?!   It is just inane and offensive and completely inhumane. And quite honestly, it’s the kind of thing that the gay community should care about now that it seems to have nothing uniting it anymore.  Where are the leaders, now that everyone takes PreP and we can marry a dude???  What happened to them??  Were the causes that self-focused?  The entire thing being only discussed on this random website on page 172 of one thread shows a gay community in repose, and a repose that is unflattering and privileged in the worst way.  And it is this type of repose that will be noticed by those who seek to take hard-fought rights away as soon as they get the chance. (Though, we’ve all allowed taking rights away to be put on the fast track as we’ve rolled over to every piece of “guidance” the last two years, even when it makes little to no sense).
Most of these guys who work at these spas have very few other legal options - would they prefer these men sell meth? Many are sending money to their family in whatever country they’ve come from, and now it will be more difficult. The fact that ANY person paid by the public spends even TEN MINUTES pursuing these businesses should outrage ALL of us. 

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First off, I agree entirely, but I’ll play devils advocate. Let’s pretend someone lives next to one of these spas and they think having “this type of business” reduces their value. They call the police several times. As tax paying citizens, the police owe them a follow up. 

Or let’s say someone is fearful of sex trade and thinks (incorrectly) that they are doing the workers a favor. 
 

Or let’s just say someone is an asshole but they are on a mission and call the cops repeatedly. 
 

The reality is that these shops are illegal, not only for the sex trade concerns but because I can’t imagine more than 10% actually have licenses to perform massage. Enjoy that this option (and so many of them) exist. NY is the ONLY city in the US where this remotely exists. 

I’m seeking a massage this evening at Utopia. I am looking for young, thin twinky asian. If you know of someone there please let me know. Thanks 

1 hour ago, urbanfetish said:

I was able to make a last minute appointment at Energy Spa the other day. I have had a couple of massages by Jack recently and was happy to be able to see him again. He is Thai, and while his massage style does have some Western influences, I was still transported to Bangkok while he he gave a very nice "Thai style" massage starting from the feet and working his way up.  I don't usually think of the masseurs at Energy Spa as having any decent skills but Jack the exception to the norm. 

Can you tell me more about Jack physically? Thin? Young? 

I visited Energy Men Spa on 23rd St in Chelsea. I like guys who are more on the younger/twink side so they told me they had a new young guy, JJ. 
 

Relatively cute, certainly sweet and tried but not experienced. He knows his job, but doesn’t know how to really make it amazing. 
 

Functionally, all checked out. But I definitely wouldn’t return to him. 

On 10/7/2021 at 11:33 AM, BuffaloKyle said:

Another thing I don't get into is calling or being called while sucking dick a "faggot cock-sucker, sissy, bitch, slut, trash, etc." I just am not a demeaning person.

I don’t think the point here was to say what you are into or not. I am not into fisting, but I don’t judge those who are. 
 

Some guys love to be called those things IN THE BEDROOM, but would fight tooth and nails if someone on the streets called them those names. It is a fetish. 

So apparently this event is happening in NYC this weekend. You buy tickets in advance as a stallion or mare. The mares pay to be filled by several bare cocks and bred all day long. 
 

This is definitely a “thing” for some guys. I had a guy who wanted me to watch sports while he sucked me off. I was especially into the game too so I couldn’t really focus on his sucking but it also made me last longer which he enjoyed. 

LA scene is very different from NY scene in this department. The spas you refer to in LA are nearly bath houses that have attendants. Though there are folks here who are more experienced with those than I am, that is not where a bulk of spa life is for gay New Yorkers. 
 

In NYC, the spas most talk about are massage shops only. There aren’t locker rooms. You go to a front desk, they escort you to a room where a massage table is present. They MAY have a table shower, but otherwise you get a massage and you leave. 
 

Your definition of hot is clearly subjective. Some think young twink Asians are hot. Others think masculine Latinos are hot. 
 

25 minutes ago, BritSD said:

"kind of problematic" is an understatement

Any fetish based on a) someone's race/ethnicity that involves b) demeaning them is completely dehumanizing them. @NYMassageAddict has a real problem

This is why I posed the question. I am open to the fact that this “fetish” is an issue and may say something about me. But I also have interacted with asian guys who seek it out and the role play aspect is mutually fun. 
 

Regardless, don’t crucify me for bringing it up. I am open to feedback. From more than one perspective. 
 

thanks for yours 

I don’t know what is crossing a line on here, especially in today’s climate, but while I’m a liberal and push for diversity and equity, I have a strong fetish for Asian guys who love to be talked to in a demeaning way sexually. 
 

anyone else? 

On 10/2/2021 at 6:08 PM, RubMyThighs said:

I dunno. What self-respecting Asian guy would call himself Oriental?

In London, they do differentiate East Asian (Chinese, Japanese, Korean) by calling themselves Oriental. Asian is usually reserved for Indian. 

Does anyone know of any spas in Flushing or elsewhere in Queens with male masseurs? 
 

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If you’ve been reading for a while my guess is that you know there’s a 155 page topic on NYC spas. Maybe you should read some of those. 

On 7/18/2021 at 8:07 PM, db66 said:

Another from the Japanese massage studio series...sorry if it's a duplicate, but I do not recall seeing this client's hairy ass before. 😋

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/647879/japanese-massage/

And another .... two masseurs, two clients ...

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/646578/massage-and-fuck-2/

I would really love to be a customer in this spa. To have a glimpse of what’s happening next door and just lay back and enjoy. 

On 7/28/2021 at 6:49 AM, JoeMendoza said:

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/314150/super-massagem-tantra-2/

I love these videos. I just wish they would show it through ejaculation. 

I used to have a guy in Chicago who had an insane shower set up in his home. He would bathe me when we were done. But my worst shower story happened in Bangkok where it’s more customary to shower before and after a massage. Sometimes with the masseur, sometimes alone. 
 

I left the massage room to go shower. Only when I paid afterwards did I realize I had 500 Baht stolen from me. I’m too lazy now to even check what that was worth but it still pisses me off. 
 

On 7/10/2021 at 11:32 AM, Fridolf said:

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5eb506aa9438d

I hate when a guy can’t get off from a masseur’s hand. Man when I get an expert hand teasing me, it’s more a challenge to hold off. 

4 hours ago, Cure69 said:

I wish NYC had a spa like this, I'd most definitely go.

Decent number of lady boy thai spas in LA if you ever visit. 

I need a really nice (lots of teasing) massage from a thin younger Asian masseur this week. Anyone have a specific spa/masseur recommendation for me? 
 

Maybe there’s a business opportunity awaiting. 

There has to be an Asian spa with male masseurs in Vegas. Come on. This is the adult playground. 

Is anyone into dirty talk for words that are more medically appropriate? 
 

For some reason, if someone says something like “I’m going to masturbate your penis and make your erection ejaculate” - it drives me damn wild. 
 

Any others out there that have this similar fetish? Any specific trigger words that turn you on? Love to hear. 

I recently had a massage at Energy Men Spa. The place is average in terms of facilities but will always hold a special place in my heart as it was one of the first spas I visited in NYC. It had been a while so I stopped by. They were busy but the guy at the desk said he could accommodate me. I had to wait maybe 10 minutes in the room then he made it. 

We both wore masks and he started out draping me with a towel. Rubbed over the towel and moved it to rub my back, then raised it over my back to rub my legs. As he rubbed up my legs he would rub his hand under my leg higher and higher. His hands were so soft. 
 

Eventually, he has me turn over on my back where he finishes the massage very nicely. He seemed so proud of his work. 
 

I loved it. Tipped well and thanked him. Will return. 

I recommend Energy Men Spa. 

Energy Men’s Spa is seemingly staffing with new guys. Always enjoy meeting a new crew. If anyone has any experience with Alvin or Roger, I’d be curious to hear.